Thomas Edward Decker

Thomas Edward Decker obituary

Thomas Edward Decker

Thomas Decker Obituary

Thomas Edward Decker, born on November 4, 1947, in Texas, to Edward and Audrey Sudac Decker passed away peacefully on December 1, 2025. Thomas was a graduate of Cox High School and the University of Virginia. He was a resident of Virginia Beach and worked for over 40 years at the Virginia Beach Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court where he made a positive impact on the lives of many young people.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 37 years, Beth Minton Decker. He is survived by their four sons, Christopher Decker (Megan), Jason Decker (Krissy), Ryan Decker, and Michael Decker (Aimee). He has eight grandchildren, Corey (Kara), Blaike, Hailey, Henry, Jane, Genevieve, Ozzy, and Gus, and one great-grandchild, Anya. He also leaves behind his two sisters, Audrey Bauchinger and Anne Decker; a nephew, Albert; and a niece, Jennifer.

Family, friends, and all who knew Thomas are invited to honor his memory by offering online condolences at www.altmeyerfh.com. A private memorial will be held at a later date.
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