Tom Wengert Obituary
Born in Baltimore, Maryland, Tom was the son of Deirdri Louise Dorsey and the late Allan Benjamin VanAlstine, Sr. He was a devoted member of First Baptist Simpsonville, where he and Jennifer joyfully served in the Kids Ministries, teaching the 4- and 5-year-olds. Tom had a heart for missions and found great fulfillment partnering with White Horse Missions.
Professionally, Tom worked for Ford Motor Credit for 35 years. He was an enthusiastic fan of the Baltimore Ravens, Baltimore Orioles, and Clemson Tigers. His love for sports extended to coaching his kids' soccer teams and competing as an avid runner in marathons, triathlons, and Spartan races. Tom also enjoyed brewery tours and sampling IPAs.
Above all, Tom cherished traveling with Jennifer. Together, they celebrated each anniversary in a new destination, collecting Christmas ornaments as keepsakes from their adventures.
Tom is survived by his loving wife, Jennifer and their children; his mother, Dee VanAlstine; two brothers, Al VanAlstine (Kimberley) and Christopher VanAlstine; and one sister, Lisa Marie Rek (Brad).
A celebration of Tom's life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday in the sanctuary of First Baptist Simpsonville - Downtown campus. The family will receive friends immediately following the service.
Memorials in Tom's honor may be made to White Horse Missions, P.O. Box 38
Simpsonville, SC 29681.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
John Sybert
December 26, 2025
Hello Jennifer. Not sure if Tom ever mentioned me to you, maybe by Facebook posts. We were next door neighbors growing up in Arbutus, MD. I am so very sad he passed away, 58 is way too young. A mutual friend informed me of his death Christmas Eve, so I offered Christmas Mass for him, you and your children. Eternal rest grant upon Tom O Lord and let Your perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of the faithfully depart rest in peace. Amen.
Jos DeLeon
December 19, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful co-worker, Tom was such a nice person to work with. He had so much knowledge. He will be greatly missed.
Teresa Mangle
December 17, 2025
Jennifer, I am so sorry for your loss. You will continue to be in my prayers!!
Jack Roberts
December 13, 2025
Tom was a great son-in-law and the best husband my daughter could ever ask for. He was always there for me when I needed him and will be missed for the kind and gentle soul he was.
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Debbi Heisey
December 12, 2025
My deepest sympathy for your loss Jennifer and family. The few times I got to meet Tom his kindness gave me an insight to the kind of man he was. I will be praying for you and your family as you go through this difficult time.
Steve and Bobbie Jones
December 12, 2025
We are heartbroken over the loss of our dear sweet friend and neighbor. Tom was the kindest friend we have ever known. Always willing to help or do anything we or others needed. Tom was our pet sitter many times and he and Jennifer even cared for our very sick pet when we went out of town, which was no simple task. Tom even made me a credenza for my desk for my birthday and refused to take any money. It was a gift he said. There are so many good memories with Tom and Jennifer. Tom will be missed terribly. Jennifer, just know we are here for you and our prayers are with you and the family.
Cristi Chapman
December 11, 2025
Jennifer my sweet cousin,
I´m heartbroken for you. I love you so much & will be praying for you. God has His arms wrapped around you & will help you through this. I´m so sorry for your loss.
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