Allen Harold Lilleberg
April 22, 1939 - July 8, 2023
NAPA - Allen Harold Lilleberg, born April 22, 1939, began his final journey July 8, 2023, at 84 years old, only a week shy of the one year anniversary of his wife Carol's death. They were married 62 years and were Junior High School sweethearts.
Al was born to Harold and Muriel Lilleberg and grew up in Redwood City. He has fond memories of Sequoia High School and walking the two miles to and from school along the railroad tracks. Al attended San Mateo Junior College earning an AA degree after only five semesters, though he had to take bonehead English twice because he couldn't pass the exam on the first round. He moved on to San Jose State College where he graduated with a BA in Biological Science along with the requirements for a secondary school teaching credential.
In 1962, Al married Carol, his sweetheart in Redwood City. During the draft, Al signed up for the Army Reserve and did six months active duty, then served six years in the reserves as a Pharmacy Technician. He credits his time as a Pharmacy Tech to Carol, who was working for military officials at Stanford Research Lab at the time. On Fridays, he would go to the assignment board for the weekend and notice that his weekends were usually assignment free, again crediting Carol's high standing with the research lab for his free time. Working as a reservist allowed Al to complete his MA in Science Education at San Jose State College.
Al's first teaching jobs were in junior and high schools in the South Bay; unhappy with those experiences he applied to Napa High School where he taught Chemistry, Natural and Earth Sciences and later the first environmental classes in Napa County. After Vintage High School was built in the early 1970', Al was assigned there and stayed for 38 years, until he retired in 1999.
In his younger years, Al traveled throughout California. Riding the bus up to the Trinity Mountains, he helped his father build the infamous cabin adjacent to the Trinity River. The cabin was his father's idea, a place Al and his sister could roam and explore outside of the busy Bay Area. There the family enjoyed fishing, hiking and being together. Al also rigorously explored the South Bay, rescuing, refurbishing and exploring with a small boat he found in the bay, south of the Dunsmire Bridge. In fact, he knew the area so well, he could tell you the cross-streets where the elusive red railroad glass could be found for your collection. During this time, Al would ride the bus with his then girlfriend Carol to visit his Uncle, Einar Lilleberg, a great craftsman, musician and storyteller who lived in the San Bernadino Mountains. Einar would take Al and Carol rockhounding in the desert, treating them as responsible adults letting them wander and explore and learn, on their own. The Trinity River cabin and the many visits with Einar, left a strong impression on Al. He always credited Einer with the idea of desert trips with high school kids.
In the school district, all teachers were required to support extracurricular activities by hosting a club or other activity. The requirement sparked a decades long era of desert trips with high schoolers. After the first few trips, all heavily chaperoned by school administration, Al received a letter from the superintendent saying – keep doing what you're doing. The affirmation led to more desert trips, summers at the Trinity River and backpacking the Trinity Alps wilderness all with different kids in his club. Four or five times, he took a van loaded with half a dozen students to Big Bend, Texas for dirt-road-off-dirt-road camping to and from during the summer. This was in the 1961 white van, a vehicle legendary for the auto repairs needed – generator brush repair, cylinder brake repair, valve grinding and the infamous story about pouring water on the heater to keep it from overheating while the car was in motion fully loaded with kids in 100-degree (or more) heat! The kids survived reasonably well, Al said. The science exploration expanded beyond Al's class and included the Vintage Environmental Ecology Area. Here he worked with students on a variety of science projects to help further their understanding of real-world science application.
With a possible 50 different kids each year over multiple decades, the impact that Al has had on so many people is incalculable. Class with Mr. Lilleberg was simply unlike any other. Whether it was understanding science in a new way, helping a kid see their own potential, helping a kid lead a less troubled life, or just giving a kid space to roam and explore, there are at least a few generations of people who had the honor, pleasure and fun of knowing Al. Al and Carol chose not to have children of their own. However, throughout the span of his professional career and beyond, there are, as it turns out, quite a number of people who call themselves the Cabin Kids, identifying themselves by the year they graduated high school to connect the dots between which van was used, the people and most notably, Al's stories from adventures (or some may say mis-haps).
Al was very involved with the U.U. church in Napa, enjoying the many opportunities to connect with others. He also spent time volunteering with the Suscol Intertribal Council. Al never stopped learning. Even through retirement and in his later years, Al would continue his trips to the cabin visiting with past students and friends.
Please join us in Celebrating the Life of our beloved Teacher, Mentor and Friend; Allen Lilleberg, Saturday, August 26, 2023, 11:00 a.m. at Napa Valley Unitarian Universalists ,1625 Salvador Ave. in Napa. ITo share memories or have questions, please contact ahlille/@yahoo.com.
