Ruth Helms O'Kelly

1923 - 2013

Ruth Helms O'Kelly

1923 - 2013

BORN

1923

DIED

2013

Ruth O'Kelly Obituary

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Mrs. Ruth Helms O'Kelly, 90, passed away Wednesday, September 25, 2013. She was born in Union County, NC on August 18, 1923 daughter of the late Octavius " Dock" and Lillie Boone Helms. Mrs. O'Kelly was preceded in death by her husband of 60 years, Luther Anderson O'Kelly. Mrs. O'Kelly was a retired employee of the Union County School system, in food service, a graduate of Benton Heights High School, a member of Memorial United Methodist Church. She enjoyed spending time with her family. The family will receive friends Sunday, September 29, 2013 from 2:30 PM until 3:45 PM at Gordon Funeral Service, 1904 Lancaster Ave., Monroe, NC. A graveside funeral service will be held at 4:00 PM Sunday in Lakeland Memorial Park. Mrs. O'Kelly is survived by her son, Robert "Bob" O'Kelly and wife Brenda of Monroe, daughter, Debbie Gladden and husband Carl of Fredericksburg, VA, brother, Charles Wilson Helms of High Point, grandchildren, Robin Ross, Tammy Mosley, Christy Hough, Wendy Bunch, Jason Gladden and Dr. Paul Gladden and 12 great grandchildren. The family would like to thank the staff of Hillcrest Rest Home for their loving care of their mother. Memorials may be made to Hillcrest Rest Home, 4123 Hillcrest Church Rd., Monroe, NC 28110, Hospice of Union County, 700 W. Roosevelt Blvd., Monroe, NC 28110 or the Alzheimer's Association, 3800 Shamrock Dr., Charlotte, NC 28215-3220. Online condolences may be made at www.gordonfuneralservice.com

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Gordon Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe

1904 Lancaster Avenue, Monroe, NC 28112

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Karen

September 28, 2013

It is very difficult to lose our love ones to death. Please examine Acts 5:28,29 to gain what is real comfort.

September 27, 2013

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Your mom was such a sweet lady and will be missed by many. Joyce and Jack Hess

September 27, 2013

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Ruth will always be in our hearts- we love her and you. God Bless You. Sincerely, Susie and Steve Layton and Helen Donovan

Jeanne Grab

September 27, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Ruth was loved by so many because of her kind heart - her spirit will live on - may this be a comfort to you all. Love, Jeanne

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September 27, 2013

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