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Barry Mobley Obituary

Barry Ryan Mobley, 30, unexpectedly passed on April 13, 2014, in West Virginia leaving his family and friends who loved him so much. Barry was preceded in death by his grandparents, Gus & Patricia Kite, Garland Mobley, Sr. and Rachel Neumann, and his uncle, C. B. Moore.
Barry is survived by his loving wife of almost two years, Jonda Davis Mobley; his parents, Garland (Boo) Mobley Jr. and Flora Kite Mobley of Vanceboro, NC; his sister, Jenna Mobley; his stepchildren, Kirsten, Kelsey, and Kyle Waybright; and step grandchild, Artlyn; his father-in-law, John Davis; his mother-in-law, Sue Mack; and step father-in-law, Demi Mack; sisters-in-law, Terese Ewing and husband, Kemp, and Jessica Wilson; brother-in-law, Demi Owen Mack; nieces, Courtney and Emma Ewing; nephews, Chris, Andrew and Nic Wilson. Also surviving Uncle Mike Kite, Aunt Angie Kite, Aunt Wanda Elks, Uncle John and Aunt Sondra Hoover, his cousins he grew up with, Ashley Moore Dunn (husband David), Valarie Kite Tripp, (husband, Kenneth), Chad Braxton, (wife, Jo-Lynne, and Sydney and Parker), all of Vanceboro and Carli Braxton Sutton, (husband, James, and Seth) of Cove City. Also, not to be forgotten, Rocky, his special dog and friend.
Barry was born on July 14, 1983 in New Bern, NC. He grew up in Vanceboro, attending Vanceboro Farm Life Elementary, West Craven Middle School, and graduating from West Craven High School in 2001. He attended East Carolina University for a short time. He loved playing sports-baseball, football, wrestling, and he loved racing. Barry, like all of the other grandchildren, worked in the family business, Kite's Supermarket, through his childhood. This is where he learned how to treat people and use his personal charm on everyone he met. He worked at Gold's Gym in New Bern, NC for a number of years as a personal trainer. He loved this kind of work so much and all of the people he met through this job. He wanted everyone to be healthy and fit. He later moved with his wife to West Virginia where Jonda's family resides. Barry tried his hand at being a car salesman at River City Subaru, but just a couple of weeks before his death went back to doing what he loved the most, working at the gym as a personal trainer. This gym was Power Up in Teays Valley, WV where he worked for Taylor Stillpass, a wonderful friend. We are so happy that Barry made this change when he did.
Barry will be remembered as a loving husband, son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin and friend to all of us. He loved working out, being on his crazy diets, being in bodybuilding competitions, playing and watching sports, going to the pool and beach, traveling with his wife and friends, and loving life. Barry was very competitive and wanted to be successful in all his endeavors; he wanted to please everyone. He had a heart of gold. We will miss him so much.
The family will receive friends at Cotten Funeral Home in New Bern, NC from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Friday, April 18. The funeral service will also be at Cotten Funeral Home, New Bern, NC on Saturday, April 19 at 2 p.m. Interment will be at Greenleaf Memorial Park in New Bern.
Flowers will be accepted and appreciated or donations may be made to American Diabetes Association , P.O. Box 11454, Alexandria, VA 22312.
The family thanks everyone for your prayers.
Online condolences may be made to the family at www.cottenfuneralhome.com.
Arrangements are entrusted to Cotten Funeral Home & Crematory.
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Published by Sun Journal on Apr. 17, 2014.

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Kyle Waybright

June 11, 2014

Barry You will always be the worlds greatiest dad in the world to me Thank you so much for being my buddy man I will always love you and Miss you! its also a pleasure to hear you in my thoughts in my head I Love you Dad... Kyle Waybright

Annette (ann) Spaur

April 22, 2014

I am so very sorry.. I did not find out sooner. To me he will always be the little boy mooching snacks, teasing his sister, or wanting a piggy back ride. I send my love and affection to all of you

April 21, 2014

Did not know Barry personally, but know his family in Vanceboro. I am truly sorry for your loss but please know that memories will keep him alive forever. Norma Wright Cox (Little Bit)

