1950
2020
Wyman Gilbert Smith III
1950 - 2020
On Wednesday, September 16, 2020, just as the sun was setting, Wyman (husband, dad, papa, brother, uncle) closed his eyes, hopped on his bike, and road off to heaven. He was surrounded by his beloved Girl Gang as he ventured off onto his next journey. His 50 years as an endurance athlete gave us the gift of time as he battled Parkinson's fiercely for the last 14 years. His 43 years as a passionate member of the Napa community has given us the gift of love and support during this difficult time.
Wyman was a family man, a gentle leader, a formidable attorney, a loyal friend, a grape grower who loved his ranch, a passionate CU Buff, an adventurer, a confidant, a patient parent, a life-long coach, a role model, and an advocate for his community. He was quiet, he was kind, he was respectful, he was observant, he always took the scenic route, he always chose family first, he loved traditions, he enjoyed Sunday night family dinners, he listened with intent, he spoke with purpose, he loved learning, he was an extreme skier, he could fly fish for days, he never played a golf course he didn't like, he had a passion for riding his bike over mountain passes, and he had the greatest smile. He left a legacy of service before self and he trained his Girl Gang to carry on and do so with passion and pride.
Wyman was an attorney, Board member, and Shareholder for Gaw Van Male (now GVM Law) for 43 years. He was a founder of The Vintage Bank, Solano Bank, and North Bay Bancorp. Wyman was Director for Napa Valley Grapegrowers. He was the recipient of the City of Napa's Volunteer of the Year award in 1997. Additionally, he served as Board Member and/or president for the Napa Valley Economic Development Corporation, Solano Economic Development Corporation, Queen of the Valley Hospital, Queen of the Valley Hospital Foundation, Rotary Club of Napa, American Cancer Society, COPIA, and Tulocay Cemetery.
Wyman Gilbert Smith III was born April 3, 1950 in Sacramento, CA to Wyman G Smith, Jr and Barbara Spencer Smith of Carmichael, CA. Wiley, to those in his inner circle, was an adoring husband to Kathleen Ryan Smith, whom he married in 1975 at their favorite place on earth, Silver Lake. He was a devoted father to Lindsay, Whitney Farris (Robert), and Paige and Papa extraordinaire to granddaughters Sophia, Madeline, Kayla, Phoebe, and Vivian all of Napa, CA. He was big brother and friend to Candace Wheelock (Peter) of Darien, CT and Uncle to John, David (Sylvana), and Matthew. He is also survived by many, many cousins who he loved gathering with at the annual Family Reunions.
The family would like to acknowledge and thank Continuum Hospice for the exceptional care and support as well as his devoted caregivers who helped to make his life full and rich.
Wyman will be laid to rest at Silver Lake and a service will be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, please donate in the name of Wyman Smith to either Parkinson's Foundation or Queen of the Valley Hospital Foundation or The Napa Valley Farmworker Foundation.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Ken & Lynda McNany
September 18, 2024
Wyman(Wiley) was always very gracious and friendly. Most of encounters were at Silver Lake where it set up the first Feisby Golf Course that has turned out to be a SL tradition. At the lake we noticed while he did ride the roads, he also road the trail less traveled. He would ride his bike on the bumpy path around the lake front. Wyman touched many people and will truly be missed. Our condolences to Kathy and the girls
Gene Waken
September 29, 2020
I was blessed to meet Wyman several decades ago and have cherished our friendship since day one
A true gentleman, an honorable and competent attorney and a valued asset to the community of Napa. God blessed us with this fine man
Cisca Tisher
September 28, 2020
Dear Smith Family,
I am so sorry for your loss of husband, father, grandfather and friend.
We lost a good one.
Cisca Tisher
Bernie
September 27, 2020
Wyman was my client & friend for over 30 yrs.!
I had the privilege of cutting his beautiful thick hair every 3wks.
I really enjoyed our hair time, sharing wonderful stories & our love for sports!!
Wyman especially liked talking about cycling & finishing, I think it was 6 or 7 Death Rides one of the most grueling bike rides!
I did it once & that was enough!!
He truly was a very kind human being.
Cathay, you were an amazing loving positive wife, coming into the salon with that beautiful smile & special way with Wyman as he declined.
I feel so blessed to of had a small part in his life & will truly miss him!
Love & prayers to you & your wonderful girls & family!d
Kathy Moore
September 27, 2020
What a lovely tribute to a fantastic being. The world is poorer for his passing but his legacy of his Girl Gang will live on!
Phil Gumm
September 26, 2020
The passing of a good guy who will be missed by all who knew him... Silver Lake is gaining a quality soul!!
John & Judy Ahmann
September 25, 2020
Wyman carefully guided us through the legal maze as our business grew. He will be sorely missed.
Ken & Lynda McNnay
September 25, 2020
Kathy and the girls and the grandchildren. We are deeply saddened by Wyman's passing. We will miss him at Sliver Lake.
Vincent Goetz
September 25, 2020
Kathy, and girls, condolences on your loss. Wyman was one of those rare people that pass through our lives and makes us a better person. Your grief is also ours but we can look back and enjoy the goodness of his life and the positive impact he had on others. I am happy that I had the privilege of knowing him.
Julie and Gerrit Wood
September 24, 2020
Kathy and girls, Our hearts are deeply saddened he was an amazing man and will be missed! How many wonderful times we shared and all the priceless memories created at our special place, Silver Lake. We will treasure them always and your family. Love to you alld
Carol Nasser
September 24, 2020
Dear Kathy, Lindsay, Whitney, and Paige, What a huge loss for you..so sorry...may the many wonderful memories you have, help you through this time.. Sympathy & Hugs
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