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2025

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Jerold Smalling Obituary

Jerold L. "Jerry" Smalling, 76, of Belleville, IL passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving family, on Saturday August 16, 2025. Jerry was born on July 23, 1949, in East St Louis, IL to Lloyd and Jennie (Wrubel) Smalling and his parents precede him in death. He was also preceded in death by his sister Sandy Smalling, and his brother-in-law, Patrick Patton.

Jerry graduated from Belleville West High School. His professional life was spent as a general contractor in the Belleville area from 1978 until his retirement in 2018. Jerry was a member of St Teresa of the Child Jesus Catholic Church in Belleville for many years.

Family was very important to Jerry, and he cherished the time he spent with his children and grandchildren. Jerry loved water sports and taught all his children and grandchildren how to swim. In his later years, Jerry found great interest in assembling and flying RC airplanes and helicopters. Jerry was young at heart and loved all things Disney World, a passion he passed on to his children and grandchildren. Most of all, Jerry will be remembered as a devoted and loving husband, father, grandfather, brother and dear friend of many.

He will be deeply missed by all those who knew and loved him.

Left to cherish his memory is his wife of 52 years, Deborah J. " Debby" Smalling; his children , Heather David and Jeremy Smalling; his grandchildren, Taylor David, Gabrielle ( Bryce) Beckmann, Tess David and Andrew David; his siblings, Dennis (Gayle) Smalling, Joanne (Dwain) Knollman, Teasha Smalling -Patton and Tim Smalling, in addition to many nieces, nephews, extended family and many friends.

Per his wishes, cremation has taken place. The family to hold a private celebration of life at a later date.

Memorial contributions in memory of Jerry Smalling may be directed to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital online at www.stjude.org or by mail: 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Hoffen Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Belleville News-Democrat from Aug. 19 to Aug. 20, 2025.

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Bob Bruss

August 23, 2025

May you rest in peace. I was member of class of 67 at township knew jerry wonderful man.

Kathi Jenkins Grant

August 22, 2025

Debby,I am so very sorry to read of your husbands passing. Condolances to you and your family.

Alicia Carmack

August 20, 2025

He will be dearly missed. He was one of my favorite patients.

JoAnne

August 19, 2025

I'll miss your wry sense of humor and that shy, dimpled grin that was just barely visible when you were telling some far-fetched story and trying to keep a straight face. We all had our moments growing up but that's sibling life, and we all miraculously survived. I love you, dear brother.

Nickie

August 19, 2025

My condolences for your loss.

My mother is his sister Sandy who passed away.

Seeing his picture I can see my mother.

So sorry...

Jeremy Smalling

August 19, 2025

Jerry is the best dad in the world and my best friend. He is greatly missed. I love you dad. Your son, Jeremy.

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