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Thomas J. "Tom" Chiaffa Jr. obituary

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Oct. 18, 2025

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Parish Of St John Neumann At St Raymond's RC Church

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Thomas Chiaffa Obituary

Chiaffa Thomas J. 'Tom', Jr. Thomas J. 'Tom' Chiaffa, Jr. passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by his loving children on Thursday, September 25, 2025, in Villas, New Jersey. Tom was born in Southwest Philadelphia, PA, on March 10, 1937 to Natalie and Thomas. Tom attended Most Blessed Sacrament grade school and West Catholic High School in Philadelphia. Right out of high school, Tom joined the United States Air Force serving in North Dakota and Okinawa, Japan. He had an honorary discharge with a medal of good behavior. When Tom returned, he started working at The Philadelphia Inquirer and received his apprenticeship as a General Foreman of the Composing Room. Tom thoroughly enjoyed working for the Philadelphia Inquirer for 47 years, where he met so many great lifelong and dear friends. Tom took American Sign Language courses, where he became fluent, so to communicate with his hearing-impaired family members and co-workers. Tom retired in December 2000. Tom was an avid skier and thoroughly enjoyed fishing, crabbing, ballroom dancing, bowling, playing pinochle and going on cruises. He enjoyed setting sail on his catamaran on the Chesapeake Bay. Tom spent 45 summers having great fun at his Seaville Shores Campground where he met many dear friends who became a close family to him. Tom was proud to be a Fourth Degree Knight with the Knights of Columbus and a Grand Knight for his council. He also spent many years as a Eucharist minister. Tom is survived by his loving children: Joseph C. Chiaffa; Patti Palumbo; Margie Guidetti (Darren); Christian Chiaffa; daughter-in-law Daria Chiaffa. Tom was the proud grandfather to his grandchildren: Diandra (Shawn), Nicky (Chrissy), Alexa (Joe), Anthony (Jessica) and Danny (Kelli). Tom's legacy further lives on through his 8 great-grandchildren: Tristan, Maddi, Dominic, Ryan, Annalea, Tommy, Sophia and Luca, who brought him immeasurable joy. Tom is survived by his loving sisters Marianne Suriani and Joan Liberi. Preceding Tom in death were his loving parents Natalie and Thomas; brothers Michael and Samuel; sister Caroline; his son, Tommy. Memorial Visitation Saturday, October 18, 2025, 10:00 A.M.- 10:45 A.M. Funeral Mass 11 A.M. at St. Raymond's Church, Bayshore and Ocean Ave., Villas, NJ 08251.

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Published by The Philadelphia Inquirer on Oct. 5, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Thomas Chiaffa

Oct

18

Memorial service

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Parish Of St John Neumann At St Raymond's RC Church

Ocean & Bayshore Rd, NJ 08251

Oct

18

Service

11:00 a.m. - 11:45 a.m.

Parish Of St John Neumann At St Raymond's RC Church

Ocean & Bayshore Rd, NJ 08251

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