Mr. Thomas Roland Burd

Mr. Thomas Roland Burd obituary, Palm Desert, CA

Mr. Thomas Roland Burd

Thomas Burd Obituary

Published by Forest Lawn - Cathedral City on May 9, 2020.
On Saturday, May 9, 2020, Thomas Roland Burd, loving husband, father of three children and grandfather of five grandchildren, passed away at the age of 83 in Rancho Mirage, California. Tom was born October 22, 1936, to Charles Roland Burd and Ellen Lucille (Gallup) Burd in Ann Arbor, Michigan.  He was one of two children. As a youngster, Tom played several sports and the piano while having good times with friends and family at the Bolgos Family Farm.  He was part of Tau Kappa Epsilon ("The Tekes") fraternity and graduated from Western Michigan University in 1959 with a B.S. in Business.  Shortly after graduating, he would join the Army and remain in the reserves until the mid-1960's. Tom went on to have a long successful career in insurance, serving 41 years as a claims manager for State Farm Insurance.  He began his career in 1960 in the Michigan Region.  Recognized for his good work in auto and fire, Tom was selected for various positions, including claim representative, claim specialist, claim superintendent, and divisional claim superintendent.  In 1978, Tom moved to the Westlake Region in Southern California to become a fire division manager.  As Fire Division Manager, he helped develop the Region's special disaster program and lead the Company through "The Painted Cave Fire" in Santa Barbara, California, in 1990.  He later returned to Michigan in 1995 after being selected for the position of Fire Claim Manager and would go on to finish his career as Auto Claim Manager for the Outstate Division.  He was known by many to be a mentor and friend, helping several people grow and become managers within the Company. In 2001, Tom would retire with Sue, his wife of 43 years, to Sun City Palm Desert to enjoy the warm California sunshine, play golf and enjoy family and friends.  Over the years, Tom was a member of the Elks Lodge, coached youth sports and supported several charitable organizations.  An avid sports fan, Tom had a passion early on for softball and golf.  He enjoyed watching the games he loved, especially, football, basketball and baseball.  His fondness for University of Michigan athletics was second to none.  Over the years, he attended several home Michigan football games and his fair share of Rose Bowls, tailgating with family and friends.  Good times that he would always reflect on.  He always cherished January 1, 1998, when Michigan won the Rose Bowl and its first college football national championship in 50 years. A man of faith, Tom would go to mass with family years before officially joining the Catholic Church in 2005.  He built great friendships through the Church and belonged to several parishes over the years, including St. Paschal Baylon (Thousand Oaks, California), St. Philip's (Battle Creek, Michigan) and Sacred Heart (Palm Desert, California). His family and friends knew him to be smart, kind, funny and loving (even if you were a Buckeye or Spartan).  He loved life and was especially proud of watching his grandchildren grow up over the years, both near and far.  He is preceded in death by his son Chuck Burd (2017) and is survived by his wife Sue Burd, daughter Cheri Molnar (Jim Molnar) and son T.J. Burd (Lee Ann Burd), daughter-in-law Angela Burd, grandchildren Jaclyn Molnar, Jamie Molnar, Spencer Burd, Samantha Burd and Jake Burd, brother Dick Burd and several nieces and nephews. Tom, you are a victor valiant, a conquering hero, the leader and best, and forever, the champion of the West.  May God drape his loving arms over you.  You will always be missed and never forgotten.  We all love you!  Go Blue!

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Thomas Burd's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

May 25, 2020

Dan and Mary Snyder posted to the memorial.

May 20, 2020

Barbara McDougal posted to the memorial.

May 19, 2020

Lori and Joe Sepanik posted to the memorial.

Dan and Mary Snyder

May 25, 2020

In listening to the impassioned eulogies by the family, I was moved to add my comments on a close business associate and a very dear friend.

My initial introduction to Tom was not personal but came about when I replaced him as a State Farm Claim Rep in Midland Michigan. Soon thereafter I had the opportunity to personally meet Tom in State Farms regional office in Marshall Michigan. It did not take long for both a professional and personal relationship to develop. Over the next 20+ years I either worked with or for Tom as we followed each other across the country. Over that time, we grew close as friends, our families shared time together, and like so many other of Toms friends we were also bonded as die-hard Michigan Wolverine fans. While in Michigan we shared many games in the Big House, and in California witnessed a number of Rose Bowl appearances as well.

When you share so much both at work and at play and witness each others families grow you seem to develop a feeling that such a relationship will just always be there. Of course, thats not the way it works and thus we like everyone mourn the passing of a dear friend. Sue, our deepest sympathy to you and the family you will always be in our prayers and please let us know if ever there is anything we can do.

