Walter Edward "Bud" Cox

Walter Edward "Bud" Cox obituary, Norwalk, CT

Walter Edward "Bud" Cox

Upcoming Events

Feb

19

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Graham Funeral Home

1036 Boston Post Rd., Rye, NY 10580

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Feb

20

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Church of the Resurrection

910 Boston Post Road, Rye, NY 10580

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Services provided by

Graham Funeral Home - Rye

Only 5 days left for delivery to next service.

Walter Cox Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Graham Funeral Home - Rye on Feb. 12, 2026.
Walter "Bud" Edward Cox (Bud Cort) passed away on February 11, 2026 after a long illness, and has now returned peacefully to God's loving embrace.

Bud was born in 1948 to Alma and Joseph Cox and grew up in Rye. He attended Resurrection grammar school and Iona Prep. From a young age, Bud showed remarkable talent in both the visual and performing arts. In high school, he took classes at the Rye Art Center and became skilled in portraiture, receiving commissions from many Rye families to create original portraits of their loved ones. At Iona Prep, he immersed himself in all aspects of theater, including lighting, set design, make-up, and acting. As a young teenager, he raised money through his art commissions and bake sales so he could take the train into Manhattan to attend the theater.

Bud studied set design at the NYU School of the Arts. While there, he met actor and coach Bill Hickey and ultimately left NYU to train full time at HB Studio in Greenwich Village. He began landing non speaking roles in films and appeared in several commercials. The Cox family fondly remembered rushing home to gather around the TV to watch Bud deliver flowers in an episode of General Hospital.

In the late sixties, Bud moved to Los Angeles. While performing in a revue in Hollywood, he caught the attention of director Robert Altman, who cast him in a small role in M.A.S.H. Altman then offered him the lead role in his next film, Brewster McCloud, alongside Sally Kellerman, Shelley Duvall, and others.

In 1971, Bud starred with Ruth Gordon in Harold and Maude, which went on to become a cult classic. The film-and Bud-received numerous accolades and is frequently listed among the top 100 films of all time. Over the course of his career, he appeared in more than 40 films, including Coyote Ugly, Pollock, Heat, and The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou. He also continued to work in live theater and made guest appearances on television.

Bud was a generous, thoughtful, loyal, and spirited son, brother, uncle, great uncle, and friend. He made a genuine effort to stay closely connected with the people he cared about. He never missed a birthday and loved sending gifts simply to say, "I'm thinking of you." His mischievous sense of humor and love of making others laugh endeared him to everyone he met. He made friends wherever he went and will be deeply missed.

Bud is survived by his brother, Joseph Cox (Vickie) of Rye; his sisters Tracy Berkman (Edward) of Norwalk, CT, Kerry Cox of Larchmont, NY, and Shelly Dufour (Robert) of Greensboro, GA; his nieces and nephews, Meave Cox, Brynn Cox, Daniel Berkman, Peter Berkman, Madeline Dufour Scheve, and Lucie Dufour Blankenship; and five great-nieces and great-nephews. He was predeceased by his niece Samantha Berkman in 2023.

The family will receive friends at the Graham Funeral Home on Thursday February 19, 2026 from 4:00-8:00 PM. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Friday February 20, 2026 at 10:00 AM.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Walter Cox's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

Yesterday

Kaitlyn Victoria posted to the memorial.

Yesterday

Julie Kredens posted to the memorial.

February 12, 2026

Courtney Campbell posted to the memorial.

3 Entries

Kaitlyn Victoria

Yesterday

Dearest Bud, even though we never did meet, you left an everlasting impact on my life. Through your work, you made me laugh, you made me cry, and you inspired me to live life to the fullest, to love more, and to never be afraid to chase your dreams.

I send my deepest condolences to your family, friends, and fans around the world. Rest peacefully, beautiful soul. I will never forget you

Julie Kredens

Yesterday

Much love and condolences to the Cox Family. Bud left extraordinary and lasting gifts through his work. He shines on.

Courtney Campbell

February 12, 2026

RIP Bud Always loved your work. Thank you for all the movies and memories. I will never forgot you.

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Graham Funeral Home - Rye

1036 Boston Post Rd., Rye, NY 10580

Make a Donation
in Walter Cox's name

How to support Walter's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Walter Cox's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Upcoming Events

Feb

19

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Graham Funeral Home

1036 Boston Post Rd., Rye, NY 10580

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Feb

20

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Church of the Resurrection

910 Boston Post Road, Rye, NY 10580

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Services provided by

Graham Funeral Home - Rye

Only 5 days left for delivery to next service.