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Thomas E. Murphy Jr.

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Thomas E. Murphy Jr. obituary, 1944-2025, Fairfield, CT

BORN

1944

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

Spear-Miller Funeral Home

39 South Benson Road

Fairfield, Connecticut

UPCOMING SERVICE

Service

Oct. 17, 2025

1:00 p.m.

St. Pius X Church

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Thomas Murphy Obituary

Thomas E. Murphy, Jr.
Thomas E. Murphy, Jr., age 80, of Fairfield, beloved husband of Frances (DeVito) Murphy, passed away peacefully Friday, October 3, 2025 at Yale New Haven Hospital surrounded by Fran and their loving son TJ. Born in Bridgeport, the son of the late Thomas E. and Marion Murphy, he had been a lifelong Fairfield resident. He was a graduate of Andrew Warde High School, Class of 1962. Tom served in the Army National Guard and worked various jobs until joining the Fairfield Fire Department, retiring in 1995 after nearly thirty years of service. Never one to stay idle, he worked numerous part-time jobs while a fire fighter including Tunxis Hill Hardware, Hemlock Hardware and as a bartender and custodian at the Gaelic American Club. He was also a bus driver for the Fairfield Board of Education. In high school, Tom was involved in the Drama Club and returned to building sets during and after his son TJ was there thirty years later. He enjoyed traveling, especially with the Staff Association at Fairfield University. Tom's greatest joy was providing for his family and spending time with his loved ones. He will be sadly missed by his wife, Frances of Fairfield; his son, TJ Murphy of Bridgeport; his sister, Nancy Griffith of Gordonville, TX; a niece and a nephew. He was predeceased by his beloved daughter, Maura Murphy. The family wishes to thank the caring cardiovascular team at Yale New Haven Hospital. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday, October 17 at 1 p.m. at St. Pius X Church, 834 Brookside Drive, Fairfield. Interment will be private at Oak Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, friends may consider a donation in Tom's memory to Yale New Haven Hospital's Heart Transplant Fund. Please send checks to: Office of Development, Yale New Haven Hospital, PO Box 1849, New Haven, CT 06508-1849.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Oct. 9 to Oct. 12, 2025.

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Oct

17

Service

1:00 p.m.

St. Pius X Church

834 Brookside Drive, Fairfield, CT 06824

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39 South Benson Road, Fairfield, CT 06824

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Jim Buda

October 10, 2025

Fran and TJ...our deepest sympathy...so sad for all of you. So many happy fun memories getting together with Tom and planning all the Andrew Ward Reunions....he was so dedicated and all great memories of good times. Our deepest sympathy
..Fran and Jim Buda...Eastham, Ma

Monsignor Blase Gintoli

October 10, 2025

Dear Fran and TJ, my deepest sympathy to you at this time of your loss. I will remember you and your loved one in my prayers and at mass.

Ann Roma

October 10, 2025

Fran & TJ, So sorry to hear of Tom´s passing. I have many happy memories of working with Tom at Tunxis Hill Hardware and getting to know your family. Praying that your happy memories will help you through your sadness. Ann Roma

Petrice Demeter

October 10, 2025

Sorry to hear about Tom. We all lost a good friend , worker, neighbor . He will be truly missed.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

October 8, 2025

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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