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Wilson is survived by his loving sister, Mable Phillips (Elyria, OH); brother Hilton (Sheila) (Cleveland Heights, OH); and treasured nieces and nephew, including Dana Phillips (Elyria, OH), Raechel Standifer (Arlington, VA), and Michael Murray (Melissa) (Cleveland Heights, OH). His legacy continues through his grandnieces Cheyenne Nickens (Robert) (Burlington, NC) and Nadia Waddy (Arlington, VA), as well as great-grandnieces Marley Murray (Cleveland Heights, OH) and Gianna Nickens (Burlington, NC). He also held a special bond with his godson, Tim Williams (Lorain, OH),and Wayne Hooks (Elyria, OH) for his unfailing kindness, special and a wide circle of family and friends who will forever hold him in their hearts.
Wilson received both his elementary and secondary education from Elyria Public Schools and went on to earn a Master's degree from Ohio State University. He was a dedicated band director for Elyria High School and Ann Arbor Huron High School in Michigan, and also served as a graduate assistant at Ohio State University. In addition to his professional achievements, he had a passion for photography, capturing the beauty of life's moments wherever he went.
While Wilson was known as a remarkable band director, it was his ability to connect with people on a personal level that truly defined him. He inspired countless students, providing encouragement and wisdom that left a lasting impact. His philosophical views on music, band, and life enriched the lives of those he encountered, creating a legacy of love and inspiration.
Wilson was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Willie and Beunia Murray.
His gentle spirit, kindness, and the warmth he shared with so many will be deeply missed. The family invites all who knew him to join them in remembering and celebrating his remarkable life. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult time.
A viewing will be held on Wednesday November 6th, 2024, at 10am with the funeral service beginning at 11am.
Services will be located at Second Baptist Church 427 Chapman Ln Elyria, Oh 44035.
Funeral Service will be Live Streamed on Facebook at Carter Funeral Home.
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James Horton
November 8, 2024
Now that I´m older I reflect on the impact of my experiences with Mr. Murray and participation as a music student at EHS. My time as an EHS band member has influenced so many parts of my life...I was taught dedication, discipline, teamwork, friendship, respect, just to name a few. I didn´t realize it as a high school student but I know now a foundational approach to life planted in me by this great teacher and influencer....How you do anything is how you do everything.. I don´t live in Elyria anymore but I wish I would have been able to tell him Thank You. Thanks for demanding excellence, thanks for demanding respect, thanks for your kindness, thanks for caring, thanks for your honesty, thanks for being you. Mr Murray you will be missed. Thank You Sir!
Holly (Raye) Dean
November 6, 2024
I had Mr. Murray as my band director throughout my years at Elyria High in the early 80s. It was truly my favorite part of high school. He made us work so hard but it taught us so much. Really helped me with my military years. Lol R.I.P. You are a true inspiration for so many and will meet again one day!
Benita Mitchell Arnold
November 5, 2024
Mr Murray was a serious professional, I remember my first band camp he made it very clear he did not care how close our families were, that we worshipped together none of that. He had us running laps one day until I fell out, but he was a remarkable man and he will be sorely missed.
Mona Bigler Hartselle
November 5, 2024
Mr. Murray was my band director back in the early 70s. He demanded excellence from all bandsmen. Many days I found myself feeling angry over having to march and play so hard, just to be able to stay on the field that first year of marching band. But it was that anger that drove me to do better; Mr. Murray somehow taught me to channel it into determination and success. One thing I will always remember is that when the band played something really well-a dynamite performance!-he told us it was "adequate." At first, I didn´t understand-how could we improve over a near-perfect performance? But over time, I understood that "adequate" meant that we had met his high expectations and that he was proud of us, but we could always do more and be more. It was his highest compliment, and we strove to earn it. Mr. Murray was hands down the very best teacher I have ever had. Godspeed, Mr. Murray! We will see you on the other side.
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