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Vesta Mullen Obituary

Vesta Irene Dunlop Mullen,

June 10, 1928–July 4, 2024

HOUGHTON - Since 1966 a resident of Houghton, Vesta was a lifelong Canadian citizen and citizen in the Kingdom of God.

Born of Loyalist, Scots and Scots-Irish stock on her grandparents' farm in Maple Ridge, New Brunswick, Vesta was the eldest of three in a preacher's family. Her earliest memories - up to the age of six - were from a fishing village, Seal Cove, on the island of Grand Manan in the Bay of Fundy. She spent eight formative years in Marysville, N.B.; and graduated from high school while in Port Maitland, Nova Scotia.

After teaching English at Bethany Bible College, N.S., and taking on the many roles expected of a pastor's wife for nine years in Woodstock, N.B., Vesta followed husband Laurence to Houghton.

At Fillmore Central School for 25 years, she was a dedicated teacher and administrator. She found particular satisfaction in directing the Reading Center, where she served as many as one hundred or more elementary students each year. Much earlier, in 1949, Vesta had begun her teaching career in a one-room (grades 1-8) rural schoolhouse near Moncton, N.B., and later taught high school English.

Vesta's Christian faith was deep and unwavering - although never facile or glibly expressed. She wrestled with hard questions till the very end. Naturally reserved - her wry sense of humor and astute understanding of human nature often hidden to others - Vesta expressed her deepest beliefs and values through faithful daily living.

Devoted to home and family, Vesta was a compulsive multi-tasker. Few meals were ever prepared - few conversations ever held - without some professional, writing, or sewing project(s) simultaneously in process. Skilled in many crafts, she was particularly admired as a seamstress, making many of her own - and the family's - clothes.

Toward the end of her life she rekindled an earlier interest in oil-painting. She was a musician, card-maker, correspondent and prolific scrap-booker. She loved candles, quilts, houseplants, home-made Christmas decorations, English china and even - for the last third of her life - her computer. Curious about the world, gifted intellectually as well as artistically, Vesta read constantly and widely, especially in the fields of literacy education; children's literature; the history of Christianity; and the history of the Maritime Provinces.

In an era when relatively few women in Eastern Canada attended university, both of Vesta's parents encouraged her to pursue higher education. She graduated from New Brunswick Teachers College and continued her formal education at the University of New Brunswick (Fredericton) and Eastern Nazarene College in Boston, Mass., graduating with a BA in English. She earned an MS in literacy education from SUNY-Geneseo.

In addition to Laurence, her husband of 73 years, and her many friends, Vesta is survived by her four children and their spouses, Shirley and Paul Mills, Barbara and Richard Pointer, Andrew and Jana Mullen and James and Darice Mullen; eight grandchildren, Katie, Kristy, Julie, Phoebe, Frances, Jessica, Victoria and Jordan; and nine great-grandchildren, Kate, Aaron, Hutch, Barrett, Bernie, Elodie, Lucia, Oliver and Asher. She is survived as well by two sisters-in-law, Dana Mullen and Ethel Mullen Forbes; a brother-in-law, Alvin Forbes; and numerous nephews and nieces.

She was predeceased by her parents, Rev. Fraser and Margaret Graham Dunlop; sister, Patye (Glenn) McCrea; and brother, Wayne (Marguerite) Dunlop.

Rest in peace, Vesta, thou good and faithful servant. We hope to join you on the other side.

Family and friends may gather from 2 to 4 and from 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, July 18, 2024, at the Kopler-Williams Funeral Home, 21 N. Genesee St., Fillmore. A funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, July 19, 2024, in Houghton Wesleyan Church. Rev. Dr. Wesley Oden will officiate. Burial will be in Brown's Flat Baptist Church Cemetery, Brown's Flat, New Brunswick, Canada.

At Vesta's request, memorial contributions may be made to the Laurence & Vesta Mullen Endowed Scholarship at Houghton University; or to Fillmore Central School. Those who knew her in the Maritimes might contribute to the Heritage Center/Archives at Beulah Camp.

Online condolences may be made at www.koplerwilliamsfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Olean Times Herald on Jul. 10, 2024.

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Carole Fine

July 8, 2024

Vesta was my longtime friend and mentor. My heart aches. I made it a point to visit with Laurence and Vesta at Beulah when I was vacationing in N.B. Am at a loss for words.

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