Tom Stolhandske

1931 - 2025

Tom Stolhandske
June 28, 1931 - November 1, 2025
Tom Stolhandske, a dedicated family man, beloved husband, esteemed public servant, and legendary athlete, passed away peacefully on November 1, 2025. He was born on June 28, 1931, to Karl Eber Frederick and Janie Stolhandske in Baytown, Texas.
Papa, as he was affectionately known by his grandchildren, was a man whose life was defined by service, dedication, and deep family love.
A Remarkable Football Career
A proud Baytown native, Tom (Swede) attended Robert E. Lee High School, where he was an All-State High School football player before becoming a celebrated member of the Texas Longhorns at The University of Texas from 1949 to 1952. A three-year letterman, he earned First-Team All-American honors. He was a force on two Southwest Conference Championship teams, played in two Cotton Bowls. Tom showcased his versatility with a memorable 123-yard receiving game against North Carolina, including a 62-yard touchdown. His collegiate career culminated at the 1953 Hula Bowl, where he was honored as the game's Most Valuable Player.
Tom's talent led to him being the 10th overall pick in the first round of the 1953 NFL draft, but he chose to play for the Edmonton Eskimos. His professional career was temporarily paused when he was drafted into the U.S. Army. After his military service, he returned to the field, playing for the San Francisco 49ers.
After his playing career, Tom was inducted into both the Texas High School Football Hall of Fame in Waco and the Hall of Honor at the University of Texas.
Service, Law, and Public Life
Following his professional football career, Tom transitioned to a life of law and public service in San Antonio, Texas. He attended law school and became a highly respected attorney. His commitment to the community led him to serve as a Justice of the Peace before being elected to the Bexar County Commissioners Court, where he served for sixteen years from 1967 to 1982. His work in public office reflected his strong sense of justice and dedication to the people of Bexar County. Some of his most notable accomplishments included initiating the groundwork for the Wurzbach Parkway, creating the current EMS system, and introducing electronic voting in Bexar County.
Family and Personal Life
Above all his professional achievements, Tom's greatest pride was his family. Tom is survived by and shared an extraordinary life and a 72-year marriage with his beloved wife, Betsy Stolhandske. Together, they raised three children: Thomas B. "Toby", Matt (wife Mary-Jean), and Elisa (who preceded him in death). His legacy continues through his 9 grandchildren and 15 great-grandchildren, all of whom brought immense joy to his life. Tom and Betsy were blessed to be surrounded by many others who truly became part of the family, especially Mary Velasquez and her children, who were lovingly devoted to their care.
Tom and Betsy cherished time spent together at their ranch in Kerr County, a place where he was an avid hunter and found peace in the Texas Hill Country. Tom and Betsy were longstanding members of Woodlawn Methodist Church, which later became University Methodist Church, where he served in various leadership capacities.
A Memorial Service will be held on Sunday, November 16, 2025, at 2:30 pm at University Methodist Church at 5084 De Zavala Road.