Vincent Acciaio Obituary
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Irondequoit: November 15, 2025. Vincent is predeceased by his daughter, Christine Cole. He is survived by his wife, Arlene; daughter, Julie Nicoletti (Carl Zeigler), son, Vincent (Laura); son-in-law, Dale Cole; grandchildren, Veronica (Joe) Pyle, Tabitha Cole, Grace Nicoletti and Vincent Thomas Acciaio; great-grandchildren, Faith and Dean Ruggieri; many nieces and nephews.
Vinnie's life story will be shared during his visitation at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane, (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.) on Tuesday, November 18th from 2-4 & 6-8 PM. His funeral mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, November 19th, 10:00 AM at Saint Kateri Parish at Christ the King Church, 445 Kings Highway South, Rochester, NY 14617.
Immediately following, Vincent will be laid to rest in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to your local food bank, in memory of Vinnie.
Public Viewing:
Tuesday, November 18, 2025
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626
Public Viewing:
Tuesday, November 18, 2025
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626
Mass:
Wednesday, November 19, 2025
10:00 am - 11:00 am
St. Kateri at Christ the King
445 Kings Highway
Rochester, NY 14617
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