Tina M. Allender

Tina M. Allender obituary, Manasquan, NJ

Tina M. Allender

Tina Allender Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Orender Family Home on Nov. 19, 2025.

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Tina M. Allender, 53, of Neptune passed away on Tuesday, November 1, 2022. Tina was born and raised in Baltimore, Maryland. She was a graduate of Catholic High School. After high school she married and began to raise her family in Baltimore, Maryland. Tina and her family moved to Spring Lake in 2003. Family was everything to her especially her grandchildren. She also enjoyed spending time at the beach.
Tina was predeceased by her parents James and Carmela Cericola, and her beloved husband of 32 years David Allender, Sr. in 2021. She is survived by her loving children Lauryn Grasso and her husband Anthony of Wall, NJ, David Allender, Jr. and his fiancé Jessica of Farmingdale, NJ, and Shelby Frasciello and her husband Russell of Manahawkin, NJ. Tina was the cherished grandmother of Lola, Carson, Onyx, Pearle, and Aleora. She was a loving sister to Guy Cericola, Toni Cericola, Barbara Voelker, and her husband Paul, James Cericola, and Steve Cericola and his wife Robyn all of Maryland.
Family and friends are invited to attend a visitation on Sunday, November 6, 2022, from 12 noon to 4 pm at Orender Family Home for Funerals, 2643 Old Bridge Road, Manasquan, NJ 08736, with a prayer service to begin at 3 pm. Interment will be at 11 am on Monday, November 7, 2022, at St Anne's Cemetery, Wall, NJ. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to St Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude’s Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959. To send condolences to the family please visit www.orenderfamilyhome.net.

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