Victoria Sweeney
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Mayra Sneed Lopez
December 5, 2023
Dear Frank and Donna,
I think of Tori often, especially on my eldest son's birthday which he shared with her, albeit she was 3 years older. I remember on our first morning living in Nazareth, Tori was the very first person to ring our doorbell and ask if our 3 boys could come out and play. That is one of my fondest memories of your precious daughter and one that I'll always cherish. She was very special.
Jessie Vicari
December 9, 2021
Tory was a great friend and miss her everyday. She was such a wonderful person, gone way too soon.
James Wolfe
June 5, 2012
What happened caught me off gaurd, and I heard about all of this after the fact, but I was going through my phone today and saw at the bottom I still had a few text messages from the last time Tori and I spoke...
I know many of you don't know me, but I knew Tori from college and the Student Government Association. I've never known someone who was so fun-loving, free spirited, and as many have said; unafraid to be herself and speak her mind. In that sense, she's always been an inspiration to me. My heart goes out to Ben and all the Family.
I will dearly miss her friendship.
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Tim Booth
May 3, 2012
Donna, I was reviewing the notes from our lunch and saw the website link. I had a nice time looking through the website and all the pictures. She looked very happy in all of them and it seems that her short life was very blessed.
Kayla Hammer
February 9, 2012
I think about Tori every single day, there isn't a day that goes by where I dont think about all the great times we had together, all the birthday parties I went to, when she went to prom, her being at the daycare and doing my nails and hair for me all the time! Not to mention I got my wearing two different colored socks from her and I still and will never match my socks(: I'm so glad I had her in my life, she was like a sister too me.
Rest easy tori, I love you<3
Takashi Tamura
January 29, 2012
Ben
I am Keisuke'sfather.
I knew your website in a Donna's mail.
As you know,Keisuke was a Japanese exchange student and Tori and he had lived together for 2 years from 1995 to 1996.
They were like a brother and sister.
He knew many things about USA form Tori and she also knew about Japan.
So,the news of Tori's loss came as a great shock to all of us.
When we see many Tori's photos in your website, we weep over a loss.
We would like to offer our sympathy and condolence to you.
Takashi Tamura form Japan
Frank and Donna Hirst
January 6, 2012
Yesterday we went to Kohls to pick up a few items that we needed. Everything was fine until we reached the sox isle and tears began to stream down my face. I am sure the people at Kohls probably were thinking there is some crazy person over there crying over sox's, she probably has had WAY to much Christmas shopping. But the sox made me think of all the special things that made OUR VICTORIA exactly who she was. She was smart and had a mind of her own. She loved people but she didn't have to be one of the crowd. She wasn't afraid to be different, or to speak her mind, or to defend the defenseless. We were always amazed that children and animals always gravitated towards Tori, they seemed to sense the fact that Tori would protect and cherish each and every one of them.
Tori also had a strong sense of right and wrong: these were values that we believe we, as her parents, instilled in her but we strongly believe those values were reinforced by other important adults in her life, like her Grand Parents, Shihan, Uncles, and Aunts. Some of the Grand Parents, Uncles and Aunts were by blood, others by marriage and others she adopted. If it takes a community to raise a child, we have the best community in the world, so thank you all for that.
The sox also made me think of how silly it seemed, at least to me, that they never matched but that was also part of her charm. As we all know, Tori had a smile that could light up a room; she had a laugh that was contagious; and a spirit that was unmatched by anyone we ever knew. Until she got sick, her energy was endless as was the love of her family and friends. Tori had the ability to find and see wonderful qualities in every person she met.
Tori loved her husband Ben, even though his sox always matched. She loved us very much and for those of you who don't know, she called us every night at 9 PM on the dot to say good night and to tell us she loved us. We are so thankful that we will always have that.
We ask that you carry on Tori's legacy and that is protect those who are unable to protect themselves. Encourage those who are struggling to do the right thing. Find the humor in life because it may be shorter than we expect and every morning when you put on your sox, please think of Victoria and say a prayer for her.
Many thanks for all your love and support, we are eternally grateful.
