Thomas "Tiny" Heil

Thomas Joseph Heil, a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away suddenly yet peacefully on December 15, 2025 at the age of 65.
Born on September 8, 1960 in Washington, D.C. The District of Columbia, not Maryland and not Virginia as he would absolutely make that clear. Thomas lived a life defined by his quiet Catholic faith and strength, deep love for his family, and unwavering integrity. He was the kind of man who showed up, steadily, reliably, and without hesitation for the people who mattered most to him.
Thomas, lovingly known as Tiny to those closest to him, was a devoted husband to Brenda Heil with whom he shared 38 years of marriage. Together, they built a life rooted in love, loyalty, and family. He was a proud and loving father to Jonathan & Jennifer, always offering guidance, encouragement, and a steady presence. His greatest joy came from being "Dad," and later, "Pop-Pop" a role he cherished deeply.
As a grandfather, Thomas delighted in 4 grandchildren, finding joy in their laughter, milestones, and everyday moments. He leaves behind a legacy of love, patience, and values that will continue through generations.
Some of his fondest memories were related to his children and grandchildren. He loved taking Jonathan fishing on his boat and then later taking Jonathan's son Jamir fishing on their pier at The Charles Price Memorial park, often followed by an ice cream stop at Uncle Mike's.
He loved watching his pride and joy, Jennifer, dance. Whether it was in the living room, on a school stage in Philly, or under the lights at Towson University. Most recently, watching Jennifer's daughter Poppy dance felt like a mirror image of Jenn herself, the same joy, the same light, the same unmistakable spirit.
Tiny was known for his kindness, generosity, strong work ethic, and for driving around Delaware in his beloved red pickup truck. For 25 years, he worked as a proud Union Electrician with I.B.E.W. Local 26 in Washington, D.C. a career built on skill, discipline, and showing up every single day. He took great pride in his work, in being part of the union, and in providing for his family through honest, hard labor. It was never just a job to him, it was a responsibility he carried with quiet pride and consistency. He always looked forward to their annual summer picnic and holiday party.
That same loyalty showed up everywhere in his life, from the way he stood by his family and friends, to his unwavering dedication to the Washington Redskins (never the Commanders). Whether it was game day traditions, decades of commitment to the team, or the many quiet ways he supported and looked out for others, Tiny was steadfast in what and who he loved.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Joanne and Vernon Joseph Heil and younger Brother Vernon J. Heil.
Thomas is survived by his wife, Brenda; his children, Johnathan (Harlie) and Jennifer (John); his grandchildren, Jamir, Zoey, Kaylee and Poppy Marie; and many extended family members and dear friends who will miss him deeply.
In accordance with his wishes, there will be no formal funeral service. A private celebration of Tiny's life will be held in the spring at his favorite place by the beach, where family will gather to honor him in a way that feels most fitting.
Though words cannot fully capture the life he lived or the love he gave, Thomas Heil will be remembered for his steady presence, his generous heart, and the deep devotion he had for his family. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched and the love he leaves behind.
In lieu of flowers, a trust will be established to support his grandchildren's education.
For more information about the Celebration of Life, which will be held in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, please contact his daughter, Jennifer Heil.