April 20, 2014

Our prayer are with the Mobley Family. So sad to hear of Barry's death. Only met him a few times, he was so nice it seemed much longer. It broke our hearts. Rita & Ray Johson. Met Barry at River Cities.

boo mobley

April 19, 2014

thank you for everybodies support with love boo and family

URSULA "MOA" DUNN

April 19, 2014

REST IN ETERNAL PEACE BARRY!?! C/O 2001

John Dixon

April 19, 2014

Jonda and family, I am so sorry for your loss. After seeing your FB page it is evident that Barry was a well loved man! Please know that God's grace and understanding will abound on you during this difficult time! Rely on him as he is our Rock!

Alvis & Harriett Collins

April 19, 2014

To Jenna, Sondra and all the family,
We have heavy hearts at this time and praying for peace, understanding an love during this difficult time. "Only trust Him!" God bless all.

Preston Dawson

April 19, 2014

Rest easy my friend. C/o 2001

Lucinda Autry

April 19, 2014

Barry may u rest in peace and may God give all your family and friends peace and strength as they carry on. Glad I had the chance to know you. U will b missed!

Brandon Bradshaw

April 19, 2014

Honored to have called you our friend. Rest in peace, Barry. You will be missed. Love, Brandon, Melissa, Michaela, Brighton, and Walker

Sara Wolosuk

April 19, 2014

Thinking about you and your family Ashley Dunn.

Jon and Beverly Koerber

April 19, 2014

Jonda, Bev and I want to let you know that we are here for you at anytime. Just call or walk down if you need to talk and need comfort. Barry was an awesome man. Psalm 46:10

Kim Thorn

April 18, 2014

Flora, my heart aches for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. I pray for you to have strength that passes understanding. We were very fond of Barry. The last time I seen him was at Gold's Gym in New Bern and he was coaching me on how to use a diet supplement. Love you. Kim, Bob and Ben Thorn (Vanceboro)

Cheryl Barcus Bolen

April 18, 2014

Jonda, my heart goes out to you now and in the days ahead. I pray that your heart will always be filled with the wonderful memories of the joyful times you spent together.

Ann Willis Wiggins

April 18, 2014

Flora I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You.

Mary Jacaruso Wilson

April 18, 2014

I was so sad to hear of the news of your son Flora. Our families have been intertwined for the ages. Please know that my heart is with you and your entire family.

JUDY WATERS

April 18, 2014

Flora,Boo, Jenna & rest of family. In my thoughts & prayers as u go thru this devastating time. There are no words of comfort I can give, but do know from experience of losing my loved ones, that our strength to cope comes from God. My son, Chad was same age, & from volunteering @ school when they were n grade school, the thing I remember most was how good Barry was @ baseball. He was 1 of the best. So full of spunk & drive! Again, so sorry!

Lisa, Lanie, Claire, Rachel Crawford

April 18, 2014

You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We love your entire family.

Cindy Day

April 18, 2014

Jonda, you had one special man, I only knew him for a short time, but his smile and kindness I will always remember . He goes thru my mind everyday , he was so full of life and he loved life, he will be missed by so many, So sorry for your loss Jonda. And to MR, and MRS Mobley, you did a wonderful job raising this young man, as you can read he touched so many lives. And will never forget that smile he had for everyone, my prayers are with your family.

Jesse Watts

April 18, 2014

My thoughts are with you Jonda and all of the family.

April 18, 2014

Flora I am so sorry to read the passing of your son, I know what it feel like because I lost one at 25 years old the same date that your son died and for me it sad, but each year have gotten better and for you and your family it will to. if there is anything I can do to help please let me know Jo Ann Singleton my prayers are with you all at this time.

pam cannon

April 18, 2014

boo and flora i am so sorry for your loss,barry you were a wonderful wonderful nephew and you will be missed!love always aunt pam and family!

Teresa Caprara

April 18, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to all of you.

