Sandra Smalling Obituary
Sandra Smalling, born on April 17, 1959, in Port Jefferson, New York, passed away on November 3, 2025. She was a loving mother and grandmother, whose warmth and kindness touched the lives of everyone she met.
Sandra is survived by her son, Ronald Smalling, and her daughter, Ashley Ambroise, alongside her husband, James. She was a cherished grandmother to her grandchildren, Jayden, Ariana, and Aubree, who brought her immense joy and pride.
Throughout her life, Sandra demonstrated unwavering dedication to her family, nurturing a bond that will be cherished forever. Her legacy of compassion and love will continue to resonate in the hearts of her family and friends, making her memory one that will be held dearly for generations to come.
As we remember Sandra, let us celebrate the beautiful life she led, marked by her devotion to her loved ones and her ability to uplift those around her. Her spirit will remain with us, guiding and inspiring us in our daily lives.
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