Stanley R. Gober April 30, 1926 June 18, 2012
Creator of the Mullet Festival Stanley Russell Gober was well known within Southwest Florida and throughout the world as people journeyed to Stan's Idle Hour in Goodland from near and far. To see and hear Stan on a Sunday was a one-of-a-kind experience. He was a true entertainer.
Born in Bessemer, AL, Stan understood the value of a dollar at an early age. A child of the Great Depression, he watched as his mother struggled to put food on the table for him and his three siblings. By the age of 12, Stan was working in a restaurant to help support his family.
In 1944, just 15 days before his 18th birthday, Stan joined the Navy. He was sent to the South Pacific as World War II raged. Spending 16 months at a hospital base in Noumea, Stan reflected upon his experience of the war in his book, "Stan: An American Story." "I was the lucky one," he said, as his time in the military was tame compared to most.
Upon his return, Stan would continue to work in restaurants and hone his skills as an entertainer. He met, and married, Faye R. Campbell, the love of his life, and had three sons, Sammy Russell, Jay Carlton, and Steve Patrick, with her. He was also previously blessed with a daughter, Rebecca Morgan.
Migrating to Miami with a young family, Stan spent more than 20 years with the telephone company. He traversed the Tamiami Trail for ten years, fishing the backwaters of Goodland and Marco Island before making a permanent move to Goodland in 1969. He purchased the Idle Hour Motel that year and Stan's Idle Hour the following year.
Stan used the stage as an outlet for his entertaining. He began writing his own tunes, including the infamous, "Buzzard Lope" and the "Yankee Dollar." In 1985, he created the annual Mullet Festival, a party to honor the bait fish that gave Goodland its fishing village credibility. For over 40 years, Stan sang, told jokes and mingled with his fans every Sunday. He also contributed to many charities over the years, recognizing the importance of giving back, thanks to his humble roots.
Stan was preceded in death by his wife, Faye Campbell Gober. Stan's mother and father, Berdie and Floyd Gober, along with his three siblings, Butch, Wally and Vera, also preceded Stan's passing.
He is survived by his daughter, Rebecca Morgan; and his three sons, Russell, Jay and Steve Gober; his 11 grandchildren, Nicole, Colin, David, Crystal, Michael, Ryan, Dylan, Zach, Jared, Bethany, Jacob; and his great-grandchildren, Robert, Chelsea, and Andrew. Nieces and nephews, Cathie Gober Bray, Vicki Gober Heggen, both reside in Georgia, and Skip Gober resides in Alabama.
Stan was a family man, a singer, a songwriter, a comedian and a true entertainer. Stan was red, white and blue through and through. He loved his country and he loved Goodland. He was a philanthropist, constantly raising money for organizations within our community. He was also a friend to many.
A funeral service and visitation will be held on Sunday, June 24th (TOMORROW) from 12:00 to 2:00 p.m. at Stan's Idle Hour in Goodland.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Avow Hospice, 1095 Whippoorwill Lane, Naples FL 34105.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Maria Pettit
February 21, 2013
The world lost a good man..R.I.P Stan
Alvin Lederer
February 21, 2013
as a a friend it is hard to imagine Goodland with out Stan, he was as big as all outdoors and had a zest for life. He brought to Goodland his love of Florida and instead of trying to change it he adapted to it. People like Hannon Combs & Kappy & Bud Kirk and the Pettits made Goodland the beautiful place it is and I will miss you dearly Stan. We can not than you enough for all the hearts and souls that you touched.
Alvin Lederer
Southwest Historian
Thomas Hardin
September 16, 2012
Hi Lynn. I was happy to hear from you. Just sorry that t was about Stan's death so close to that of his Brother Wally. I am at [email protected] so let us not get lost again. Tom Hardin
John Dings
July 31, 2012
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Dave, Pat Orr
July 30, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Peter Knoller
July 27, 2012
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Don Heinsbergen
July 26, 2012
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Phil Ammons
July 25, 2012
My friends and myself will miss Stanley. Just a fine entertainer & friend.
The Dooley Family
July 25, 2012
Sad to hear of the death of Mr. Gober. Stans's was a great place for the snowbirds to flock. Our parents framed picture proudly hangs on the dining room wall.
