Howard J. Grossman, 91, of Pittston City, beloved husband of Miriam (Tobi) Balin Grossman, passed away on Monday, Jan. 26, 2026. Born in New York City, he was the son of Max and Eva Grossman. Howard grew up in Lakewood, N.J., and attended Rutgers University, graduating with degrees in economics and city planning in 1956. He went on to New York University, where he earned a Master of Public Administration.
Howard and Tobi married in Bradley Beach, N.J., on Aug. 18, 1956, and celebrated their 69th anniversary this year. Their incredible bond and love carried them through life together, raising their family, giving back to the community, and exploring the world.
From 1957-1971, Howard served as the deputy director of the Montgomery County Planning Commission. In 1971, the family moved to Dallas, where Howard became executive director of the Economic Development Council of Northeastern Pennsylvania. He led many projects that helped revitalize the region. Following retirement, Howard became executive director of Jewish Family Service of Greater Wilkes-Barre. After moving to Pittston, he joined Pittston Memorial Library as a volunteer and became its fundraising director.
An avid baseball fan, Howard served on the Board of Directors of Northeast Baseball, bringing the Red Barons to the region. He was deeply involved in the nonprofit community, serving on countless boards such as the F.M. Kirby Center, PA Association of Nonprofit Organizations, Pittston Arts Council, Wyoming Valley Art League, and the Interfaith Council. Close to his heart was an organization he founded, Grandparents Raising Grandchildren, for which he recently received an honor from the State of Pennsylvania.
Howard received numerous professional and volunteer awards throughout his life, including National Planner of the Year, and top awards from the NADO & National Assoc of Regional Councils. Additionally, he was an accomplished writer, publishing hundreds of articles for numerous media outlets across the country.
Howard was a member of Temple B'nai B'rith and, along with Tobi, founded Brith Ahim Synagogue in King of Prussia.
He is survived by his wife, Tobi; three daughters, Ellen Topiel of Cherry Hill; Michele Smertz (Alan), of Clarks Summit; and Debra Hund (Ron) of Carmel; and eight grandchildren, Carrie Topiel, Benjamin Topiel, Joshua Smertz (Audra), Michael Smertz (Natalie), Bradley Smertz (Gabi), Rachel Smertz, Ethan Hund, and Seth Hund.
At the heart of Howard's life was his love for his wife, family, and community, and his drive to make it a better place for everyone. Howard's kind and gentle spirit shone through to everyone he met. Most of all, he was a beloved father and grandfather who gave his grandkids the thrill of throwing out the first ball for The Red Barons and passed down his intense love of ice cream and chocolate. His family and friends will miss his warm smile, affectionate teasing, enthusiasm for a good book, his calming wisdom, and kind, sweet eyes. He will be missed by the countless lives he touched.
There will be a memorial service at noon Sunday, Feb. 15, in Temple B'nai Brith, 408 Wyoming Ave. Kingston. Visitation with family will start at 11:15 a.m. Shiva will be held immediately after the service. Arrangements are under the direction of Rosenberg Funeral Chapel Inc., Wilkes-Barre.
Memorial contributions can be made to Temple B'nai Brith or to the Pittston Memorial Library.
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David Palmer
March 10, 2026
I was so sorry to hear of Howard's passing today at a meeting that would have been close to his heart, one dealing with Grandparents raising Grandchildren. I only knew Howard professionally via that organization and efforts in support of it, that he worked so hard for. In Spirit.
seth
February 11, 2026
Grandad was a special person one of kind, awesome grandfather awesome father. wonderful human being that will be missed. i will miss the fun times we had going to baseball games and etc, BUT I CHERISH THE FUN TIMES WE HAD. AWESOME LEADER IN THE COMMUNITY HELPING PEOPLE WHO NEEDED HELP. THANK YOU FOR BEING MY Grandad. miss you. Thank you for everything you did for me and the family.
Jerry Chisarick
February 11, 2026
Tobie, so sorry to hear about Howard sending my prayers
Beth Roman
February 4, 2026
Grossman family, my thoughts are with you. We are so sad to hear of Howard´s passing. It´s hard to believe after knowing him for 50 years. He was a great guy in so many ways. We will all miss him.
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Chris Wallen
February 4, 2026
Howard was a beautiful man. I only knew him for a short time but that was enough to form a strong friendship. We bonded over baseball. His life was a home run in every sense. I hope he meets his favorite Phillies in heaven. God bless you and keep you always at bat.
