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Amber Haake Obituary

Haake, Amber Kay Burgher 49 years old, formerly of Indianapolis, and a resident of Naperville since 2002 She passed peacefully into God's loving arms after a three and a half year fight against breast cancer. Amber was loved into eternal life surrounded by dozens of family and friends, celebrating life in her own special way. "Miss Amber" will be remembered by the many, many children she ministered to in Grace United Methodist's PDO program, as well as in Sunday school at Community United Methodist; and was involved in the Infant Welfare Society. She will also be missed by the visiting doggies at Russell's cleaners on Saturday mornings. She graduated Carmel High School and attended Vincennes University. In her years in Indianapolis, she lived the volunteer spirit with active involvement in family and children's ministry at St. Luke's United Methodist, and the Assistance League of Indianapolis. During her fight against cancer, Amber traveled extensively and lived life to the fullest with her husband of 28 years, Jeffrey Louis Haake, and her son, Jonathan Charles Haake. She is also survived by her father, Silas H. Burgher Jr; mother, Donna K. Burgher; and her Grandmother Catherine K. Major. Amber was the oldest of 4 children, Robert H.Burgher, Silas H. "Sonny" Burgher III, and Carla Sue Burgher. She cherished her 9 nieces and nephews, who never called her anything but "Nay Nay!" A showing for Amber will be on Tuesday, January 18 from 4:00-8:00 at Friedrich Jones Funeral Home, and a service of Celebration of Life will be at Community United Methodist Church in Naperville at 11:00 Wednesday January 19, followed immediately by a gathering at Quigley's Irish Pub. Memorials in lieu of flowers may be sent to Community United Methodist Church youth ministries.

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Published by Naperville Sun on Jan. 17, 2011.

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Rob & Priscilla Steinmetz

January 28, 2011

Jeff,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Your Friends at The Bridge Teen Center
Orland Park, IL

Karen & Dave King

January 27, 2011

Dear Donna and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Amber's passing. We know how proud you are of your girl and her accomplishments while here on this earth. Her generosity and kindness will always be remembered. Your family is in our prayers during this difficult time. Thinking of you and yours.
Sincerely,
Karen & Dave

Deborah Machon

January 25, 2011

Sonny and family, I'm so sorry to hear of Amber's passing...God Bless You All. Deboarh Machon, Seattle, WA

January 23, 2011

Dear Jeff and Jonathon,

Don and I were saddened to hear about Amber when we went to church this morning at St Lukes. We remembered that you were very nice neighbors when you lived across the street from us on North Pennsylvania Street in Indy. Our condolences to you and your family,

Sincerely,

Judy & Don Birt

Darby Baldwin

January 22, 2011

I will never forget such a strong woman. You touched my life and many more! Peace be with you and Jeff!

Suzy Sharp

January 21, 2011

I loved reading all of these wonder words written about Amber, I knew her growing up and she was a sincere kind hearted young lady and what a terrific woman she turned out to be. My heart goes out to her family and friends losing a loved one at such a young age is always difficult, God must have needed another Angel and I’m sure it is comforting to her to be reunited with Jamie.

MK Schnitz

January 20, 2011

Dear Jeff,
It is with great saddness that I learn about Amber. I have wonderful memories of her spunky, loving spirit. She and I would often meet and walk the Monon. She was a joy. She served this congregation with hours and hours of work for UMW and Children's ministry. Please know that you and Jonathan are in my prayers.
Mary Katherine Schnitz
St. Luke's UMC

Barbara McCarthy

January 19, 2011

Miss Amber was my daughter's first teacher, at Grace PDO. We could not have asked for a better experience. She was always so kind and happy. Miss Amber made a difference! She will truly be missed.

January 19, 2011

Dear Jeff and Jonathan

We were all so saddened to read of Amber's passing. We will treasure and cherish our memories of our years together with the three of you in Forest Hills. Amber was one of the most cheerful, positive, supportive and loving friends we have had the privilege of knowing. She definitely made the world a better place.

All our love,
Dana, Jeff, Jackson, Sam and Joey Cristee

Laura Thorne

January 19, 2011

My daughter, Greta, had Miss Amber (along with Miss Carol) at Grace UMC Parent's Day Out about 5 years ago. Greta was such a shy little girl, but her teachers made her feel so comfortable and welcome there. She and Miss Amber even had the same strawberry blonde hair! It meant the world to me. Just wanted to let you know about one example of the many lives she touched as a teacher.

Joe Haselhorst

January 19, 2011

Jon and Jeff: She will be missed by us all, but her spark for life continues. I'm sure you both learned a lot from her, I am sorry for your loss.

Linda Foley Vodney

January 18, 2011

Amber was a friend of mine at Vincennes University. I am so sorry to hear that she has passed. She was always a ray of sunshine and we had some really good times together. She will never be forgotten.

Marlene Herbert & Family

January 18, 2011

Jeff and Jon, May the love that surrounds you today continue to strengthen you during this difficult time. Amber was a beautiful, strong and fearless friend. Her memory will always be kept in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marlene Herbert & Family

January 18, 2011

Jeff and Jon, May the love that surrounds you today continue to strengthen you during this difficult time. Amber was a beautiful, strong and fearless friend. Her memory will always be kept in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Suzanne & Graham Wills

January 18, 2011

God' peace and loving arms surround you. Amber was an inspiration to everyone; she will be hugely missed.

Shelby Slade

January 17, 2011

Jeff, John and Family: May your family feel Gods love for NayNay and for your entire family. I pray that all of you will find strength and courage through His love for all of you to celebrate her life. Peace be with you and your family during this difficult time. The Slade's (Meridian, MS)

Elizabeth Bowes

January 17, 2011

Jesus taught that welcoming a child was like welcoming him. Amber Haake lived in just that way -- she welcomed, loved and advocated for children. A true woman of God is at peace. Amber may you rest until that day when we are all reunited! Miss you! Love ~ e

Gail Courtney

January 17, 2011

Prayers for you and your family Jeff..God bless you all!
Michael and Gail Courtney, Seal Beach, CA

January 17, 2011

Goodbye Toots! What a good time we had together.

Mary (Oswego, IL)

Al & Joyce Brunsting

January 17, 2011

Jeff, we wish we knew Amber better. We’re sure she left the world a better place. Peace to you and your family.

January 17, 2011

To All of Amber's Family, & Friends,

I knew Amber because she was my sister's neighbor in Naperville. I had only a few personal encounters with Amber but heard about her all the time. I always applauded Amber's abililty to pack so much memory making into these last years. I know that she will be sorely missed and today there is little comfort in knowing that she suffers no more. I pray that you will feel God's comfort in the following days and that in time you will smile more than cry when you think of Amber.

“Mourn not too long that she is gone, but rejoice forever that she was"
- Old Proverb

Peace to you Amber

Rene' (Riley's "mom")

Jeff Havel

January 17, 2011

Amber, your spirit will live on in all of us. I'm thankful for having known you and your family. God Bless.

Annette Wehrli

January 17, 2011

God Bless you Amber! xo

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