Kristina McGinty
July 24, 2012
Being the girlfriend of Stan's grandson, Ryan, I knew how important he was to everyone and how lively he was with his job. And although I didn't have the honor to meet him, I know that he will be missed dearly-by all and especially Ryan.
Judy Irrera
July 15, 2012
Stan will be missed! We have been going to Stan's since 1993. Rest in peace we will continual to go Sunday's when are In Naples!!
Michael Shane
July 3, 2012
It was always a joyous time at Stan's on Sunday. He will be missed!
July 2, 2012
If there was anyone I would've like to see live forever, it was Stan. I just learned of his passing and what sad news. So much joy and plain old fun over the years at Stans-- From way back in the 1980's! I have his tapes and love all the songs that bring back memories. "Sundays will never be the Same"! Neither will Goodland and Marco Island. Few of us can say we made a difference in the lives of others in our lifetime. Stan definately can! We will all miss his uniqueness! God Bless!
Ginny Kendall, (Naples and long-time Marco Islander)
June 30, 2012
We will miss your Sundays on stage. You made the world a better place by being in it. Thanks for laughs and a lot of fun summer memories.
Pam, Russ, Janice, MDL and Meggie.
Marco Island Firefighters
June 28, 2012
To the entire Gober Family:
What a man! The entire family should celebrate a life well lived! Thanks to Stan for everything in our support of charitable organizations and the mullet festival!
Mary Ann Hopkins
June 27, 2012
I will always think of Stan & my late husband, Jim Reinking on Sundays singing on stage a song Jim wrote "Hung Over Again at Stan's". They can now sing together again. RIP, Stan.
Becky Lipsie
June 26, 2012
Stan you will be missed. We spent many a Sunday afternoon with Jim and Maryann Reinking enjoying the show and the people. RIP friend
June 26, 2012
I first met Stan back in 1970 when I and my brother in law Lee Ryall and his wife,my sister,Gale McGill Ryall went to what is now Stan's Idle Hour on a Saturday night. We sat in the old part of the building with Faye and Stan while Stan played a guitar I think it was and we sang old songs and drank cold beer. We were the only people in the place.That's how new it was.
I don't think I have ever met two more energetic and enthusiastic people in my life nor felt more welcome anywhere as I did at Stan's. After all I was a total stranger then.
Ya done good my friend. God bless you. Pete McGill
Barb Vandeveer
June 26, 2012
I met my future husband at Stan's on a beautiful Goodland Sunny Day. After that, many times our boat was docked behind, getting off the dock and being greated with fun, laughter and awesome music. The memories are what make life and love continue. Thank you Stan!!! RIP. Still loving my hubby too!
Marcia T. Kaiser & Andrew J. Kennedy
June 26, 2012
Sunday afternoons at Stan's have been a highlight of our bi-annual vacations on Marco Island. We will forever treasure our memories of the last time we saw Stan perform in November 2011.
June 26, 2012
Well, Stan I wish the best for you. One day we'll meet
Stella Lanphere
June 25, 2012
He was such a creative Man, and I am so sorry he died,I never got the chance or was privileged to meet my uncle stan!!R.I.P uncle stan.Stan's family may contact me at [email protected]
Mike Riley
June 25, 2012
Thanks for the memories that will stay with us forever. We will always remember you as a kind and generous man. R.I.P my friend!!! From Mike Riley and sons
Stan the Man.
Jeanene & Bill Kelly
June 25, 2012
We will always remember the great and compassiate man whose memory will live on in so many hearts. Thanks for the memories.
Joanie Fuller
June 25, 2012
To Stan's family, I was privileged to have a one on one visit with Stan in December 2011. It was then that I learned about Stan's depth of character and his sincere caring about others. He was truly a great American and Goodlander. And just by speaking with me for 45 minutes that day, he enriched my life in a way I will never forget. Thank you Stan for all your generosity over the years and all you did for Goodland. You will be missed not just on Sundays but every day.
Joanie Fuller
Goodland Civic Association
Mike Sweeney
June 25, 2012
RIP Stan. My sympathies to the Gober family.
