Thomas Walter May

Thomas Walter May obituary

Thomas Walter May

Thomas May Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Edwards Memorial Funeral Homes - Lakewood on Aug. 14, 2025.

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On August 10, 2025, Thomas Walter May passed away at the age of 82 at his home in Tacoma Washington.

He is proceeded in death by his parents William and Mildred May, wife of 50 years, Monika May, and brother Bill May.

Thomas is survived by his son Michael May, daughter-in-law Jaime May, grandchildren Kaitlyn and Trevor May. His sisters Juanita and Elizabeth and brother Bill. Along with many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Thomas served in the US Army for 27 years and retired as a first sergeant, he later worked and retired as a driving instructor.

Thomas loved his family, dogs, his roses and painting.

Thomas's smile, laughter and caring spirit will be greatly missed by his family, friends and neighbors.

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