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Vincent Patella Obituary
He is a 1974 graduate of Taconic High School and a communicant of St. Anne's Church.
Mr. Patella, always a protector, served as a Sergeant in the Marine Corps. He performed special duty in the HMX1 Helicopter Security Squadron under President Carter, who awarded Vincent with the Presidential Service Certificate for Honorable Service in the White House. He also worked as a Corrections Officer at the Berkshire County House of Corrections, and in security at the Boys & Girls Club of the Berkshires and the Berkshire County Museum. Most recently, Mr. Patella loyally served as a Court Officer for the Berkshire County Superior Court in Pittsfield from April 6, 1993 until his date of retirement on August 30, 2016.
Vincent was a true comedian whose "Vinny-isms" will live on with everyone who knew him. He had a profound love for music with a booming voice to match, and never missed an opportunity to sing along to Frank Sinatra or "the Boss." He was masterful in the kitchen and incorporated his pride for his Italian heritage into every meal he prepared. His faith became more important to him with each year that passed, and he prayed earnestly and daily for those that he loved. Most importantly to Vincent, his proudest accomplishment was raising his two children, and he always made sure they knew how special they were to him.
He is survived by his daughter, Samantha "Sami" Patella, a physician in Santa Monica, CA, and son, Vincent "Sonny" Patella of Lenox, who is now raising Mr. Patella's first granddaughter, Xylia Patella. He also leaves his mother, Sara Patella of Pittsfield, his two sisters, Susan Patella and Kathleen Patella of Pittsfield, and niece Jamila Benkhoud. He leaves many other friends and family members, each of whom he cherished deeply. He was predeceased by his father, Vincent A. Patella, Sr.
If you have any stories, memories, or "Vinny-isms" to share, no matter how big or how small, please send them to Vincent's daughter Samantha Patella at [email protected].
FUNERAL NOTICE: A Liturgy of Christian Burial will be held THURSDAY, May 16, 2024 at 1 p.m. at St. Joseph Church in Pittsfield. Burial with full military honors will follow in St. Joseph's Cemetery.
Calling hours will precede the service from 11 to 12:30 p.m. at DERY FUNERAL HOME, 54 Bradford St., Pittsfield, MA 01201. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in his name to the Pittsfield Boys and Girls Club in care of the funeral home.
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MARY COURTNEY
May 23, 2024
While I didn't know him well, he was always very nice to me when our paths crossed at the courthouse. Condolences to your family.
Lisa Boatman
May 18, 2024
Aunt Sarah, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what it's like to lose a child. My Christina passed away 4/4/2020 from Covid-19. I'm raising her daughter Elizabeth since them. You are in my prayers
Lisa Morgan
May 18, 2024
I'm sorry to hear that my cousin Vinny has passed away. My condolences to our family and friends. Wish that I could have been more closer to my dad's family.
Elizabeth Powanda
May 18, 2024
I spent many times with Vinny and Mark Q. At Micheal´s apartment. We laughed a lot. Vinny was all about trying to entertain us with his humor. RIP . Prayers for his beloved family.
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Christine McEvoy
May 17, 2024
I will remember Vinnie as a kind hearted and caring man. I will miss his presence and wish him everlasting peace. May fond memories sustain his beloved family through this difficult time.
Bill Bateman
May 16, 2024
My sincere condolences to the Patella family. I worked with Vinny at the jail and courthouse.
Vinny and I always shared a laugh quoting lines from the movie Blazing Saddles. Vinny was Mr. Taggert and I was Sheriff Bart. R.I.P. my friend and I will see you on the other side.
Joe and Michele Sondrini
May 16, 2024
We are so sorry to hear about Vinny´s passing. Our deepest condolences to the Patella Family.
Sara kanter
May 16, 2024
Vinny was not just my upstairs neighbor but a friend. We were always to laugh at our struggles . He was a cheer in my life. Always spoke to my boys even when they were being extremely loud. Anyone who knew Vinny knew he was an angel in disguise. Now il hope we meet again He was so proud of his kids and grandchild He truly had a full life with many accomplishments .
Aaron Flynn
May 15, 2024
Dearest Sara, Sami, and Sonny:
So very sorry to learn of Vinny´s passing. I was stunned and saddened when I came across his obituary in the Eagle. What a life he lived. From the early days when we both played sports at Clapp park to being in the same classes at both Crosby and Taconic HS, it was a privilege to have known him for all these years. We were not the kind of friends that hung around with each other on weekends, but when we would occasionally cross paths we would sit down and spend the time to catch up with each other´s lives. Ironically, we both served four years in the Marine Corps during the same time period without ever having a discussion about our intentions of being part of something bigger than both of us. And what a resume. Traveling to Egypt as security detail for President Carter for the Camp David Peace Accords. Talk about being able to witness history; I am humbled by his accomplishments. I wish you peaceful thoughts as you reminisce about your son and dad. Vinny, thank you for your service, all of it.
David Condron
May 15, 2024
May you Rest In Peace Bruno Tattaglia. From your friend, Moe Green
Stephen Gallo
May 15, 2024
Mrs Patella,Suzy, Kathy and Vinny's kids I am so very sorry for your loss. Vinny was one of my favorite people ever. He was my next door neighbor when he was born. Ran into him last summer , so glad I did. I'm going to miss the hell out of you. RIP old friend.
Rose and Lori Kimball farms salon.
May 15, 2024
Sara and family, may all your fond memories help you through this sad time.
Chico & Patty Martin
May 15, 2024
Samatha, Sonny & Family,
I was sadden to hear about Vinny. I have many fond memories working with him at the Courthouse over the years. Vinny always made a impression wherever he went. Sheriff's Department, The Trial Court. He was such a likeable guy who had a genuine arura that drew your attention to him.
A booming voice, A physical presence.
I would like to say his Vinny-isms were often displayed as only he could display them. He was so proud of Samatha, Sonny. He also loved being a Marine.
Keeping All of You in Our Prayers
Our Sincere Condolences
Aunt Noreen, Uncle Al, Matt & Emily
May 15, 2024
Dear Sami & Sonny,
Your dad loved you so much. He is gone too soon but we will cherish all the precious memories of him. May he rest in peace knowing that he was loved by everyone that knew him.
Timothy MEANDRO
May 15, 2024
Love you Cousin Vinny. God bless.
Judy and David Nadeau
May 15, 2024
I remember being over His Aunt Lauras house for a picnic. She put on this Italian song
He stopped what he was doing, stood up, sang the song in Italian and acted out the words. He was a lot of fun to be around.
To the Patella family, so sorry for your loss. May his memories help you through.
Scott Sibley
May 15, 2024
Sammi, Sonny and Patella family. Very sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of knowing Vin for many years and then we worked together at the Trial Court. Always enjoyed our conversations, and listening to Vin´s life stories. RIP my friend, you will be missed
Bob macdonald
May 15, 2024
Vininy's family - he was solid guy who knew how to laugh. Outstanding at his job ! Rest with peace Vin !
Keith Reardon
May 15, 2024
My deepest condolences and prayers for the Patella family. It was a pleasure to work with Vin for the years in the Trial Court. RIP my friend
Bob macdonald
May 15, 2024
Vininy's family- I worked with Vinny for many years- solid man. Rest with peace Vin!
John A. Bernardo Esq
May 15, 2024
My sincere condolences to the family. May the fond and loving memories be a comfort and always be with you.
Lenox Police Department
May 15, 2024
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