Stacey Lynn Wilhelm

Stacey Lynn Wilhelm obituary

Stacey Lynn Wilhelm

Stacey Wilhelm Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Chapel Oaks Funeral Home - Holton on Oct. 10, 2025.

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Stacey Lynn Wilhelm, 44, of Mayetta, passed away peacefully on Monday morning, October 6, 2025, in the comfort of her own home after a hard fought battle against pancreatic cancer.

She was born on January 30, 1981 in Marysville, the daughter of G. N. and Jeannie Battke Hardman.

Stacey worked at Big Mike's Diner and later the Computer Doctors, both in Holton.

She married Matthew Wilhelm on May 12, 2022 on the lovely Anna Maria Island. He survives, of the home.

Stacey was a very personable and caring individual, with a heart almost too large. She was seen by many as a kind and warm woman.

Other survivors include a son-in-law, Rami Alaadel, her daughters, Breanna Alaadel and Caitlin Gouge, and her four grandsons.

A private Celebration of Life for Stacey will be held by invitation only. Please contact Matthew Wilhelm or Caitlin Gouge at 785-305-0452. Memorials are suggested to the American Red Cross, in care of Chapel Oaks Funeral Home, PO Box 1034, Holton, KS 66436. Flowers, cards and other expressions of sympathy may be dropped off or sent to The Computer Doctors at 907 W 4th St., in Holton.

"Oh how lucky I feel to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard."

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Kathy Miller (Gibeson)

October 12, 2025

To Matt and the families,
I am so very sorry to hear this. My condolences to all of you. Angie is a cousin to you, Matt, and she told me about it. My heart goes out to you all.

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