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For those of you who haven't met me, my name is Jodie and I'm Tom's middle daughter (younger than Julie, older than La'Cee). Our dad was an amazing guy. He was kind, loving, never judgemental, even tempered, accepting but not condoning. We, all of us kids, would not be who we are today if it wasn't for his wisdom, patience and guidance. Not always easy with 6 kids ! Together with Mary, they were a united front and parental forces to be reckoned with. We thank them both for their love and understanding.
Dad - we miss you...
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Tom spent over 50 years as a commercial truck driver, hauling loads of every imaginable kind from coast to coast and top to bottom of the US. He loved to drive, especially logging trucks and being in the logging areas in the mountains where he could watch the sun rise. Not even he knew how many millions of miles he had driven in his career. He and his father Earl owned and operated Coast Truck Brokerage in Seattle in the 1960s and 1970s.
There never was a truck, motor or house he couldn’t fix. He enjoyed working with his hands and teaching others. He retired from driving several years ago, but couldn’t sit still for very long, so he worked at Cascade Auto Center in Wenatchee.
Tom also was a cowboy at heart. He worked as a ranch hand in Wyoming when he was young and as a ranch manager later in life. He was an exceptional horseman and rider. He enjoyed all things Western -- John Wayne movies, Louis L’Amour and Zane Grey novels; thought cowboy boots were suitable for every occasion and wore the occasional red felt cowboy hat into near rags.
Tom was an avid outdoorsman. He hunted bears and deer throughout Washington, elk, antelope and coyote in Wyoming, and taught his children the ethics of fair chase hunting. He would fish for anything, anywhere, and loved the time spent standing on a stream bank, even if he never got a bite.
Tom was an active member of and elder in the Cashmere congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses. He never met a stranger and never hesitated to help anyone in need or open up his home, even when he may not have had much of his own to give.
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Jodie Fisher
April 7, 2008
Biscuits and gravy, apple pancakes, Moose, Sunny, Satin, King, Toby the meanest POA every, Tarmon, Cinnamon, Piggy Ham and Turkey Ham, Danny´s Angel, , Cisco´s Rocky Road, David the cow, chopping wood, breaking ice on the horse´s trough, riding bikes, singing train songs, studying, service, giving Sunday talks, Sunday suppers, cornbread, PanAbode, Seattle train tracks, Boone County, Pinedale & Daniel, arrowheads, John Wayne, making wine from anything, honey bees, Hawaii, Me Too and the Me Too 2, hound dogs, field trials, strike pads on Jeep trucks, Olalla Canyon, blue Chevy Luv, log trucks, log roads, Mt. Shasta, Sea Lion Caves, Craters of the Moon, Redwood Forest, Big Y, Big Pond and Little Pond, the Hill, Rock Festivals, crossbuck fences, red tractors, black boots, catfish, gar fish, lightening bugs in Mason jars, milk separators, blue jeep with 5 kids, rattlesnakes, walking fences, strawberry barrels, sandboxes that lose turtles, fishing with feed string, poi, treehouses with trap doors, rope swings anywhere, motorcycle rides with two girls on the back, Denny´s in Fife, squishy coin holders, so many more... but forever, candy in the lunchbox
Jodie
January 22, 2009
wow... time flies doesn't it... Dad's birthday was the other day... amazing ...
he's laughing I know it... at our snow, at the passes being closed...
Brian Pahlow
April 6, 2008
Tom Cisco was a caring Man who lived his life to the best of his ability, in the manner that God described he live it in the Bible. I have heard many stories about how Tom gently/directly guided those he cared about to follow how he believed we all should care for one another. He was the strong and gentle leader of his family, both at home and as a part of his congregation. He was loved and respected by everyone close to him. I was one of the last to join the family, only having the opportunity to first meet Tom in 2004. I learned that Tom put his family and faith first. I never heard Tom raise his voice above an "inside voice" (as Mom used to say). Tom showed me, a young man who recently married (2005) one of his daughters, how to love and respect your wife. He was a good Man and I am thankful that I had the opportunity to sit on the couch drinking my coffee talking with Tom after having had his biscuits & gravy for breakfast. La'Cee loved Tom's biscuits & gravy. We'll miss you Tom!
Sheldon Anderson
April 6, 2008
Tom came into my life when I was 10. When he met my Mom it was love at first sight. At the time my Mom was raising 3 kids by herself. Not having a male role model in my life was hard. At the time I loved big rigs and cowboys so when I found out that my Mom's new boyfriend drove semis and was a real cowboy I was excited. He saved us. He was the stable force that we so desperately needed.
