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This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.
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Kevin Wuollet
November 7, 2006
Stanley was my Stepfather's brother I didn't get to know him till about 4 years ago. When Alanna told me to call him and also Alanna was staying with him. I had some great conversations with him. I felt I was relearning what life should be. I just started a couple of businesses and he had some good ideas. One was teaching young children karate. He told me once to get balloons and make animals and different things I couldn't figure out a Martial art exercise for balloons but I saw a game using balloons that I use to this day. I didn't know he was a expert at makeing balloon animals and figures till now. I now miss him.
Brianna Atherton
November 6, 2006
I have many wonderful memories of my grandparents, Stanley and Marvel. Over the past few days, I have been blessed with family, friends, and strangers that have shared their wonderful memories. I always knew my grandparents were caring people, but I didn't know just how many lives they touched. They lead a life to be proud of.
While I am sad to say goodbye to Grandpa, I am very happy to know that he is once again with my Grandma.
With Love,
Brianna
John Chuck
November 5, 2006
Thanks to Stanley and Marvel for having the vision and generosity to sponsor the initial Lee Loy family reunions. I still remember the first one in Port Ludlow, WA. What an accomplished, funny, and welcoming extended family. I'm lucky to have married into it!
NANCY WYATT
November 5, 2006
I can remember visiting from Washington, going to dinner with Stan, Marvel and Siu Linn. Remember always going to the factory and getting the rice candy. Very Special Friends. Stan, you will be very missed by Mom and me and you are joining Dad in Heaven as he passed away also on Oct. 22 and funeral was Oct. 26. How ironic is that when two good friends meet like that once again. Ruth Nelson, Richland, Wash.
Nancy Nelson Wyatt, Colville, Wash.
Siu Linn
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Vincent Mar
November 2, 2006
I was lucky to meet with you these years. I always remenber your smiling face when you made balloons for kids. I know you enjoyed doing that, to bring happiness to others, and yourself! You will always with us!
Peter Lamm
November 2, 2006
I met Stanley but so briefly and years ago now but in only an instant marked my soul as one who cared deeply. May you rest in peace and find every reward in heaven.
CAAM
November 2, 2006
A 20th century pioneer of the Chinese community in Minnesota, Stanley's vision, compassion and civic-mindedness is a role model for future generations to come. CAAM and all Chinese in Minnesota will forever be indebted to you. You've left a legacy that is indelible. We will miss you deeply !
YuChing Lo
November 2, 2006
I got to know Stanley since I started joining the Chinese American Association of Minnesota many years ago. He had a generous heart, sincere and warm, and was always willing to help the community. I missed him very much, and I can still see his smiling face and hear his witty response when Julie and I visited him recently. He will be remembered by all of us.
David Wang
November 2, 2006
You had a great life, a life touching so many others. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Siu-Linn Chong
November 2, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Barbara Woo Wong-Bjornaas
November 1, 2006
My condolences and prayers are with you Sui Linn and family, but at the same time I have happiness in knowing that your parents are now with mine again. As you have said, "They are cooking up a storm and planning their next meal while doing so". How happy and content they must be!
Lisa & James Walton
October 31, 2006
We only met Stanley a couple times, through his niece, Alanna. He was so proud to show off his home to us, and to tell us grand stories of his family's history and culture. Stanley will be greatly missed by his family and the community, both of which he cared for greatly.
kym Macfarlane
October 30, 2006
I was a lucky gal to have such wonderful grandparents. I am happy to think that they are together again; but deeply sadden that he is gone. I will miss him always and never forget all the good times we had at Lake Sarah.
Bill and Marilyn Hopkins
October 29, 2006
We will miss you very much but know you are now in no pain and with your love Marvel. We had so many great times at our cabins on Lake Sarah and our unforgetable trip to Lake of the Woods on Pete's Cabin Boat. What wonderful memories we have of you and Marvel. God Bless.
Bruce Schulzetenberg
October 29, 2006
In the brief time I knew him, Stanley impressed me as a noble and honorable man with clever wit. He told me he was born on Valentine's Day and that his middle name was Valentine. Considering his generous heart, this seemed appropriate. Please accept my sympathy.
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