Mom and Dad
January 5, 2012
December 16th we went to Kohls to pick up a few items that we needed. Everything was fine until we reached the sox isle and tears began to stream down my face. I am sure the people at Kohls probably were thinking there is some crazy person over there crying over sox's, she probably has had WAY to much Christmas shopping. But the sox made me think of all the special things that made OUR VICTORIA exactly who she was. She was smart and had a mind of her own. She loved people but she didn't have to be one of the crowd. She wasn't afraid to be different, or to speak her mind, or to defend the defenseless. We were always amazed that children and animals always gravitated towards Tori, they seemed to sense the fact that Tori would protect and cherish each and every one of them.
Tori also had a strong sense of right and wrong: these were values that we believe we, as her parents, instilled in her but we strongly believe those values were reinforced by other important adults in her life, like her Grand Parents, Shihan, Uncles, and Aunts. Some of the Grand Parents, Uncles and Aunts were by blood, others by marriage and others she adopted. If it takes a community to raise a child, we have the best community in the world, so thank you all for that.
The sox also made me think of how silly it seemed, at least to me, that they never matched but that was also part of her charm. As we all know, Tori had a smile that could light up a room; she had a laugh that was contagious; and a spirit that was unmatched by anyone we ever knew. Until she got sick, her energy was endless as was the love of her family and friends. Tori had the ability to find and see wonderful qualities in every person she met.
Tori loved her husband Ben, even though his sox always matched. She loved us very much and for those of you who don't know, she called us every night at 9 PM on the dot to say good night and to tell us she loved us. We are so thankful that we will always have that.
We ask that you carry on Tori's legacy and that is protect those who are unable to protect themselves. Encourage those who are struggling to do the right thing. Find the humor in life because it may be shorter than we expect and every morning when you put on your sox, please think of Victoria and say a prayer for her.
Many thanks for all your love and support, we are eternally grateful.
Donna and Frank
sara giovanni
December 20, 2011
I cheered with tori in highschool. Although she was a year younger then me, she was a little ball of energy! Always made me smile! she will be missed and I will always remember the time we had together. I'm sorry for your loss and will keep all of her family and friends in my prayers.
Tim & Nancy Dunn
December 17, 2011
Frank and Donna,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your extended family. We can't image what you are going through. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and guide you through this time of sorrow.
Courtney Miller
December 17, 2011
I will miss you
Courtney Miller
December 17, 2011
Tori you will be very missed by me! You will always be in my heart all our good times we had with your mom and dad! I will see you again one day I promise
courtney miller
December 17, 2011
oh my gosh i cant even beleive this tori was my best friend my thoughts and prayers are given to her family she will be greatly missed by me always and forever tori we had alot of great times looking at the moon and stars! i will never ever forget you ever!
Anna Peluso
December 16, 2011
I went to high school and graduated with Tori and she was such a great girl, so friendly and nice to all around her. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Cindy Leonard
December 16, 2011
Dear Frank, Donna, Ben, Sue and Sean
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family during this sad time. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy, Karyn and Patrick
Sallie Jo Brandt
December 16, 2011
Dear Ben, Cousin Frank and Donna,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your families. We will hold you all in our hearts with our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Sallie Jo, Jake and Joshua B.
Mohamed Rajmohamed
December 15, 2011
Tori was a student of mine at Cedar Crest College who left quite an impact on me by sharing some very profound comments after a class discussion. May the All Merciful Lord shower upon her the choicest blessings and grant patience and strength to her family.
Beth & Neil Weisbard
December 15, 2011
Frank, Donna, and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
December 15, 2011
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Our Deepest Sympathies
Heather & Tony
Andrew Gould
December 14, 2011
My prayers and deepest sympathies are with you. I knew Tori from high school; she was great person. May she rest in peace and may you find comfort in your friends and family.
Kathy Ritton
December 13, 2011
Ben
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Sweeney & Hirst family at your time of grief.