We moved to Woodinville next to his family and it was there that he began to teach me how to become a young man. Tom's dad live on a farm and had horses, dogs, chickens and even a raccoon! I was a young boy who did not have very much self confidence but Tom was going to change that. One of the first lessons was when Tom and some relatives were trying to move some horses to another pasture. He came to me and in a calm voice told me that my job was stand in front of an open gate and prevent the horses from running into that pasture. He said "Just stand here and if they come running wave your arms and yell but do not move out of the way! They will not run you over." Well, there I was standing there praying that they would not come my way but sure enough they did. I did just like he told me, but they kept coming! I waited as long as I dared but at the last second I jumped out of the way and they passed through. Tom ran over to me and asked why I had moved? I explained my reasoning (I did not want to die) and he told me that I needed to trust him and that he would never have me do something that would hurt me. Feeling ashamed I went back to my spot and they started over. Sure enough they did it again, running at full speed toward me. I closed my eyes knowing that I was going to be run over but I was not going to move! With my eyes closed yelling at the top of my lungs I waited, hearing their hooves getting closer and closer when all of a suddened they came to a stop right in front of me! He was right and Tom had the biggest smile on his face. I did it and he was proud of me! I was on top of the world as he was not an easy man to impress!
I quickly grew to love him and hated it when he would leave for a long haul trip. He would be gone for what seemed like forever and when he returned it was like Christmas morning x 10. He would always bring us fruit and other goodies from his trip. I had always asked him if I could go with him and he would explain that I couldn't as it was against company policy. When he would get ready to leave I would mope around feeling sorry for myself. One time as he was leaving he looked at me and asked what was wrong and why wasn´t I getting ready? Speechless my Mom brought out a suitecase that she had secretly packed and in his low tone he said that I had better hurry because we were leaving! I could have died, I was so excited. I spent a week with him driving down through Oregon and California picking up and delivering produce. We picked up a load of potatoes in Umatilla Oregon and awhile later went through a truck scale and failed, we were too heavy on the back trailer axles. So we spent half a day throwing potatoes to the front of the trailer until we passed. We had a lot of time together and we talked a lot about his past and mine, giving me lots of good advice, singing country songs together like "Mama´s don´t let your babies grow up to be Cowboy´s". It was a special memory for me.
He bought 30 acres in Cashmere and we moved over there. We built a barn and house with the help of our relatives. We were going to have our own ranch with horses, cows, pigs and chickens. He taught me how to be a cowboy! Tom and I put up miles of fence together in some of the hardest ground you could ever imagine. He was teaching me a work ethic that will always be with me. I wanted to buy a cow, so I got some money from my dad and found an ad in the Little Nickel. We drove to this sage brush field south of Wenatchee to get her. She was an old mean Red Angus cow. We brought her home and Tom was going to show me how to milk her. I had never milked a cow before and this old cow had never been milked before either! I watched Tom as he battled her; he had a hold of one of her back legs and was blocking her kicks with his shoulder. I was scared. He did it one more time the next morning and then it was my turn. If I ever had a doubt in myself he didn´t, he would just show me how to do something and say to me "Now it´s your turn". I was scared but I would rather die than let him down, which over time gave me a lot of confidence in myself. I slowly slid in there and milked that cow and she tried to kick me out of the barn and a couple of times she did but I got back in there, never giving up. He taught me how to ride horses, slaughter everything, and buck hay from morning to night! It was the hardest work that I have ever done in my life and I hated getting up before dark to do all of my chores before school, but you got up and did it. He would usually give you 2 chances to get up and then he would come into my room grab a foot and pull me out of bed onto the floor, so you learned real quick to get up! He was very patient, a great teacher; I wish I had that quality.
One day Tom, my Mom and I loaded up into his red pickup and headed up into the hills. It was my day to learn how to drive. We got up into this big open pasture and he taught me how to start, shift and brake and then told me to drive home. I think my Mom was terrified as I navigated down this narrow road, Tom told me it´s ok, just get the right side tires on the bank and you will be fine. He taught me how to be a mechanic as well. Our jeeps water pump was out and he had bought a new one. I had always helped him fix our vehicles and he had taught me a lot but never by myself. He just pointed to where the pump was located and told me to call him when I had it off and he would walk me through how to put the new one back on. I did it and I could tell that he was proud of me, he would never say it but I could tell!
