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Dr. Thomas W. Eckel, was a psychotherapist with Bethlehem Counseling Associates and prior to that Affliates In Clinical Services in Phillipsburg, NJ. where he counseled individuals, families and couples. Tom's patients weren't just "patients" to him; they were people he truly cared about and was committed to helping.
Tom's true love was music. After obtaining his bachelor of arts in music from Berklee College of Music, Eckel took a position as a high school music teacher in New York City. He became close to many students and was treated as a de facto counselor, of sorts. Tom always said that even though he enjoyed teaching music, he realized that he found more pleasure in counseling students through their problems.” This prompted him to pursue a master of arts in school counseling from New York University. Once he accomplished this goal, Tom worked as a counselor at a Yonkers high school while pursuing his doctorate in counseling psychology from Columbia University and Argosy University.
Tom pursued his foremost passion, music, with equal fervor. He recorded five full-length CDs, each accompanied by a music video. He toured in France, Italy and Spain as well as on the East Coast. . His style has been influenced by Peter Gabriel, Billy Joel, Elton John and The Beatles, among others.
Tom's achievements can be chalked up to his drive, his ambition to succeed and his belief in education. A national board certified counselor licensed in four states, Eckel was certified in eye movement desensitization and reprocessing and is a board-certified hypnotherapist. He was member of the American Counseling Association and the Chi Sigma Iota honor society.
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Matthew
March 27, 2014
The good ones go, a mystery that has plagued mankind for centuries. Although I knew him for a short period of time, he will forever have a place in my heart undoubtedly.. I can't put into words how deeply saddened I am. Forever missed and never forgotten, thank your for everything Mr. Eckel.
December 3, 2010
I am sorry for your grief. Please know that Jehovah knows what you are going through. That is why he has offered the hope of a resurrection (John 5: 28, 29; Psalm 37:10, 11).
cindy
January 14, 2009
It's taken me this long to work on a memorial website for Tom. MySpace took its place for a time. I refused to believe that he was gone. In many ways, I still do. Tom may not be part of the physical world in which I live but he is very much a part of the spiritual world. He will NEVER be forgotten. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him, miss him, mourn his passing but at the same time smile and laugh at a memory and count my blessings for having been a part of his life. He touched so many lives in so many ways.

Tom and Cindy - (1/2007) - Night in Manhattan
January 14, 2009
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The kid that never grew up - (7/2007) - playing on trampoline !
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Koi Pond - (2007) - Our spiritual indicator
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Tom and Dita - (5/2007) - the goodbye ritual
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Tom and Dita - (5/2007) - First Anniversary
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Tom and Dita - (3/2007) - playing in the driveway
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Tom - playing piano
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Tom in the studio - (2006) - doing what he loved best
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Tom and friends - (1/2007) - Claudio, Tom and Wil
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