May God rest and bless this gentle man. Rest in peace my dear friend (Go Blue indeed!!)

Mary and Dan

Barbara McDougal

May 20, 2020

What a guy! An infectious smile, love of family and quite the sense of humor. I had the privilege of visiting Tom and Sue 40 years ago in Thousand Oaks when Sue s sister Helen stayed with them. Forty years ago, Tom offered me a plum, of course I said No Thank You because I had never had one. If you know me, Im very picky so I always answer no when Im afraid to try anything. For the rest of my trip, and whenever our paths would cross, Tom would offer me a plum, even if he had none to offer! Sue would chuckle, and hed leave me alone. Maybe someday Tom Ill try one, but at the age of 60, Ive never had a plum! Until we meet again! Barb Napolitan-McDougal, Port Huron, Michigan

Lori and Joe Sepanik

May 19, 2020

Meeting Tom and Sue when we moved to Sun City in 2002, was one of the best things to happen to us. We found we had much in common but the best was getting together and having a "toddy." A toast to you my friend, GO BLUE
Much Love, Joe and Lori Sepanik

Staci Singleton

May 19, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Beautiful service to honor Tom. Hope to see you all again soon. Love, Staci and Luke

Lucas Singleton

May 19, 2020

Thinking of Tom and the rest of the family. Very nice service. Miss you all.

Caitlin Gerlach

May 19, 2020

In loving memory of a great, kind and wonderful man. Ill never forget our donut runs and all the happy memories shared. We will love you and miss you always Uncle Tom. Rest in Paradise.

April Hawkins

May 19, 2020

Our hearts are with you, your family and friends as God embraces you with open arms. May all of the love, laughs and eternal memories live on in everyone's heart that you touched in one way or another; spoken or felt.

Patti Montemer

May 19, 2020

Dear Sue, TJ and Cheri: The loss of a husband and father leaves a big hole in the heart. One that is never filled. You eventually adjust to a new life that always has that missing piece - which is always a remembrance and is filled with love. I remember Tom at many Thanksgiving dinners watching the football fare and enthusiastically cheering on his favorite team. My prayers for Tom - rest peacefully and lovingly in the Lord. You are all in my thoughts and prayers now and through the days ahead. God bless you all - Patti

Helen Singleton

May 19, 2020

I want you to know you meant the world to us. Little did we know how blessed we were when you joined our family. There are no words to describe the loss we all feel. As a Brother-in-Law and an Uncle, we could not have asked for better! Our hearts will hurt when we hear your name but our memories of you will put smiles on our faces. All the stats you kept us up to date on, our rivalry and the banter we shared. That gosh forsaken color scheme your wardrobe was draped in...I know you were color blind! I'm told it will live on through your son! I must admit he has an unfair advantage with you as his 12th man! It won't be the same without you but I know you will always be by our side. Thank you for everything Tom. Thank you for loving and caring for my Sister the way you did, for raising incredible children, for always being there to lend an ear or give an encouraging word. Thank you for brightening our lives and the lives of so many who crossed your path. You will truly be missed! I know you entered heavens gates shouting GO BLUE so I will finish with GO GREEN!

Neil and Ellen Lucas

May 18, 2020

Tom, the best brother-in-law...ever!
Love,
Neil and Ellen

Luke & Staci's Wedding Aug. 2019

Helen Singleton

May 18, 2020

2016: Dad with Samantha & Jake outside Michigan Stadium on his 80th birthday.

T.J. Burd

May 18, 2020

2016: Heading to the "Big House" to be with 110,000+ of our closest friends.

T.J. Burd

May 18, 2020

2016: Dad pointing to the 1998 Rose Bowl program at the Towsley Museum inside Schembechler Hall. Michigan would win its first college football national championship in 50 years at that game.

T.J. Burd

May 18, 2020

2016: Dad, Samantha & Jake outside Schembechler Hall in Ann Arbor.

T.J. Burd

May 18, 2020

T.J. Burd

May 18, 2020

Dad, I will always remember the great memories we had. We saw a lot of great games and players over the years. I will miss our talks, especially after a U of M game. You taught me so much in life. I can never thank you enough. You will be missed by so many. You are now with the angels. I love you. Go Blue!

Showing 1 - 17 of 17 results

Forest Lawn - Cathedral City

69855 East Ramon Road, Cathedral City, CA 92234

Make a Donation
in Thomas Burd's name

How to support Thomas's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Thomas Burd's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Thomas Burd's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

May 25, 2020

Dan and Mary Snyder posted to the memorial.

May 20, 2020

Barbara McDougal posted to the memorial.

May 19, 2020

Lori and Joe Sepanik posted to the memorial.