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Dennis Sainsbury Obituary

Dennis Wilfred Sainsbury

1958 - 2020

On Friday, September 18th, Dennis Sainsbury left his earthly body to go fishing with one of his best friends and check on his mother in heaven.

Loving father of two children, Peter Sainsbury and Jennie Sainsbury as well as daughter in-law Amber Sainsbury. Loving Grandfather to his two grandchildren (aka his eaglets) Jacob Sainsbury and Abigail Sainsbury.

Dennis was born on September 14, 1958. He had a magnanimous personality and triumphed through many obstacles. His family was his core, he loved his family fiercely and was never afraid to show it. By family, I mean friends too. Whether in the valley or the buttes you knew when Dennis was in town. He and his van along with his boat were iconic.

"The Lucky D", his fishing boat. We all had a place on his boat to enjoy the thing he loved almost as much as family-FISHING. Dennis also had great culinary skills. He would make delicious meals with vegetables from his garden and fresh catch of the day. He took great joy in sharing the fruits of his labor and the latest/greatest recipe.

Dennis didn't know a stranger. He had nicknames for us all and even had quite a few of his own. Uncle Bonehead being one of them, However, the title he loved the most was Pops and Papa.

Being in a wheelchair never slowed Dennis down, in fact, he was hard to keep up with. He was strong and wheeled through life with a great attitude. Dennis left us with so many wonderful memories.

Dennis was preceded in death by his mother Judy Harrison. He is survived by his son, daughter, daughter-in-law, two grandchildren, siblings, nieces & nephews, and countless friends.

When it came to heartache, Dennis was very private. We encourage his extended loved ones to go fishing, take a boat ride or a long hike and enjoy the wilderness and life. That would make him happy.

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Published by Napa Valley Register on Oct. 11, 2020.

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Bob Spisak

August 4, 2024

I'm sorry to read this. I was Dennis's roommate in the hospital in San Jose Valley medical center 25 years ago. I was Firefighter Bob in the bed next to him..I just opened up the boxes of memories after 25 years from that time and found Dennis's info and tried to contact today and then I tracked this obituary down and found he passed 4 years ago so sorry to hear this. I am very sorry I could not hook up with him. My Condolences to the whole family. He was a good guy. I made sure the Firefighters fed him when he was in the hospital since they brought me food. All the best to the Sainsbury family.

Eric Sherwood

October 13, 2020

Heavy hearted condolences to the entire Sainsbury family
RIP my brother.

Stacy Butler Stolp

October 12, 2020

I will forever remember your kind smile and loving nature and attitude. My fondest memories of you were at Redwood Jr. High. We all had fun times. Rest in Peace my Friend. See you one day on the other side.

Ray Sisemore

October 12, 2020

From the first time I met Dennis in Jr high school we've been friends. He was always upbeat and positive. Always smiling. I'm going to miss our many conversations over the years. May he now RIP. Love and miss you brother! d=O

Jeannine Kelley

October 11, 2020

Our thoughts are with the family and those who are saddened with his passing. Loving you always Jennie, the Kelleys

Lisa Mini

October 11, 2020

I went with Dennis on many ski trips, snow and water, beach hikes , and just general hanging out in school ! He will be missed !

Lori (Lamp) Oja

October 11, 2020

Always loved that guy! So sorry for your loss.

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