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Carole Coyne
March 16, 2025
My sweet funny handsome grandson forever loved, forever missed. Gram
Rocco and Cindy Cotugno
March 7, 2025
May loving memories bring your family comfort during this sad time. Please accept our deepest sympathies and prayers. Rocco & Cindy Cotugno
Mike Ottati
March 7, 2025
I have two sons and am very Sorry for your loss. Our Families prayers are with you God Bless
Sister Mary Electa, SA
March 7, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. Vance is being remembered by us here at Graymoor, and your family in the days ahead. God bless you.
Sister Mary Electa, SA
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Tom Cotugno
March 7, 2025
This is a difficult Time. My Thoughts and Prayers Go out to the Ottati Family.
Mr. & Mrs. Riley Rensselaer, NY
March 5, 2025
I am just a Mom, Grandma & Great Grandma whose hear is broke in the loss of your talented Son. You have our prayers and your memories! God Bless you and your family!
Michael Cunningham (Provence)
March 5, 2025
So very sorry for the loss a beautiful boy...
Kevin & Kim Rooney AND MaKayla Rooney & Family
March 5, 2025
Our Thoughts and Prayers go out to you and your loving family. We are devasted to hear such sad news. What a tragic loss. Vance seems like a wonderful boy who cherished and loved his family and life itself. Our deepest condolences go out to all of you. Love The Rooney Family and MaKayla
A mom
March 5, 2025
So very sorry
MICHAEL SPRINGER
March 5, 2025
Truly a heavy blow has been dealt
The Caola Family
March 5, 2025
Our son knew your boys at LaSalle and are deeply saddened by your loss which is a loss for all of us. Our deepest condolences.
- The Caola Family
Robin Emanatian
March 3, 2025
Dearest Andrew and Maureen,
My most sincere condolences to you and your family. I can only imagine the pain you are suffering with the loss of your son. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers and you have our love and support.
May your countless memories see you through your grief and one day soon bring you peace. Until then, we are here to help in any way we can.
Sincerely,
Robin & Michael Emanatian
Ed DiMartino
March 2, 2025
So sorry for your loss. Vance was a ray of sunlight to all of us at the Valley Cats. Wonderful memories! We´re thinking of you during this difficult time.
The DiMartino Family
Richard Eddings
March 2, 2025
I am so incredibly sorry for the entire Ottati family. I pray you find love and peace as you search for meaning. I respected Vance deeply. He was a calm and truly caring person. In my classroom, in the hallways, and on the field, he always had a smile for me. I hear his deep voice that seemed to come out of the corner of his mouth, like a wiseguy from a Phillip Marlowe movie.
A great kid and a tragic loss for the world.
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