June 25, 2012
A trip to Stan's Idle Hour on Sunday's was always a highlight of our annual trip to Marco. Blaine and Jean Coffey.
Sunshine Chairperson
June 25, 2012
Our deepest condolences to the Gober Family and all the friends and employees at Stan's. May you take comfort in knowing that he was one of a kind who made people smile. Many thanks for the support over the years, and may the laughter live on inside us all.
Gator Alley Chapter, ABATE of FL. Inc
Florida's only Motorcycle Rights Organization protecting our freedoms through legislation, education and safety.
June 25, 2012
barb and I were frequent visitors to the Idle Hour on Sundays and always enjoyed ourselves. Our condolences to the family.
Ben & Steph
June 25, 2012
We are very sad to here about Stan's passing. We frequented Stan's often over the years while vacationing in Marco Island and will really miss him.
Theresa Chapman
June 25, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great man & will be missed by many. We will always remember Stan.
June 25, 2012
met and performed with Stan one time..once..and it was completely natural,as if we always knew each other..Good Man..BillyStranger)fort Myers,Fl)
still singing
Dave adams
June 24, 2012
30 years of Stan, I will miss sitting and talking this summer
Dave adams
June 24, 2012
my pal
Dave Adams
June 24, 2012
good picture, thought I would had it
Dave adams
June 24, 2012
my heart is really sad with the passing of Stan, I live in Kentucky now, but always found time to to go back to Goodland and see Stan, I hung out with Stan and Fox when the bar was just a pool table and a juke box playing jimmy buffett before jimmy was cool. i helped Stan dig out his septic out back and watch as his boys learned the business, I will miss Stan, he was a good friend
Mary Ryan-Ashley
June 24, 2012
My memories of Stan are very dear to me as I have known him and his family for many years. My Dad and Mom were very good friends as was his wife. God what fun we all had. I used to live in a cottage down from his in the old days. What wonderful stories I could tell. I still have the love and kindness that Stan has given through the years. What a great life he had. I will miss him dearly.
cathie logsdon
June 24, 2012
Stan always remembered and made everyone feel welcome. Thanks for the memories..............
Jack Dorgan
June 24, 2012
To the Stan Gober family....He was a great american hero..through Stans life you had to share this iconic man who loved his country more than he loved life.....a true american patriot.....cared about those around him and helped all those he could....believed in our governments ability to help and aid but not to entitle and create cycles of welfare....Sunday on the stage will not be the same....god bless you and all you have touched
June 23, 2012
Stan, You will always be in our hearts. Thanks for the great memories.We will always remember your jokes and patriotism. You are one of a kind and we will miss you dearly.Bob and Kathie Drzal
Chris Coffman
June 23, 2012
Against great odds, Stan was able to build a business and provide a wonderful sense of community for locals and tourists who shared in his jovial spirit on Sundays. He seemed to enjoy all of his visitors as much as we enjoyed him. Thanks Stan!
June 23, 2012
What a sad day. My heart is broken. Like loseing a brother. Some of the best days of my life were spent behind Stans on my boat. RIP my friend. Wooly B
Fran Kahr
June 23, 2012
Janie and I AND THE GREEN BAY PACKERS will miss you a bunch,RIP
Jack and Sharon La Rhette
June 23, 2012
Our dear friend, we will certainly miss you and what you stood for. You always greeted us and out of town guests with opens arms. When the kids visited, from New England, this first thing they wanted to do on Sunday was "Go to Stans" Ole gentle one RIP!
Stan, Cindy jaskolski
June 23, 2012
Stan and memories of him will be forever cherished. His love of God, country, Marco and all
People, was always visible in his actions. He is an unforgetable, unique human being who brought joy through
His work and entertainment.
Thank you Stan
Pewaukee, Wisconsin
Greg & Debi Hoskins
June 23, 2012
What an example of a giving person! Stan gave back so much that he was truely blessed. He was an excellant example of the American Dream.
