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Thomas Dennis Ruane, Sr.
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Church of the Nativity
Fair Haven, NJ
Thomas Ruane, Sr. Obituary
A proud scholar, Tom graduated first in his class from St. Peter's College (1972) and again from Fordham University School of Law (1975). He rose to partnership at the renowned Robinson, St. John & Wayne firm in Newark, later serving as Chief Legal Officer for Siemens USA. He went on to found WhiteCap Partners, a New Jersey-based investment fund, blending legal expertise with entrepreneurial vision. Tom was a trusted advisor both professionally and personally, and his legacy of integrity, mentorship, and generosity will continue to inspire.
Passionate about golf, Tom enjoyed courses around the world - and the 19th hole with friends and family. He lived for nearly 30 years in Little Silver, New Jersey, before moving to Naples, Florida, where he became an active member of The Vineyards community and proudly served as President of the Homeowners Association.
Above all, Tom cherished his family. He is survived by his beloved wife Ann; children Elizabeth, Christine (Charlie), and Thomas, Jr.; grandchildren Henry, Tommy, Christian, and Charley, who knew him lovingly as "Fox;" and sisters, Ellen and Nancy.
Services to honor his life will be held at 10am on Friday, September 26, 2025, at the Church of the Nativity in Fair Haven, New Jersey. Additionally, a celebration of life will take place on Sunday, October 12, 2025 at 1pm at The Vineyards Country Club in Naples, FL.
Tom will be remembered for his brilliant intellect, quiet resolve, Irish humor, and the countless ways he enriched the lives of others. His signature one-liners and comedic timing turned ordinary moments into unforgettable memories.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Dyslexia Road (www.dyslexiaroad.org) or Avow Hospice (www.avowcares.org)
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Mike and Sandi Werner
Yesterday
The world lost a great man. Tom was brilliant, humble, and the most generous person I ever knew. Our sincere condolences to Ann and his family. Mike and Sandi
Scott O'Dell
Yesterday
Our thoughts are with Anne and the family after losing Tom. He was truly a legend!! Anything you need, at any time, we are here for you. Scott and Jennifer O'Dell- The Vineyards.
Pat McCullough
Yesterday
Ann and Family, I was shocked to hear the news about Tom. He was so full of life with his quick wit and humor. He was always very generous with the golf staff at the Vineyards and I´m sure he was the same everywhere. He will be missed. Pat McCullough
Dan and Barb Enneking
September 19, 2025
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Tom was a great giving and loving soul and will be greatly missed.
Dan and Barb Enneking
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Richard and Peg Cacioppe
September 19, 2025
What a sad loss for his many friends and the community he served so well. He had a unique and magnetic personality that made him a beloved friend to so many. He could brighten any room with his upbeat and positive personality. The world will be a little darker without him in it. I'll forever miss his big smile and 'hello general' greeting. There will only ever be one Tom Ruane.
Michael Greenough
September 19, 2025
Tom was a rock to all our charitable causes. He led the group to raise funds and truly paid it forward. I will miss him dearly.
Tamuccio Patricia and James
September 19, 2025
Dear Ann and family,
At a time like this sadly, there are no words. Our deeply heartfelt sadness is with you and the family.
Tom was a unique man with an endearing personality. A man who, if asked for help or advice, was always there for you. A man full of life, fun, endearing to all but especially to his family. His loss will be felt by many but especially by you, whom he adored, the children and grandchildren. May he be resting in the Palm of HIS hand and may GOD BLESS you and watch over you and the family.
Our thoughts and prayers have always/will be with you.
Luv,
Jimmy and Trish Tamuccio
Rick Ewart
September 18, 2025
Dear Ann and family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Tom´s passing. I have many fond memories of Tom, during our youthful years. He was definitely a man of honor and was deeply committed to his family and friends. Although I didn´t get to see him often in recent years, he would always make me feel like our friendship had never faded. I will keep you and your family in my Prayers and I hope that you all can find some small measure of comfort in the knowledge that Tom is now Resting in the Arms of Jesus. God Bless you.
Rick Ewart - Miami, Fl.
Patty and John O´Sullivan
September 18, 2025
Dear Ann
Our hearts go out to you and your family. There are no words that can express how deeply Tom will be missed by family and friends. He was a wonderful caring person. His sharp wit endeared him to everyone, yet you knew underneath it all he was truly your friend. We were privileged to know him.
He was the epitome of the Vineyards Community and he will be with us everywhere ..we love him and will miss him dearly. Our prayers are with you and your family..
Marianne Gambucci
September 18, 2025
Ann,
My deepest condolences to you and your family on your loss. Tom was such a caring man and always there to give advice when asked for his opinion. May you and your family have some peace knowing he is now in the loving arms of God. He will be missed by all those who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Marianne Gambucci
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