Diana Overton
December 13, 2011
Frank, Donna & Ben - I want to share my most heartfelt condolences at the passing of your daughter / wife, Victoria. May she rest in peace and may you find comfort in your friends and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Jennifer O'Brien
December 13, 2011
Dear Frank, Donna and Ben, praying that the Lord will cover over you with His peace during this difficult time. I'm sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda & Bob Rodgers
December 12, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Hope Herschman
December 12, 2011
Ben,
I never got a chance to meet Tori, but by reading all these entries heaven gained a wonderful angel. I know we haven't seen each other since we graduated from high school, but my deepest sympathies are with you and the whole family. It is never easy to lose someone so young, but just remember Tori will be with you always in your heart and memories.
Carol Donovan
December 12, 2011
Frank, Donna and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.
Trixie Jackson
December 12, 2011
Dear cousin Frank, Donna and family,
My deepest sympathies, love and prayers to all of you. My heart is so saddened. I am so happy that I had the opportunity to spend some time with Tori this spring. We laughed and laughed. May you find strength in your family and friends. Love, Trixie
The Lopez Family
December 12, 2011
Dear Donna and Frank,
Words cannot express our sadness at the loss of your beloved Tori. We had the privilege of seeing her grow up from a gangly,happy nine-year-old, into a beautiful,vibrant young woman, always with a bright smile,a laugh, and a kind word for everyone.
We'll always remember her with great fondness. Our sincerest condolences to you, her husband, and the rest of her family and friends.
December 12, 2011
To Frank, Donna and Family Our Deepist sympathy & Prayers for all of you!
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Judi Trembler
December 12, 2011
Frank & Donna -
With my deepest and most sincerest sympathy for your loss....
Judi Trembler
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Shannon Schwarte
December 12, 2011
Frank & Donna,
“For some moments in life there are no words”
My heart is heavy and hurts for the both of you….my deepest sympathies..
Joy and Gary
December 12, 2011
Ben, Tom and Annie....and family... it's been a very sad week. Tori and our aunt Brenda had so much more to live and give. They were loved by many and will be fondly remembered by all who had the pleasure of knowing them. They will be missed. Joy Hunsicker and Gary Nowlin
Louise and Jeff Gross
December 12, 2011
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
The Gossimer Family
December 12, 2011
To all who new and or loved Tori, to have only seen that smile once was to know it a lifetime.
JT Krupa
December 12, 2011
Donna and Family,
I only ever had the privlege of meeting Tori at DP once while there with my kids. She was so nice to them and made them both smile and laugh, which is something special given how shy my daughter is. Not many people have that gift, but she certainly did. I'm so very sorry for your loss and will keep you and your family in my prayers. She'll never be gone as long as you keep her in your hearts and prayers.
With Love,
Jim and Kathy Graver
December 12, 2011
We are so sorry for the loss of your daughter, daughter-in-law and your wife. Our thoughts are with all of you at this time.
Roberto Maisonet
December 12, 2011
Ive only known her for a short while at dorney. I am so shocked of seeing a fellow DP Security officer, let alone, a person who is still young at life, leave before her time. My deepest sympathy and prayers. RIP Offcr. Sweeney.
Paula Overly
December 11, 2011
My deepest sympathies to you, Ben, and all who knew and loved Tori. You remain in my prayers during this sorrowful time.
Selena Sweeney
December 11, 2011
Tori was such a special girl and I feel fortunate to be able to call her my daughter-in-law. Her zest for life, quick smile and ever present hugs were all infectious and she brought sunshine and joy to all who knew her. It was quite obvious how happy she always made Ben. Although physically Tori is no longer in our presence her spirit will live on in our hearts and minds -- creating pleasant memories each and every time we think of her.
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I and you are you,
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone,
wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow,
laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Pray smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort,
without the trace of a shadow in it.
Life means all that it ever meant,
it is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity,
why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you
somewhere very near
just around the corner.
All is well
Rest in Peace, Tori---Love, Selena
Krista (Snyder) Wayne
December 11, 2011
To Tori's Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I cheered with Tori in hs, and she was such a sweet person. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Selena Sweeney
December 11, 2011
Tori was such a special girl & I feel fortunate to be able to call her my daughter-in-law. Her quick smile, zest for life and always ready hug was infectious----and she made Ben so very, very happy. There are no words that can adequately explain the sadness and emptiness we all now feel, but Tori's spirit will forever live in our hearts and minds.
