Mr. Thomas Wade Fleming

Mr. Thomas Wade Fleming obituary, Columbia, SC

Mr. Thomas Wade Fleming

Thomas Fleming Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shives Funeral Home - Trenholm Road Chapel on Mar. 25, 2025.

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Thomas Wade Fleming, 58, of Irmo, South Carolina died Friday, March 21, 2025.
Wade was born in 1966 in Bennettsville, SC, and was the son of Thomas C. Fleming Jr. and Jan Fleming. He was a 1991 graduate of Wofford College. His law enforcement career spanned three decades and included service at the county, state, and federal levels. He had a zeal for complex investigations which made significant impacts on the community. He was a dedicated son, brother, father, and pop-pop.
Wade served as Deputy Inspector General at the SC Department of Corrections. He previously retired from the United States Secret Service with 26 years of service, having last served as Resident Agent in Charge in Wilmington, NC. Earlier in his career, he served as Special Agent with the South Carolina Law Enforcement Division (SLED) and was a Deputy Sheriff with the Spartanburg County Sheriff's Office.
He is survived by three daughters, Lauren Conley (Clif), Whitney Fleming, and Emma Fleming; a grandson, Sutton; his mother, Jan Fleming; a brother, Allen Fleming (Bettie); nephews, Ryan (Catherine) Fleming and Joshua Fleming; a great-niece, Charlotte; fiancé, Deborah Marshall and step-daughter Corrine Marshall.
Services will be held at 2:30 PM Saturday, March 29 at Union United Methodist Church, 7582 Woodrow St, Irmo, SC. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to The Ronald McDonald House Charities of the Piedmont Triad, Winston-Salem, NC. Condolences may be made to Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel.

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William Harleston Lybrand Jr

March 27, 2025

Wade was a fellow Wofford man but served with him at Spartanburg County Sheriff´s Office God be with the family and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Teresa Maness Clark

March 27, 2025

Praying for Mrs. Jan, Alan and family. My brother Scott Maness and I watched Wade grow up in Bennettsville and volunteered in the squad. He never met a stranger.

Steve Alexander

March 26, 2025

I worked with Wade at the Spartanburg County Sheriff's Office when he first started in law enforcement. He was a good officer who loved his career and family

Cynthia Christy

March 25, 2025

It was with a very heavy heart the Christy family received this news over the weekend. We keep Wade´s family in our thoughts and prayers.

John, Cindy, John(ny) and Maggie

AO Dee-Anne Wriston

March 25, 2025

The CHS RO sends our condolences to your family. We just spoke to Wade a few weeks ago and enjoyed catching up with our old RAIC! He will be greatly missed.

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