Thomas Person

ALTAMONT - It is with deep sorrow and profound love that we announce the passing of Thomas Jude Andrew Person, who left us on February 6, 2025, at the age of 77. Tommy was a rare soul-one whose love, compassion, and light touched the lives of all who knew him.
He was lovingly known to many of his friends, children, and grandkids, as "Thomas Jude Andrew Tucky-babe Yucatan Squeaky Bee-Bee Samali Mac N Tosh Grandpa Person."
Born on October 28, 1947, Tommy spoke fondly of growing up in the South End of Albany with his parents and four brothers. He was the son of the late George and Marie (Kelly) Person, and often recounted how they "didn't have much growing up" in terms of material wealth, however, what they lacked in financial resources, Tommy found in abundance within the bonds of his close-knit family. His parents, siblings, and extended relatives instilled in him values that would shape his entire life: compassion, gratitude, loyalty, and a belief that true wealth lies in the connections we build with others.
Tommy graduated from Cardinal McCloskey High School, HVCC, and SUNY Albany. As a young man, he put himself through college stocking shelves at the Grand Union, never allowing obstacles to stand in his way. It was during this time that he met the love of his life, Elaine, at a local bar called The Elbo Room. They fell in love, built a family, and created a life together that was nothing short of extraordinary. He and his wife, Elaine, were together for 53 years, married a few days short of 49 years, and were to celebrate their anniversary this Valentine's Day. Most of their love story took place on a quiet hill in Altamont. Their home, as well as time spent at their camp on Lake Lonely, became the backdrop of their enduring romance. Their love is vast, timeless, and unforgettable.
Tommy devoted his professional life to serving others as a public servant with the New York State Health Department. He treasured his friendships at work, where he touched countless lives, but it was his commitment to his children that truly defined his legacy. For 36 years, Tommy and Elaine opened their hearts and home as foster and adoptive parents, providing love and stability to dozens of kids. They dedicated their lives to giving hope to hard-to-place kids, always putting their needs before their own. Tommy loved telling strangers that he had over 30 kids, seeing their reaction, and then going on to tell stories of our amazing family.
In his retirement, Tommy remained committed to his community. As a volunteer clown and member of the Electric City Clown Alley, he spread joy and laughter to those who needed it most. As "Mac-N-Tosh", Tommy could proudly make a three-twist balloon dog in under 10 seconds. He shared his balloon art talent with children all over the Capital Region for more than 30 years.
He also served as Captain of the Fire Police in Altamont and as a Board member of Altamont Community Tradition, bringing his unique spirit of service to the community he loved.
A devoted grandfather, Tommy could often be found chauffeuring his grandchildren to gymnastics, basketball or soccer practice, always ready to cheer them on at their games with a twinkle in his eye. His love for sports, especially basketball, was only surpassed by his love for his family.
Tommy had a gift for storytelling, and he could always be counted on to share a funny or heartwarming tale that would leave those around him laughing or reflecting on life's simple joys. Among our cherished memories was his rendition of Silent Night, a song he performed so poorly but with such care that it became a beloved tradition for those who were lucky enough to hear it.
Tommy was known for his smile-an unmistakable, warm presence that lit up every room he entered. His kindness knew no bounds, and he embodied love in every gesture, every word, every action. His compassion was a constant reminder to all who knew him that the best way to live was with an open heart and a helping hand.
Tommy was truly one in a million, but his legacy will live on in the hearts of all who were touched by his love, kindness, and spirit. He has left the world a better place, and his memory will continue to shine brightly in the lives of those he leaves behind.
Tommy is survived by his loving wife and soulmate, Elaine Were Person; daughters, Melinda (Kelly) Person, Kelly (Brad) Vreeland; daughter-in-law, Maran Franke Person; sons, Jody (Anton) Gazenbeek-Person, Shawn (Lisa) Yoder, Michael (Shirley) Catalano, Jason (Betsey) Malek, Matthew (Donna) Person, Alex Person, Seth Fuoco, Shamere (Jamela) Thomas, Dominick Campione and Dominick's brother, John Raimo; his brothers, George (Andrea) Person, James (Cande) Person, John (Kathy) Person; sisters-in-law, Nancy (Bill) Hendrick, Peggy Were, and Candy Person. Tommy is also survived by many cherished grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and loving close friends.
He was predeceased by his sons, Edward Person and Robert Person; and brother, William Person.
Family and friends are invited to a Celebration of Life that will be held on February 22, 2025, at 10:30 a.m., at the Unitarian Universalist Society of Schenectady, 1221 Wendell Ave., with a reception to follow. A memorial Mass will take place at 10 a.m., on Monday, February 24, 2025, at the Parish of Mater Christi, 40 Hopewell St., Albany.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Clowns on Rounds, Inc., P.O. Box 6364, Albany, N.Y. 12206, in memory of Tommy to support their humor therapy programs at the VA Hospital and at the Albany Med Pediatric Emergency Room.