I could go on and on with stories but I won´t. He was the biggest influence in my life; it was like having John Wayne as a father. He was tough yet very caring and gentle. When I would go with him in his logging truck we would be driving down this winding dirt road and would see some flowers on a hillside, he would stop and run up and pick the flowers for Mary. He was always looking to do something special for her as he loved her so much. He didn´t just teach me man stuff he also taught me respect for others, how to treat and take care of my wife, integrity, how to be a good dad and most important how to love.
Those lessons never left me, even when I was doing things that he would have kicked my butt for doing, the seeds that he had sown in that little boy were growing and would eventually bear fruit. I never thought that my John Wayne would ever die, he is too tough! A few years ago I wrote him a letter telling him most of what I am writing so that he would know how grateful I was to have him in my life. I wish every boy was as lucky as I was to have him!
I will love you forever Tom!
Your Son
Sheldon
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Patrick Widner
April 4, 2008
I will always remember Uncle Tom from the stories everyone tells about him, mostly involving trucking escapades and tire irons of some sort :D . Tom was a great guy and I always liked talking to him when I got a chance. I'm glad he was able to give a couple talks at our hall, he was such a good speaker and really brought life into his talks. He will definitely be missed.
Tim and Marielle Harrington
April 4, 2008
We are so very sorry to hear of the passing of Tom. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this difficult time. May you find comfort and joy in each other and the memories you share. Much love, Tim and Marielle Harrington
Stephanie Anderson
April 4, 2008
I loved Tom the moment I met him. Not only was he sharing his Peterbuilt truck secrets with me but I was sitting in the the cab and honking the horn! If I had been so bold he would have let me drive it but I wasn't ready for that. All my young adult life I had loved semi's and now I was siting in one!
To me Tom was the calm in the center of the storm, the rock upon which the family rested. As a new comer to the clan in the early '90's he always knew what to say to me that made me feel at ease. I felt like he knew me and could sense how I felt and was always ready with a single sentence said in quiet that would make me feel welcome and understood.
To me Tom was just simply the best, the perfect compliment to Mary, a fantastic example to his children, compassionate, sincere and sweet. We will surely miss him!
Love you,
Steph
Jerad, La'Cee, Sheldon, Julie, Jodie Cisco, Pahlow, Anderson, Cisco, Fisher
April 2, 2008
Quotes from Dad:
"Old enough to know better...Young (Dumb) enough to do it again!!
My Mom's Favorite..."If you'd just listen to me!" he he!
"A tatoo is the only permanant way to tell everyone your stupid"
"If I know the stove is hot and I've been burned by it...why would you want to touch it"
"Don't ride the wreck all the way to the hospital" Which means...Know When To Get Off!!
La'Cee Pahlow
April 1, 2008
I loved my Father very much!.....Yes there is no Step in our vocabulary...Tom never treated me like a Step-daughter, and after a little growing up on my part, I have only seen Tom as my Dad, my Father. What a strong man to take on a wife with 3 children. I remember when my Mom started dating Dad he came to visit and he brought my Mom a few roses.... but for me I received my first dozen roses...after that I was Ok with them dating!
He was strong in showing us respect for our Mother, respect for each other, and most of all respect for Jehovah. Dad was always taking the lead in serving Jehovah. I remember studying the bible as a family weekly. Service on Saturdays he made as a routine, you never woke up on Saturday morning and wondered what we were doing, we always knew we were getting up to spread the good news. Oh this wasn't with out resistance from his children from time to time but he always stood firm in our service to Jehovah. Dad also always tried to make it fun, thinking of the kids and making sure we took a coffee break so we could get a pastry or snack.....us not realizing it was really so he could get his pastry!! He he!
When we did something wrong Dad always disciplined us using the bible. As a kid that was so frustrating Ugghh...because there was no arguing with Jehovah! What a wonderful way to show a child discipline. It always humbled me and turned it away from my parents and left it between me and Jehovah.
Dad was always teaching...there was never, "I can't do that" allowed. He either showed us how to do it or told us you can do anything you put your mind to! I remember when Dad taught me to drive. Oh man was I scared! It was an old Jeep Pickup stick shift...how was I supposed to do this??? Well he never let you say can't so he just walked me through the steps. We had recently bailed the hay in our field and the boys were throwing the bails in the back of the truck and Dad just looked at me and said Ok La'Cee you´re driving...and I did it! Even when I jerked the truck with the clutch he never laughed or teased just encouraged and advised.