Paul Rathje
June 23, 2012
Our trips to the naples area always included Sunday visits to Stan's. It is one of my favorite and most interesting places I have found. Wont be quite the same.....Stan thanks the entertainment and perspective of life...RIP
Carla Conrad
June 23, 2012
Stan loved God, country, family, friends, music, humor, fishing, & Alabama Crimson Tide. RIP, Stan, you will be sorely missed. Roll Tide, Roll!
colleen cole
June 23, 2012
thank you for being a true american!you will be missed,the love you put into your stories & jokes.the love you put into your family!you will be missed by all! Colleen Cole
Cees van der Land
June 23, 2012
R.I.P my friend Thank you for wonderful entertainment during the 20 years I spend on Marco.
Cees van der Land, Eindhoven, The Netherlands
Thanks for the memories, my friend!!!
Patricia "Patti" Mills
June 22, 2012
Stan Gober was one of a kind, a true gentleman and excellent entertainer. I spent many afternoons at Stan's and had a great time. I will always hold those fond memories in my heart and my prayers are with Stan's family. God be with you all.
Lisa MacPherson
June 22, 2012
Our trips to Marco Island for the past 25 years would never have been the same without our Sundays at Stan's in Goodland. It was an experience that created many happy memories with friends and family. You will be dearly missed. RIP Stan.
June 22, 2012
Our trips to Marco Island wouldn't have been the same without Sunday's at Stan's in Goodland. It was truly an experience and we will cherish all the memories made with good friends and family. RIP Stan. You will be dearly missed.
Lisa MacPherson (Ontario, Canada)
Having a good talk with Stan Nov. 2010
Richard Mueller
June 22, 2012
We thank you so much Stan for the good times you created for all of us. Your honor of God and country was clearly defined to us all every Sunday and we will never forget. I can hear our Lord saying to you now, welcome home Stan job well done.
Love, Richard & Angie Mueller, Troy, MI
Jim and Patti Curtis
June 22, 2012
Roll Tide, Stan! You will be missed..................
June 22, 2012
Thanks for years of friendly entertainment and compassion for others less fortunate. Be at peace with our Lord! Friends from Maine
Bill Dooley
June 21, 2012
Thanks for great memories at Stan's!
Sandy Saddleson
June 21, 2012
Thanks for the memories Stan. RIP
Joyce Rescigno
June 20, 2012
I really feel like Stan was a member of my family - he treated everyone so wonderfully. My folks introduced me to Stan and the Idle Hour in the early 80's when they spent their winters at the Naples KOA - after that, I planned every vacation from work in NY so I could spend 2 Sundays at Stan's. I loved everything about Stan, and the highlight of my time in south Florida has always been going over to "Stan's". ....I will always have treasured memories of this great American....let us all live Life to the fullest and continue Stan's legacy!
RIP our Friend!
Joyce Rescigno
[email protected]
Pat & Bill Holmes
June 20, 2012
Stan, we will miss you dear friend. Your crazy jokes, funny songs and entertaining personality made our Sundays good days. Rest in peace, Pat & Bill Holmes
PAULA GUY
June 20, 2012
STAN WE WILL MISS YOU YOU WERE A GREAT BOSS AND FRIEND TO OUR MOTHER . SAY HELLO TO HER GOD TOOK TWO GREAT PEOPLE WITH LOVELY SMILES
Steve "Stef" Stefanides
June 20, 2012
Well buddy you've been called up to the "Big Show " leaving us with great memories and outstanding experiences. Thanks for doing so much for so many....most you never knew.....and that was what made it so special. Your legacy will live on forever, as will the memories.
jon fone
June 20, 2012
R.I.P. fella...................
Sach Draffen
June 20, 2012
I'm truly lost for words. When I first came here in 1984, Stan greeted me with open arms. I was married on his old stage in 1992 after meeting my future wife at Stan's. God's speed Stan
Sach Draffen
Pat Neale
June 20, 2012
Stan was a true friend to Goodland and all of southwest Florida. Through his song, humor and good will he provided entertainment to thousands of people and donated even more money and time to good causes. His devotion to hospice, which arose out of the loss of his wife, was legendary. He will be missed, especially on Sundays, by all of us. Rest in peace, Buzzard King.
Ellen Dorris
June 20, 2012
Stan is in heaven, rest in love & peace.
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