Stephen Howard "Herbie" Henderson

Stephen Howard "Herbie" Henderson obituary, Manchester, IA

Stephen Howard "Herbie" Henderson

Stephen Henderson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Iowa Cremation - Cedar Rapids on Jan. 6, 2026.
Stephen Howard "Herbie" Henderson came into the world on July 5, 1948, the son of Herbert Guy Henderson and Catherine L. Sedgwick of Manchester.

He was taught to leave things better than he found them, which is what he did by the time he left this earth on November 11, 2025. He taught his children more about critical thinking with his persistent "Is that right?" than all their college classes combined. He is survived by his brother, Nick Manson (Des Moines); son, Steven J. Henderson (Des Moines); daughters, Michele Jahncke and Richele Baburina (both of Kingsport, Tenn.); stepson, Eric Loney, Manchester; and approximately 37 pairs of his signature overalls.

Stephen was preceded in death by his parents; and sisters, Pat Mefferd and Judi Henderson.

Wild at heart, he was a horse whisperer, carpenter, artist, outdoorsman, and man of passion who later became a stoic. He was a traveler that lived most of his life in Manchester, Cedar Rapids, and the surrounding area.

Hunter S. Thompson wrote, "Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!"

We don't know for certain if Herbie read Thompson, but the pulse of his life carries the very fragrance of those words. While there are many anecdotes about our father, the majority are not fit for print. We hope you will raise a glass and either remember him fondly or forgive him. His ashes will be scattered by his children in a private ceremony.

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Nancy Lahr

January 13, 2026

So sorry to hear of Herbies passing. We knew Herbie since the 60's with many good times and shenanigans with him. He was one of the "Skelly Boys" who were group of friends in Manchester who hung out at Skelly Station. Reconnected after moving back to Iowa. Picture is of my late husband, Chuck at our anniversary party along with his friends Bill and Paul.

Dennis Wegner

January 8, 2026

So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. !!His obit says it and is true to the Herbie I new! He was a good friend and will be missed! Rest in peace my dear friend.

Devin Drew

January 6, 2026

I am very sorry for the loss of Steve. I started working with him back in 2000 at Walmart until his retirement. We definitely went through the Blood, Sweat, & Tears that life can throw at everyone. I too have stories to tell, but it would be a book by the time I typed it all out. He definitely made life more bearable at Walmart for everyone. -Devin Drew/maintenance.

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