Thomas "Tom" James Manuel

Loving husband of 26 years to Renae, the proud and supportive father of Ashlyn and Rocco. Tom was the very definition of a family man. A true example of what it means to be a devoted husband and father.

Tom, the son of Stan and Debra Manuel, brother of Jeff Manuel and son in law of Roxy and Debra Carleo, passed away unexpectedly on Friday October 31, 2025, in Montrose CO.

Tom grew up in Kremling CO where he was very active in a variety of sports though basketball was his favorite. He left behind a trail of memories in that small town — just as he did everywhere he went.

Tom is now free of his earthly court to freely play basketball with “Newberry” the man he admired, loved and dearly missed; his grandfather, who passed away in 2022. We imagine them both now, back on the court together, sharing laughs and shooting free throws.

Tom was a dedicated friend who would do anything for you and was always uplifting with a joke on hand. Whether it was on the back porch sharing stories, out on the golf course, or during long road trips to referee games, Tom built friendships that lasted a lifetime. He had a unique gift for making people feel seen and appreciated, and his circle of friends — which only grew wider with time — felt more like family.

A basketball referee for more than 25 years, working games up and down the Western Slope as well as countless regional finals and several state tournaments. He loved the close, nail-bitter game with roaring crowds and strived to be fair and consistent. He was the ideal officiating partner - not just for his skill and professionalism, but for his easy-going nature, steady presence and great sense of humor that made the long drives fun.

In addition to officiating, he coached and mentored many athletes over the years sharing his love for sports and his belief in teamwork, respect and perseverance. Many of those he coached and worked alongside credit Tom for shaping not just their skills, but their character. His patience, humor, and wisdom made him a trusted guide and role model to many — and his legacy will continue through the people he inspired.

A celebration of life will be held at Grace Community Church on Friday November 14, 2025, at 4:30 pm.

In lieu of flowers the family suggests a donation to the Montrose Basketball Officials Association (MBOA), supporting the next generation of referees. Checks can be mailed to 1597 Stellar Place Montrose CO 81401.

The family wishes to express their sincerest thank you to the Montrose Fire Department, EMT’s and ER staff at Montrose Regional hospital for their outstanding care and compassion.

Tom will be remembered for his humor, integrity and unwavering love for friends and family - a man who made every court, golf course, and room he entered brighter.