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I and you are you,
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone,
wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow,
laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Pray smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort,
without the trace of a shadow in it.
Life means all that it ever meant,
it is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity,
why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you
somewhere very near
just around the corner.
All is well
Rest in Peace, Tori---you will always be near and never be forgotten---Love, Selena
Lauren Turkel (Logan Magdits)
December 11, 2011
Our deepest condolences.
Debbie and Jim Beers
December 11, 2011
Frank, Donna, Ben and the entire family,
We are so sorry for your loss. May the love of family and friends carry you through your grief.
diane Gardner
December 11, 2011
To The Hirst And Sweeney Familys
Im So Sorry For Your Loss My Prayers our With you Guys Tori was such a great person its so sad to hear this
Diane Gardner
Dave & Mel Ashmore
December 11, 2011
Frank, Donna, Ben & Family.
We have no words kind enough to express our sympathy for your loss of Tori.
Please find some comfort in knowing that we share your grief.
Dave, Mel & Family
The Lumm Family
December 11, 2011
Dear Frank & Donna, We were shocked and very saddened by the news of Tori's passing. Everyone knows she was the sparkle in your eyes. She had a way to make us all laugh. God bless you with strength and grace. We will keep you in our prayers.
December 11, 2011
Ben and the entire family,
I believe that God makes some people extra special because he knows they will only be with us a short time. We are blessed for having had Tori touch our lives. She was such a unique person and we are so sorry for your loss. May you hold all of your extra special memories dear to your heart for that is where she has left her footprints. Stay strong and love life the way she would want you to. May she rest in eternal peace. Our deepest sympathies, Tammy, Boyd, Lauren, Logan and Jillian Kreglow
December 11, 2011
Frank,Donna & Ben, There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I will always remember when she first held Emma. She watched over her the entire time we were at her house. She knew everyone that was holding her and cradled her every chance she had. She watched over her that entire day as she will watch over all of us from now on. Many hugs to you and I wish we could be there. With love, Lourn, Christie, Zach, Emma and Jaxson
Diane Bauman
December 11, 2011
Tori...I only knew a short time but everytime I saw you you gave me a hug. I knew that you were special. You were the light in your parents eyes and always will be. We will miss your big smile and big heart. Till we meet again, Diane (hugs)Emily and Megan
Shana Snyder
December 11, 2011
Frank, Donna, & Ben,
I remember cheering with Tori at Nazareth. She always had a lot of energy and had the ability to make enveryone around her smile. I am sorry for you loss, she will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tanya Remaly
December 11, 2011
Sry to hear about tori really did not know her i am sure she was very nice just like the family. I know what you are going threw hang in there the holidays are the hardist. Even till this day i still cry and miss kyle alot . You and your family are in my prayers
Bart and Tari Seitz
December 11, 2011
Frank, Donna and Ben,
We have no words other than to let you know how very sad we are for all of you and to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jessie & Jack
December 11, 2011
Tori, you will be missed very much & you were a great friend! Rest in peace. Im so sorry for your family's lost and uses will be in my prayers. <3
Ann Messinger
December 11, 2011
It breaks my heart to hear about Tori's passing. My thoughts are with you Frank & Donna & Ben.
Krista
December 11, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss,I had worked with her a couple of years back..she was such a nice person,working with her and talking with her made the day go so much faster,I really enjoyed her! My prayers are with you! God Bless
Mary Miller
December 11, 2011
I'm so sorry for your loss, Ben.
Kellie Noll
December 11, 2011
RIP Tori! You will be truly missed!
Cheryl Heffelfinger
December 11, 2011
Frank,Donna and Ben,
I am very sorry for your loss.
Ken Morgan
December 11, 2011
Frank and Donna,
Please find some solace in knowing that everyone is sharing in
the pain of your tremendous loss.
The Reverend Doctor David Charles Smith
December 11, 2011
My deepest sympathy and Christian love to Ben and the entire Sweeney family at this time of loss and grief. Ben was in confirmation class when I served at Grace UCC. May the peace of the Risen Christ offer you comfort and hope in the difficult days ahead.
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