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Lorie Lilleberg White
July 3, 2024
I was surprised to hear of Allen´s passing. Allen was my father´s first cousin. My father´s dad and Allen´s father were brothers. I only met Allen once that I can even remember, and I was very young then. I believe Allen was 14 years older than me. Whoever wrote this eulogy for him, it was beautiful. Now that Allen has passed, I am the oldest living Lilleberg from this clan. There are no more males to carry on the family name in this particular bloodline. Unfortunately Allen never had any children. My sister and I both have a son but of course they carry their father´s names.
So cousin Allen, say hello to everyone for me. It won´t be too long before I will join y´all. Maybe we can all sit around and sing song with Einar!
Linda Catlett
January 12, 2024
I wouldn't be the person that I am today without your guidance in my youth.
Katherine Young
August 29, 2023
Mr. Lilleberg was my Earth Science teacher my junior year (1993-94) at Vintage High School and he was really kind. He didn´t fault me for not having a "science" mind and not doing well at all with the material that he assigned. The packet he gave me filled with science problems to solve was so beyond me, I was sure I would fail and that was not an option for me (or my parents). I think I was too immature at that age to comprehend a lot of the complex concepts he proposed in the packet.
Fortunately, he was so kind and compassionate to my plight and gave me an alternative solution to pass the class.
I still had to work and attend the class, but he understood that some students are more advanced than others when it comes to math and science. I certainly didn´t get an A or B, but I didn´t fail, I passed the class which I needed to do in order to move on to the next grade level. That was an act of kindness that I will never forget.
Just two years later after I had graduated and was at the Napa Community College, my brain had matured and a lightbulb had come on. I passed my science and math classes with A´s.
I feel like Mr. Lilleberg had the insight and understanding to know that in time and with a little maturity, my brain would be able to "see" and I would be able to understand more. I will always remember Al Lilleberg for giving me the grace to pass his class, knowing that in time and with maturity I would understand more complex concepts.
He was truly a good man.
Ray Lawrason
August 28, 2023
I never had him as a teacher, but I had him as a friend. His cabin kept many of us going through strange tides.
Fly on, tiny bird. Fly on.
Carolyn
August 22, 2023
One of a kind does not suffice. But there was only one Al for those of us fortunate enough to have known him. Thanks for the memories....
Oria Martinez- Goleno
August 21, 2023
I had Mr. Lilleberg as an Environmental Science in 1992 then he taught outside in the "villa" (?) at Vintage. Best teacher ever.
Rest In Peace Sir.
L.C. (1989)
August 21, 2023
I chose Environmental Studies at Vintage HS so I could have an 'easy' science class. I'm sure glad I did as Mr. Lilleberg made science class enlightening, fun, and something I looked forward to. After reading more about him today, I feel very fortunate to have come under his wing. What a full life and dedication to his interests and now he's again with the love of his life. Peace be with you, Mr. Lilleberg.
Tommy Libby
August 17, 2023
Lasting thought about Mr. Lilleberg is he cared.
Tim
August 17, 2023
Mr. Lilleberg was my most favorite, memorable, and influential teacher. He taught me to live life in the present. His message to me was "Be Here Now".
Cynthia
August 13, 2023
He left the world a better place. He love us all.bHe loved The Earth Mother.
Sheryl Zimmerman
August 12, 2023
A prior student here also. Vintage High School. I think it was Ornamental Horticulture in 1979. He was funny and kind. I remember him fondly. Thank you for your dedication to your students.
Shari Taylor (Prazak)
August 11, 2023
Mr Lilleberg taught me science in 1981 at Vintage class of 1983. I was failing and he took me under his wing explained things to me so i understood. Then I began enjoying his class and I ended up passing with a B. He'll always be remembered.
Beth Henkelman
August 11, 2023
Al touched a lot of lives, and I´m grateful to be one.
GMM
August 11, 2023
I was one of the students blessed to have him as my teacher. In reading this; I now realize he understood that I needed extra guidance. I was one of those. "troubled" kids. And he treated me better than most teachers. I´m actually crying right now. Partly because it´s sad but mostly happy tears, because he lived such a great life and impacted so so many people. What an honorable man. Rest in peace.
Tommy Libby
August 10, 2023
Mr. Lilleberg taught me Earth Science at Napa High class of 1969. His gentle demeanor made the class fun and most interesting. I looked forward every school day for his class. My condolences to all his family, friends, and students.
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