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Paul J. Brannon
July 25, 2024
I worked for him as a baliff on and off for three years. I have been to his house and drank a beer with him as well as supper with him, my wife, granddaughter and Virginia Cochran who was my Judge. He will be missed and I feel bad. I also watched him at a horse show in Cheseapeake with my granddaughter. I know he was having eye issues. I will miss him!
rich spence
April 4, 2024
I didn't know Tom personally though I was at PA in 1962 and graduated in 1964. I knew who he was though...he was a popular guy in the school. Lately, I've been getting in touch with some of my old high school and college friends to see how they've managed during these last 60 plus years. So, when I came across Tom's obit, I was really impressed with all that he accomplished. But, what really got my attention was his Civil Rights work in Mobile, Alabama in 1970! Wow, that is so impressive. I'm sure your family will miss him, but I hope you never forget the efforts he made to improve our culture and our society, helping those who in those dark days couldn't help themselves in the Deep South. God Bless...
Ginna Katkaveck
April 2, 2024
So many memories! Will truly miss my dear friend
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Lucy Ballard
April 2, 2024
I have so many fond memories of Tom from the last six years when I began coming to his house once or twice a week to help him with things he could no longer do because of his failing eyesight. We quickly became friends because Tom was so much fun to share time with - witty, intellectual and very kind. Our days together always included lunch out, Big Sam´s at Rudee Inlet being his top choice because he enjoyed the atmosphere and the raw oysters. The waitresses there loved him because of his generosity, humor and interest in their lives. I always said a prayer before eating and he would reprimand me if I ever forgot!
Tom had a playful spirit and many times during lunch we would play a game we called Word of the Day, from an email game I followed. We almost never knew the meaning of the word because that was the point. The word was always something very obscure. But Tom would come close many times in his guesses and then he would insist on using the word all day in our conversations which was sometimes hilarious!
Tom told me so many stories about his dogs, his childhood, and his adventures in England, sailing in the tropics, and his favorite - time spent in the western US. He felt a deep bond with that part of our country and particularly a place called Squaw Valley.
Tom loved so much about life - he loved all animals, especially dogs, cats and horses. He often said he couldn´t imagine a world without dogs. They show us how to love. He also loved music, books and art. We frequented all the art galleries and shops nearby and he loved purchasing any painting or print that caught his eye. His house is full of them and they all mean something special to him.
We had many discussions about books we´d read and why they were important and what we learned from them. His music tastes leaned towards folk music and country ballads including people like John Denver, Johnny Cash, Simon & Garfunkel and Woody Guthrie. I think his favorite song of all time is "This Land is my Land. "
Although Tom´s constant "uniform" was a button down collared shirt and khakis. I think his heart always belonged to the western U.S. where horses run free and there is a sense of freedom in the air. I believe he would agree with a famous quote of Henry David Thoreau...
"Heaven is under our feet as well as over our heads."
R P Watkins
March 30, 2024
Judge Tom was a wonderful and caring person. A very patient and kind man~
Jay Wood
March 30, 2024
A true southern gentleman in every respect. Tom was always such a kind man. He was interested in what you had to say and he was so interesting to listen too. Rest easy Judge, your life well lived.
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