Sandra Virginia Abfall (nee Max), of St. Peters, MO, passed away Sunday, March 1, 2026, at the age of 84. Beloved wife of the late Donald J, Abfall; cherished daughter of the late George and Virginia Max; devoted mother of Jeffrey Abfall and Michael (Angela) Abfall; loving grandmother of Andrew Abfall. Sandra is preceded in death by her dear brother, George Max.
Sandra had a deep love for travel and embraced every opportunity to explore new places, creating cherished memories along the way. She was a devoted and active member of her church community, where her faith, kindness, and generous spirit touched countless lives. Known for her warm heart and selflessness, Sandra was always ready to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. Above all, she was a doting and proud grandmother whose greatest joy came from spending time with her beloved grandson. Sandra was dearly loved and will be profoundly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her, but her legacy of love, compassion, and grace will live on in the hearts of those she leaves behind.
Memorials may be made in Sandra's name to a veteran's or children's charity of donor's choice.
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