Thomas Rubino

Thomas "Tom" Rubino, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and devoted friend, passed away on August 1, 2025. He was 77. Born on April 16, 1948, in Jersey City, New Jersey, to James and Christina Rubino (Cassamassima), Tom spent his early years in the Greenville section of the city, mainly on Sterling Avenue playing ball with his brothers, cousins and close friends. He was a dominant athlete who excelled at baseball, known for powerful hitting and pitching while attending Snyder High School. He earned a full scholarship to the University of Oklahoma, but his deep love for his family, friends and his Jersey City roots, especially the cherished Italian Sunday dinners, led him to return home after a semester.
Tom met his wife and best-friend, Dorothy (Dot) of 52-years on Cator Avenue in Jersey City. While dating, Tom continued playing ball for various leagues while working. In 1973, they were married and moved to Belleville, NJ, but again returned to Jersey City. The couple raised one daughter, Nicole, whom Tom adored. He loved watching her play softball and basketball and cherished every moment they spent together whether it was taking a ride to Seaside Heights bright and early or having a cup of coffee together. He later welcomed his son-in-law, Jason Sicinski, whom he lovingly called "the son he never had" which shows how much Tom cared for Jay and knew he respected his standards for his family.
Tom's greatest joys came from his grandchildren, Maddie and AJ. He wrote them poems when they were born and always knew how to make them smile, at an early age usually singing them a song. He treasured their time together, drove them back and forth to school each day, listening to their daily school stories. Pop especially enjoyed watching AJ play baseball and couldn't believe that he was sitting in the passenger seat next to Maddie driving. Maddie and AJ's close friends even called him "Pop."
A dedicated professional, Tom worked as a dispatcher for Sweeney Transportation for many years and was known for his work ethic, never taking a day off from work. He also bartended part-time, meeting many long-time friends. Dot would hang out with him while he worked and if he had time, they would sneak in a quick dance together.
In his later years, Tom reluctantly moved to Old Bridge, New Jersey, but eventually came to love the new town, particularly getting to see his daughter and her family every day. He enjoyed driving around, listening to music, and cooking for Dot. You could often find him in the backyard with his Bluetooth speaker, enjoying the simple pleasure of being with his family and buddy, Leo who he would always buy treats for.
A lifelong fan of the New York Yankees, he once wrote, "you cannot spell Rubino without 'RBI'!"
Tom is survived by his wife, Dorothy; his daughter, Nicole Sicinski, and son-in-law, Jason; his grandchildren, Maddie and AJ; and his brother, Paul. He is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews who he was always able to make laugh.
He was preceded in death by his siblings, Annette and James, whom he missed daily. Growing up Tom would joke with Annette, being the only female sibling, however he would always protect her. He and Jimmy had a special relationship and he enjoyed his time at C&J's deli with him. Tom was truly loved by his mother- in- law, Pauline. Although he loved his Italian food, Tom sure did enjoy Pauline's pierogis. Tom will be remembered for his big heart, his quick wit, and his unwavering love for his family and friends. He is a friend that one always wanted in their corner.
A visitation will be held on Wednesday, August 6, 2025 from 3:00pm - 7:00pm at Old Bridge Funeral Home, 2350 Rte 516, Old Bridge, NJ 08857. A prayer service will be held on Thursday, August 7, 2025 at Old Bridge Funeral Home, 2350 Rte 516, Old Bridge, NJ 08857. To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Thomas Rubino, please visit our Tree Store.