Wendy Fecteau

Wendy Fecteau obituary, Siesta Key, FL

Wendy Fecteau

Wendy Fecteau Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Toale Brothers Funeral Home & Crematory - Colonial Chapel - Sarasota on Jan. 5, 2026.
Wendy Fecteau, beloved sister, daughter, aunt and friend, passed away into the loving arms of God on January 1, 2026, at the age of 64, after a courageous battle with esophageal cancer. Wendy was born August 7, 1961, in Milwaukee, WI to her late parents, Jacqueline (nee Guequierre) and Robert Fecteau.

Wendy moved to Sarasota 14 years ago and savored every moment of her time spent at the beach on Siesta Key. She was very active in AA and sponsored many individuals over the years, both in Wisconsin and Florida, by sharing her recovery experience and guiding and supporting newcomers through the recovery process.

Wendy earned her BBA degree from UW-Whitewater. She worked for the Knox Company in Sales. In her role at Knox, she worked closely with and made many friends in multiple Fire Safety organizations throughout several southern states.

Wendy is survived by her fur babies, Sandy and Sailor, siblings Vicky Williams, Jack Fecteau, Mark (Mary) Fecteau, Suzanne MacDonald Appleby and John (Emily) Mapes, and stepmother, Judy Fecteau. She was a loving and cherished aunt to nieces Nicole Williams, Stephanie (Jason) Smith, Jessica (Alex) Weber and Marissa (JD) Rollins. She is further survived by a grandniece, grandnephews, other relatives and many friends.

Wendy was a strong woman with an uplifting attitude, and she positively impacted so many lives with her wisdom and compassionate heart. She will be greatly missed by all those whose lives she touched.

A private graveside memorial service will be held in the spring in Wisconsin

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January 8, 2026

Julie Reno posted to the memorial.

January 8, 2026

Linda Johnson, Fire Marshal Indian Harbour Beach Fl posted to the memorial.

January 5, 2026

Toale Brothers Funeral Home & Crematory - Colonial Chapel - Sarasota posted an obituary.

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Julie Reno

January 8, 2026

I have known Wendy for over 25 years and have such fond memories of walking Siesta Key beach with her. She was an amazing friend and I will truly miss her!

Linda Johnson, Fire Marshal Indian Harbour Beach Fl

January 8, 2026

So very sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. She was an amazing lady who shared her passion for Fire Safety and was a great asset. My sincere condolences to all of Wendy's family and friends. Wendy will be greatly missed in the Fire Safety world.

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January 8, 2026

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January 5, 2026

Toale Brothers Funeral Home & Crematory - Colonial Chapel - Sarasota posted an obituary.