Sandra "Sandy" Hespe

Sandra "Sandy" Hespe

Sandra Hespe Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Amory Funeral Home - Yorktown on Feb. 22, 2025.

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Sandra "Sandy" Hespe, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, educator, and dear friend, passed away peacefully on February 19th, 2025. She was 79.
Sandy was the cherished wife of Ken Hespe for 54 years. Together, they led a wonderful and adventurous life, enjoying boating, pooltime, and traveling both across the United States and abroad. Their journey together was filled with love, laughter, and countless cherished memories for sure.
She was the loving mother of Jennifer K. Frazier and David M. Hespe and a devoted grandmother to Madison K. Dillard, whom she adored. Family was at the heart of Sandy's life, and she treasured the time spent with her loved ones.
A dedicated educator in the York County School Division, Sandy was a role model and mentor to many young educators and students. She gave selflessly to the education community, shaping countless lives with her guidance, wisdom, and encouragement. She was admired not only for her intellect and dedication but also for her kindness, generosity, and unwavering support of those around her.
Sandy was known for her warm smile, her friendly and welcoming nature, and her ability to make everyone feel valued. She was a dear friend to many and was deeply loved and respected. Her presence brought joy and comfort, and her legacy of love and compassion will live on in the hearts of those who knew her.
A visitation to celebrate Sandy's life will be held at Amory Funeral Home in Yorktown, VA, on February 25th from 2 pm – 4 pm. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Shriner's Hospital in her honor.
Sandy's kindness, wisdom, and loving spirit will be greatly missed, but the impact she made on her family, friends, and students will never be forgotten.

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February 24, 2025

Christina Majka posted to the memorial.

February 24, 2025

Jennifer Romanelli posted to the memorial.

February 22, 2025

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Christina Majka

February 24, 2025

Sandy's support of the CTE program in York County was unrivaled. We were so lucky to have her as our leader, but even more impactful - she was our friend. She often spoke of her family, you all were so cherished. Sending my sincere condolences as we mourn this great loss. A legacy gift has been donated in her name to the Shriners Hospital from Tabb High School. Her legacy will never be forgotten.

Jennifer Romanelli

February 24, 2025

Sandy was a beloved colleague, mentor, and friend. When I was starting my journey as a Career and Technical Education (CTE) administrator, Sandy was always someone I could call upon for advice. I looked forward to attending regional meetings and conferences because I knew I would get to see Sandy. Even after she retired, we continued to meet periodically for lunch and to catch up. She frequently shared stories about her family whom she loved deeply. I feel blessed to have known Sandy, to have laughed with her, and to have shared our passion for CTE.

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