Thomas Wellen Gramling

Thomas Wellen Gramling obituary, Douglassville, PA

Thomas Wellen Gramling

Thomas Gramling Obituary

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Thomas Wellen Gramling, 46, of Douglassville, passed away at home Sunday, Jan. 25, 2015. He was born in Hartford, Conn. March 30, 1968, son of J. Joel Gramling and Nancy Kinka (Schroeder). He was the caring and loving husband of Karen Kae Gramling and the devoted father of Jessica and Jack, at home. He is survived by his brother, Joseph Joel IV, and wife Maria of Pittsburgh; sister, Michelle Ubrick, and husband Scott of Sacramento, Calif.; brother, Matthew, and wife Susan of West Chester; stepmother, Linda Gramling; Judith Szot, and husband Daniel of N.J.; Karen Raach, and husband Jay of Limerick. He is also survived by his mother and father-in-law, Elizabeth and Cecil Pierce, of Exton; sister-in-law, Kathy Logue, and husband Paul, of Chester Springs; brother-in-law, Gifford Pierce, and wife Karin, of Downingtown; he was known as "Uncle T" to many nieces and nephews. Tom was a larger than life friend to all who knew him and will be deeply missed by all. He lived every day to the fullest. Tom had an ongoing bucket list and was able to see most of his wishes become reality. White water rafting, sky diving, Red Sox Stadium to witness the Green Monster, visiting Hawaii, Lambeau Field and dining at Peter Luger Restaurant in NYC. He looked forward to family vacations in Ocean City, Md. and racing his Porsche at Watkins Glen track with brother Joel. A memorial service will be held at his home on Friday Jan. 30, from 12 noon to 3 p.m. In lieu of flowers, a Charitable Fund Account has been established at Santander Bank, 15 Maplewood Dr., Douglassville, PA 19518, in the name of "Jess and Jack Gramling" for their educational pursuits.

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January 24, 2021

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January 28, 2016

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January 27, 2016

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Pete Mihalek

January 24, 2021

Thinking of Tom. Wishing you all well.

rebecca nash

January 28, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you always. I have such fond memories of Smiling Tom and his family.
Love to all!!
Becky Nash

January 27, 2016

I am sorry to hear this. Tom was my buddy at Marquette. We always had a great time when we hung out. Think about Tom often, and will miss him. Great guy, My heart and prayers go out to his family.

He always called me "GP"


Glen Pennington

Pete Mihalek

January 23, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with your family today. And always. I think of Tom often.

Lisa Schmidt-Sterritt

June 1, 2015

So sorry for your loss

Cindy Dunleavy Flynn

January 31, 2015

Karen & family..I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

Eileen Drage O'Reilly

January 30, 2015

I was so sorry to hear this. I knew him from Marquette - he was always a strong and sweet man, great sense of humor, and definitely larger than life. I know how much his family meant to him - I am so sorry for your loss.

January 30, 2015

Karen, kids and Family.
Our deepest sympathy to you all. We will always remember Tom as a kind person with a heart warming smile and the life of the party. We were lucky to have known him. You will be on our prayers.
Love, The Mellon Family

Kelly Lien-Shilling

January 30, 2015

Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you Karen, Jess and Jack.
Kelly, Michael and Marlee Shilling

January 29, 2015

We want to express our heartfelt condolences for the passing of Tom. We did not know him but are friends with his father , Joel, and stepmother, Linda. We are so very sorry for you loss.. ........
Sincerely,
Larry and Jan John

January 29, 2015

I would like to express my condolences to Nancy. Frank Thees coworker.Our prayers are with you.

Beth Monk Lehman

January 29, 2015

Dear Gramling family & Nancy ,
It's been a long time since we've been in touch but I wanted to let you know how sorry I am to learn of Tom's death. I know you are all devastated by the sudden loss. I hope that you can hold your fondest memories close for comfort during this time. God bless you and comfort you.
Fondly,
Beth Monk Lehman( and Jim as well)

Dawn Schmitt

January 29, 2015

Although I didn't know Tom. I'm a friend of Karin and Giff pierces. He sure knew how to live life and we could all learn from him. Our church lifts you all up in prayer.

Jeff, Angie, Tyler, Tori West

January 28, 2015

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. He was a great guy and will be missed. Our deepest condolences.

Pete Mihalek

January 28, 2015

Dear Karen, Jessica and Jack- I'm sending you love and prayers. Tom was so friendly, kind. His handshake was like a block of concrete. What a good man. I have nothing but great memories of the times I spent around him, and all of you. If you ever need anything, just let me know. (Pete Mihalek- friend of Jenny Boylan)

Erin and Tom King

January 28, 2015

Dear Gramlings,
Only met Tom a few times while outt visiting Joel. Alway fun, smiling and kind! Our hearts are aching for your loss of such a young man, may the love he shared stay in your heart forever. He will not want you to mourn for long, you need live for him with the joy he shared with everyone!!! fondly remember his love and pride for his wife, children , brother, sister, mom and dad!! blessed to have met him- will always remember him.

Mark Herbst

January 27, 2015

My name is Mark Herbst and I considered myself a close friend of Tom. We went to Marquette together and formed a close and deep friendship that has lasted throughout the years. I always looked up to Tom - both literally and figuratively - and immensely enjoyed becoming close to his family whenever we vacationed together. My sons will deeply miss their " uncle T" and as for me, will consider Tom as the ultimate measuring stick for being a great father, a loving husband and mostly, as a man. I will miss you deeply brother. You left us too damn early.

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