Wilson J Murray obituary, Lorain, OH

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Wilson J Murray

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James Horton

November 8, 2024

Now that I´m older I reflect on the impact of my experiences with Mr. Murray and participation as a music student at EHS. My time as an EHS band member has influenced so many parts of my life...I was taught dedication, discipline, teamwork, friendship, respect, just to name a few. I didn´t realize it as a high school student but I know now a foundational approach to life planted in me by this great teacher and influencer....How you do anything is how you do everything.. I don´t live in Elyria anymore but I wish I would have been able to tell him Thank You. Thanks for demanding excellence, thanks for demanding respect, thanks for your kindness, thanks for caring, thanks for your honesty, thanks for being you. Mr Murray you will be missed. Thank You Sir!

Holly (Raye) Dean

November 6, 2024

I had Mr. Murray as my band director throughout my years at Elyria High in the early 80s. It was truly my favorite part of high school. He made us work so hard but it taught us so much. Really helped me with my military years. Lol R.I.P. You are a true inspiration for so many and will meet again one day!

Benita Mitchell Arnold

November 5, 2024

Mr Murray was a serious professional, I remember my first band camp he made it very clear he did not care how close our families were, that we worshipped together none of that. He had us running laps one day until I fell out, but he was a remarkable man and he will be sorely missed.

Mona Bigler Hartselle

November 5, 2024

Mr. Murray was my band director back in the early 70s. He demanded excellence from all bandsmen. Many days I found myself feeling angry over having to march and play so hard, just to be able to stay on the field that first year of marching band. But it was that anger that drove me to do better; Mr. Murray somehow taught me to channel it into determination and success. One thing I will always remember is that when the band played something really well-a dynamite performance!-he told us it was "adequate." At first, I didn´t understand-how could we improve over a near-perfect performance? But over time, I understood that "adequate" meant that we had met his high expectations and that he was proud of us, but we could always do more and be more. It was his highest compliment, and we strove to earn it. Mr. Murray was hands down the very best teacher I have ever had. Godspeed, Mr. Murray! We will see you on the other side.

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