Thomas J. Griffin

Thomas J. Griffin obituary, Deep River, CT

Thomas J. Griffin

Thomas Griffin Obituary

Published by Robinson, Wright & Weymer Funeral Home on Feb. 9, 2014.
Thomas J. Griffin, 72, of Deep River, passed away Sunday, February 9, 2014 at Aaron Manor in Chester after a short illness. Born September 14, 1941, he was the son of Hector J. Griffin and Edith Radel Griffin. Tom grew up in Milford, CT. and graduated from Milford High School and received an A.S. Degree in mechanical engineering from the University of Bridgeport. He served in the Air National Guard from 1960 to 1966. Tom is survived by his wife of 18 years, Jayne G. Mather, his daughter Heidi Brewer and her husband Peter of Belize, his son Matthew and companion Sally Wojtkiewicz of Niantic, his grandson Travis Gahran of South Lake Tahoe, CA., step daughter Kimberly Nancarrow, her husband Michael and their sons Charles and William of Marietta, GA., his brother William, sister- in- law Joan, nephews William and Shawn, their wives Patricia and Pamela and their children all of Milford, CT. Family members also include Richard and Patricia Mather of Essex, Faline and William Gray of Lansdale, PA. and Paul Mather of Fort Lauderdale, FL. Tom retired from Whelen Engineering in 2007. Previously he had worked for Tracor, Inc, General Dynamics – Electric Boat and American Machine & Foundry Company. Tom valued community service for the Town of Deep River and served 31 years on Planning & Zoning, 24 years on the Board of Assessment Appeals, 18 years as Harbor Master and 6 years on the Housing Authority. He was a member of the First Congregational Church of Deep River and served on a number of Boards and Committees. Tom enjoyed fishing, boating, and collecting interesting artifacts. Over the years he accumulated impressive collections of arrow heads and antique food choppers. "Handsome Tom" as he liked to be called will be remembered as a fun loving guy and someone who could always "spin a yarn". A Memorial Service will be held at the First Congregational Church of Deep River on Sunday, February 16, 2014 at 1:00 PM. Burial at Fountain Hill Cemetery will be privately held. The family would like to thank all the staff at Aaron Manor for their kindness and exceptional care. In lieu of flowers, donations in Tom's memory can be made to Fountain Hill Cemetery – Chapel Fund, P.O. Box 263, Deep River, CT. 06417. To share a memory or send a condolence to Tom's family, please visit www.rwwfh.com. Arrangements made by Robinson, Wright, & Weymer Funeral Home, Centerbrook, CT.

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February 14, 2014

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February 12, 2014

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Cindy DeCarlo

February 14, 2014

My sympathy to you Bill and Joan and to Billy and Shawn and their families.

Isaiah 25:8

February 12, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Kathi Glennon

February 12, 2014

Dear Jayne and family,My thoughts and prayers are with you Jayne and your family. Tom was such a nice guy. loved his sense of humor. I always thought that Tom looked just like my dad.....a handsome muffin..and that he was. I am thinking of you Jayne! See you soon. Love and a huge hug, Kathi Glennon @ Lane

Tina Fecteau

February 12, 2014

I will always remember Tom's smile. When I worked in the Chester facility, he loved to give the "ladies in the office" treats. What a sweet man. He will be missed.

February 12, 2014

Jayne,
So very sorry for your loss of a very wonderful, caring and funny man. We never saw Tom without a smile on his face. Love joking with him about those Yankees and Red Sox. I loved that day we put that Derek Jeter on the driveway! That darn fence sort of put a damper on the yelling back and forth over the yards. May he find peace with out pain in his new home with God.

Drew and Donna Maselli

February 12, 2014

Matt and Sally our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of your loss and always. Also with your family. Love you always Drew and Donna XOXO

John Golden

February 12, 2014

Tom will be sorely missed. What a bunch of fun we had together at lunches! I will always smile when I think of Tom.

Sandy and Renee Alonzo

February 12, 2014

Tom always had a smile on his face and a friendly hello... You will be missed..

February 12, 2014

Anyone who knew Tom, knew he had a sense of humor. He was always a happy man with a smile on his face. RIP Tom.

Kim & Gary Clark

Cheri and Charles Greeney

February 12, 2014

You will be missed I loved working with you at Whelen my prayers for your family

Sandy And Renee Alonzo

February 12, 2014

Tom always had a smile and a friendly hello... He will be missed..

Kim and Jim Olson

February 12, 2014

Tom will be missed greatly. He was always smiling and greeted you like you were family. So sorry for your loss, Jim and Kim Olson

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