Dad had the cutest sense of humor, kind of dry, but oh so cute, you just had to laugh no matter what. He had the cutes giggle too! Sometimes when the joke wasn't that funny I still had to laugh just because of his giggling laugh! I will miss hearing that sound!!
What a loving man...Dad was always concerned about me and my boys. Making sure we had what we needed to get by. Taking the boys for the summers giving his time and love to them. I was always so thankful for that.
Biscuits and Gravy........That's what I will never forget about Dad! He knew I loved his biscuits and gravy. Whenever I came over he would always make it for me, and when I stayed at Jerad's he'd even make Mom drive it over there for me...they were the best! Crap I don't get biscuits and gravy anymore...I only ate Dad's!
Most of all I love the way he loved my Mom. Always there for her, supporting her and standing by her... so kind, so patient, and so gentle.
Tommy Cisco was a very loving Husband, Father and Grandfather. I am going to miss him so much! Love you Dad!
Joe and Ginny Fisher
March 31, 2008
Jodie is our daughter in-law. I have to admit that all she says about her dad and the ball games is true. What a great guy. You always saw him and Mary with smiles on their faces. They always welcome my family, (and we are a large family). Our prayers go out to Tom's family during this sad time.
Tad Dosier
March 31, 2008
My uncle Tommy was the kind of man I always looked up to. He took the time to help you, and showing you how to do things. I loved the summers I spent at grandpa Earls house and going over and learning to work with the bee hives and gathering the honey, I loved the smell of the hickory smoker that clamed the bees down. I even like being tricked into the First and only annual Rock festival in Uncle Tommy´s pasture, not knowing that the festival was a cheep way to get the Miller kids and Dosier kids and Julie and Jodie to pick up all the rocks in his pasture. It turned out alright; we got all the soda and watermelon we could eat. And bring it down to today. I really appreciated how my Uncle Tommy and Mary came to see my Mom and family last year when my Dad pasted away, and how he pulled me aside and talked to me, checking on how I was doing and telling me how my loss was going to take some time to sink in, and to take time for just me. Those were great words from a truly great uncle.
I can´t wait to see him again when death will be no more, and no one will have these feelings of pain from losing anyone from death. See you soon Uncle Tommy.
Bob and Lois Pahlow
March 30, 2008
We never met your father,but we want to send our condolences to you and your family. We are Brian's Grandparents.
Jodie Fisher
March 30, 2008
One of my favorite things of my dad... was the clothes he wore. Never fancy, never fashion forward, they were practical, reliable, durable clothes. Every year, my husband's fire department participates in a softball tournament in Wenatchee, and every year, Dad and Mary come out and watch, well, Dad watches, me and Mary catch up ! They show up in the wind, the rain and in the 100 degree weather. Dad always in black pants and usually cowboy boots or black sneakers. All the firefighters are always amazed that he's in his black pants.. one year it was 107 degrees ! Just a few years back, we are at the softball fields and I hear my name being hollered "jodie lynn ! jodie lynn !" and I turn an look, and here comes dad down the path walking like a frog, lifting his feet up way off the ground one at a time... and he's pointing to his feet. I was trying to figure out what the heck he was doing... then I saw... he had a pair of sandals on ! Not black shoes, not cowboy boots, but actual SANDALS ! Yeah Dad ! ok... he did still have black socks and black pants on... but he was so proud that he had sandals on. I'm sure Mary is to thank for those :) xoxox
Dinner Train Anniversary Feb 06
April 1, 2008
old pics ! - Tom and Earl Nov 1952<br><br>Tom, Ray and Kirby July 1956<br><br>the boy scout ?? Feb 1949<br><br>No date on youngest picture
March 31, 2008
old pics - by the car - Nina, Loretta, Tom, Thelma, in Wyoming<br><br>Tom and Kirby Gregory<br><br>4 people - Tom on left July 1956<br><br>Loretta, Tom, Thelma
March 31, 2008
Ah... the red felt hat - with Uncle Owen in Woodinville
March 31, 2008
Studying !