Cindy D.
February 4, 2026
My heartfelt prayers are with his family during this difficult time. As a community, we owe a tremendous debt of gratitude to Mr. Grossman for all he has done. His impact on our lives will not be forgotten!
Patrice Thompson
February 4, 2026
We love you Uncle Howie. How blessed to have grown up with you and Aunt Tobie as the best Aunt and Uncle could ever hope for. Our whole family will miss you so much.
Lisa Morgan
February 4, 2026
It was an honor to work with Howard for many years at Jewish Family Service. He will be missed by many. My sincerest condolences to Tobi and the family.
Terry S Baltimore
February 4, 2026
The Baltimore Family, past and present, have wonderful memories of working with Howard on northeastern Pennsylvania development. Howard was always positive and upbeat even in the most difficult of times. Easy smile and a wry sense of humor. Condolences to his family.
Marva & Sonny Myslak
February 4, 2026
Tobi we are so sorry for loss of your husband Howard, he will be missed, sending you lots of hugs
Cindy Campbell
February 4, 2026
I am so very sorry to hear of Howard's passing. I chaired / co-chaired a few Pennsylvania Planning Association conferences with Howard and worked on projects with him when he was with EDCNP. We missed him at our recent December Northeast Section of PA Planning Association holiday luncheon, in which Howard always attended. Unfortunately I will not be able to attend his memorial, but I extend my deepest sympathy to his wife and family. He left quite an impression with the work he did in the planning field over the years. He will be greatly missed.
Marty&Kathy Kane, Ft Myers, Fl
February 4, 2026
Dear Grossman Family: Our thoughts&prayers are with your family on Howard´s passing. A real gentleman and one class act.
Theresa Klimchak
February 2, 2026
So sad to hear about the passing of Howard. Worked for him for 30 years and he was a wonderful boss. Condolences to the family.
Jim & Ellen Campbell
February 2, 2026
What a fine man! We send our love Tobi.
Sandee Cohn
February 2, 2026
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Karen Ostroskie
February 1, 2026
I´m so sorry to hear about the passing of Howard. I worked for him for many years and he was a wonderful person. Condolences to the family.
Billy C Brandenburg
February 1, 2026
Howard was the person you were always happy to see. A positive light with a sense of humor and wit, I was lucky to get to know Howard and Tobi over the years through the Wyoming Valley Art League and local events. He was surely loved and will be deeply missed.
Diane Czajkowski
January 31, 2026
Tobi, sorry for your loss, you are in our prayers.
Susan Niskey Popp
January 31, 2026
Mrs, Grossman and family,
I´m so sad to hear about Mr. Grossman. Like all of us from the old neighborhood, I have lots of fond memories. Please know I´m thinking of all of you and sending my love.
Mary Lou Steinberg
January 31, 2026
Dear Tobi, I was saddened to learn of Howard´s passing. Know I am thinking of you and your family during this time.
Linda Krebs
January 31, 2026
So sorry to hear this! What a wonderful man with a beautiful family...he was such a supportive community member! Thinking of you all and sending love !
John Clark
January 31, 2026
So sorry Tobi, he was a great man and friend and will be missed
Nina Davidowitz
January 30, 2026
Dear Tobi, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You and Howard were such a beautiful couple! I always enjoyed spending time with both of you. Howard´s passing will be felt by so many people in our community. I feel blessed to have reconnected with him in the past few years. He was so kind, intelligent and encouraging, and so dedicated to all of the organizations that he helped to foster and grow. He will be greatly missed! Sending much love your way
Ann Saxton
January 30, 2026
Toni and family,
I am so sorry for the loss of Howard. What a wonderful , intelligent , and gifted man. My sincere condolences for your loss.
Sincerely,
Ann Saxton
Cathy Podlaski
January 29, 2026
Worked with Howard for many years on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Committee. Howard was so dedicated to these grandparents. He was a gentleman and a kind person. It was a pleasure and privilege to know him.
Shirley Perhalla
January 29, 2026
So very sad to hear this. There is no way to express the loss that I feel. Howard and I worked together for 31 years and remained friends. His lovely wife Tobi as well.
Great leader, mentor, and Great humanitarian. He did more for this region than anyone else can ever do. Rest in Peace Howard. Shirley
Michael Horvath
January 28, 2026
So sorry to learn this. He was a great leader always looking for way to make Northeastern Pennsylvania a better place to live, work and play.
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