Robert William Shayer

Robert William Shayer obituary, Berlin, MD

Robert William Shayer

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St. John Neuman

11211 Beauchamp Rd., Berlin, MD 21811

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Robert Shayer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Burbage Funeral Home - Berlin on Mar. 26, 2026.
Robert William "Bob" Shayer, Jr., of Berlin, Maryland passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 22, 2026 surrounded by his family. Born on January 30, 1943 in Fitchburg, Massachusetts. He was the son of the late Robert Shayer Sr. and Leona (Roy) Shayer.

Robert is survived by his loving wife of 56 years, Kathleen (Merbler) Shayer, his sons Kevin (Pamela) of Florida and Brian of Sweden; his five beloved grandchildren - Ryan, Brendan, Oliver, Colin, Jenny, his step sister, Emily Clark of Delaware and many cousins, nieces and nephews.

In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by his sister Nancy (Shayer) Ensenat.

Throughout his life Robert was known for his passion for gardening, card playing, and cooking.

A proud graduate of Villanova University, Robert's devotion to the Wildcats was legendary among family and friends. Whether it was basketball season or football Saturdays he never missed a game. His Villanova gear was worn with pride and his enthusiasm for the Wildcats became a cherished family tradition.

Robert spent his career in the insurance industry. In retirement he dedicated his time to family, friends, travel, gardening and the simple joy of being near the ocean.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday April 9th at 1pm at St. John Neumann Church, 11211 Beauchamp Rd., Berlin, MD 21811.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Robert will be deeply missed by his family and friends.

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Upcoming Events

Apr

9

Mass of Christian Burial

1:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m.

St. John Neuman

11211 Beauchamp Rd., Berlin, MD 21811

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Services provided by

Burbage Funeral Home - Berlin