March 31, 2008
Nov 1966 and Dad's going away party - The one with Julie and I when we are older is Dad's going away party from Woodinville to Daniel, Wyoming
March 31, 2008
b/w 1962 color 1966
March 31, 2008
Anniversary Dinner at Benihana
March 31, 2008
I think he's had that coffee cup forever
March 30, 2008
Selene and Roy's Wedding
March 30, 2008
Oct 1993
March 30, 2008
30 years - (02/2006)
March 29, 2008
Wenatchee - (07/2007) - love the hat !
March 29, 2008
Wenatchee - (07/2007)
March 29, 2008
The family - (02/2006)
March 29, 2008
Smile ! - (07/2007) - the photographer extradonaire !
March 29, 2008
Anniversary Dinner - (02/2006) - Wishin' he could drive that train !
March 29, 2008
Memorial Service - (04/05/2008) - La'Cee & Cousin Taanya
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Margie Anderson's Family...yeah I don't know all their names...he he!
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - La'Cee & Uncle Bob
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Sheldon & Uncle Bob
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Grand Daughter Trista & Great Grandson Charlie
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Daughter's Jodie, Julie & La'Cee
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Son's Sheldon, Jerad & Chris
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Children Jodie, Sheldon, Julie, Jerad, La'Cee & Chris
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/04/2008) - Tom's Kids - Jodie, Sheldon, Julie, Jerad, La'Cee, Chris and Loving wife Mary
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Mary's Siblings - Raedell Chidister, Mary Cisco, Bob Warner, Margie Anderson, Bill Warner & Dede Mulford.
April 9, 2008
Memorial Reception - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Daughter La'Cee Great Granddaughter Maraya, & grandson Chase
April 9, 2008
Flowers for Tom - (04/05/2008) - More flowers in memory of Dad
April 9, 2008
Family Dinner Tom's Family - (04/04/2008) - Tom's Family - La'Cee husband Brian Son Chase & Shane, Mary, Sheldon, wife Stephanie, son Stephen, Jerad, Grandson Kyle, Julie, Jodie husband Rob and son Mitchell.
April 9, 2008
Family Dinner - (04/04/2008) - Sheldon & Aunt Raedell
April 9, 2008
Family Dinner - (04/04/2008) - Jerad and Mitchell
April 9, 2008
Family Dinner - (04/04/2008) - La'Cee's Son Chase and his aunt Jodie
April 9, 2008
Flowers - (04/04/2008) - Just some of the Flowers given in Memory of our Dad
April 9, 2008
Family together - (04/04/2008) - Tom's Daughter Julie and Son Sheldon
April 9, 2008
Chidister Family - (04/05/2008) - Mary Cisco's Sister Raedell and John Chidister
April 9, 2008
Long time friends - (04/05/2008) - Rockie and Sherry Ventamilia
April 9, 2008
Congregation Family - (04/05/2008) - Jack & Janine Weins
April 8, 2008
Warner Family - (04/05/2008) - Mary Cisco's Cousin John and friend.
April 8, 2008
Kiss Dodge - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Niece Kim dodging her husband Phil's kiss!
April 8, 2008
Cisco Family - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Sister Thelma and Daughter Julie
April 8, 2008
Cisco Family - (04/05/2008) - Tom's Niece Selene, husband Roy and daughter
April 8, 2008
Cisco Family - (04/05/2008) - Tom's sister Loretta, daughter Lucinda and husband Jamie
April 8, 2008
Cisco Family - (04/05/2008) - Jodie Cisco's Husband Rob and parents, Son Mitchell and Cousin Kyle Anderson
April 8, 2008
Anderson Family - (04/05/2008) - Uncle Kurt and Cousin Ray with in the Anderson Family
April 8, 2008
Full House - (04/05/2008) - The Hall with over 300 friends and family in attendance.
April 8, 2008
Memorial Service - (04/05/2008) - Jim Weins giving the Memorial Talk of our father Tom Cisco.
April 8, 2008
Tom, Loretta, & Earl - (1940)
March 30, 2008
Trucks - (1996)
March 30, 2008
Graudation & 1st car - (1954)
March 30, 2008
1949 - (1949)
March 30, 2008
Logs & Truck - (1996)
March 30, 2008
Prague Group - (2006)
March 30, 2008
Prague - (2006)
March 30, 2008
In the 80's - (1988)
March 30, 2008
Tom in his Chair - (06/07/2007)
March 30, 2008
Smiling on the deck - (06/10/2006) - La'Cee & Tom at Mitch's graduation
March 30, 2008
Tom in Prague - (2006)
March 30, 2008
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