Search by Name

Search by Name

Thomas Simpson Obituary

Thomas B Simpson Jr of Vero Beach, Fla, a former longtime New Canaan resident, died peacefully at home on Thursday, Dec 13 He was 91 years old

He was born March 12, 1921, in White Plains, NY, and was the son of the late Thomas B Simpson and Gladys Holmes Simpson He graduated from the Trinity-Pawling School and Babson College

During World War II he served in the US Army in the Adjutant General's Corps in Panama On Oct 12, 1946, he married Barbara Dinsmore of Brooklyn, NY Their first home was in Hartsdale, NY, followed by 50 years in New Canaan After his retirement in 1979 he and his wife wintered in Vero Beach and in 2008 they moved to Oak Harbor

Tom was president of R Simpson & Co in New York City, a family business founded by relatives from England in 1827

Tom enjoyed outdoor activities As a teenager he sailed and raced on Candlewood Lake in Connecticut and Long Island Sound He also loved the West and riding and worked on a ranch in Montana Tom loved flowers and gardening with Barbara Many of their dahlias were planted year after year and won numerous awards

Tom was a member of the Camp Fire Club of America and participated in their skeet programs, fishing events and camping trips He was involved in the New Canaan YMCA and enjoyed the Indian Guide Program with his son He was a member of the Norwalk Yacht Club, the New Canaan Field Club, the Country Club of New Canaan and the Oak Harbor Club of Vero Beach

Tom had been an active member of the New Canaan Congregational Church where he served on all standing committees and chaired the Board of Trustees twice After moving to Vero Beach he joined the Community Church

Tom's happiest times were with his family For years he hosted family reunions at the Basin Harbor Club in Vermont

In addition to his wife Barbara of 66 years, he is survived by his children, Margaret (Peg) S Salmon and husband Bob, Thomas B Simpson III and wife Betsy, and Anne S Castelline and husband Dave; five grandchildren, Matthew D Salmon and wife Andrea, Robert H Salmon and wife Kelly, Mary H Simpson, Daniel J Castelline, Jessica A Castelline; and two great-grandchildren, Ava G Salmon and Grant H Salmon Tom was predeceased by his brother George H Simpson and his sister Grace S Joralemon

A service of Thanksgiving and Celebration will be held in the Chapel at the Community Church in Vero Beach on Friday, Dec 28, at 11 o'clock

Contributions in memory of Mr Simpson may be sent to the Thomas Simpson Memorial Scholarship Fund at the Trinity-Pawling School, 700 Route 22, Pawling, NY 12564

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by New Canaan Advertiser on Dec. 18, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Simpson

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Thomas Simpson's name

Memorial Events
for Thomas Simpson

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Thomas's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Thomas Simpson's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more