JULYE ALVAREZ

April 18, 2014

YOU WERE AND WILL ALWAYS BE AN AMAZING MAN! YOU WERE A RIOT IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I AM GLAD IVE KNOWN YOU THROUGH THE YEARS! GOD BLESS JONDA, I KNOW IVE NEVER MET YOU, BUT IF YOU WERE MARRIED TO BARRY, YOU HAVE TO BE ONE HECK OF A WOMAN! GREAT MEN ONLY CHOOSE GREAT WIVES. SENDING MANY HEALING PRAYERS TO BARRY'S FAMILY AS WELL AS JONDA'S FAMILY.

tammy ward

April 17, 2014

Prayers for the family..May you rest in peace

Angela Caprara-Kite

April 17, 2014

I remember the day you born. I remember your first birthday and your first day of school. You grew into a wonder young man I am honored to have been a part of your life. You always had a compliment for everyone and you had a gift to allow people to feel good about themselves in any situation. Thank you for being you and for bringing joy to so many people!
Love you always - Aunt Angie

gloria cascamisi

April 17, 2014

Barry i will miss you i am thankful i met u

Cindy Hailey

April 17, 2014

I am so very sorry, Boo, Flora and Jenna. We are praying for you. Love, Cindy & Jim

Justin & Jennifer Dickens

April 17, 2014

Our deepest sympathy. ~Justin, Jennifer & Madison Dickens~

Tammy Boyd

April 17, 2014

May God be with the family and look over them and hold them.Barry was a sweet, caring, kind and loving person. You will always be loved and never forgotten. I love his family and worked for The Kite's.God Bless each and everyone of u.

Barbara Jordan

April 17, 2014

Flo, Boo, & family I am sorry for your loss, may God comfort during this time of loss

Michael and Hillary Gore

April 17, 2014

To all in Barry's family, I just want to say I don't think I have ever met a guy like Barry. The first time I was introduced to him was via a text to set up a training I was amazed how positive he was and accepting. He was so great with my wife and I. She has Type 1 Diabetes and he was so gentle with her. He always knew when she needed something and would make her take breaks, while kicking my butt! I never saw Barry anywhere that he didn't take a minute to come say hi. He was a genuine guy. I will miss him greatly. You guys are in my prayers.

Angie Rodriguez

April 17, 2014

So sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you in my prayers.

Deborah Peterson

April 17, 2014

So sad so young Loved his Uncle C. B. Moore (one of my best high school friends) Jonda, my prayers are with you and your family and Barry'a family. God Be with you...

Nancy McLawhorn Cannizzaro

April 17, 2014

Flora, you and your family are in my prayers.

April 17, 2014

Thinking of the family and keeping them in my prayers. When I worked with Barry, he always had a smile on his face and kept us all laughing.

Irene Crawford

April 17, 2014

I will miss all the wonderful post, pictures and jokes Jonda and Barry shared with us. As a couple they lived life, shared so many wonderful memories and you could see the love they had for each other. I hope one day we all have the chance to experience what they had together. My love to you Jonda and always your friend, Irene Smith Crawford

Pamela Wiggins

April 17, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Alison Chase

April 17, 2014

You all are in our prayers. Stay strong and keep on living. Barry was a wonderful person who made it a point to make others happy. He will be missed.

Jimmy Green

April 17, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lorri Wright Wetherington

April 17, 2014

Flora, Boo, Jenna, Jonda and All of the Kite Family: I am so sorry for the loss of your son, brother, husband, nephew, cousin. My heart is heavy for each of you. I pray that you all are able to remember his spirit and that you are able to gain comfort in those memories. I love you all, even the ones that I have never met. Godspeed Barry.

April 17, 2014

So sorry for your loss.
Bunny and Henry Elks

Lauren Hamilton

April 17, 2014

So terribly sorry for your loss! He was sch a great person inside and out. He will truly be missed!!

jennifer sherard

April 17, 2014

I am still so lost for words and just seem so unreal.. My prayers are with the family

jennifer sherard

April 17, 2014

Rest in peace angel... gone but never forgotten

Whit and Kelly Whitley

April 17, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Barry was a wonderful motivator and a kind soul. He loved all aspects of fitness and it showed. He will be missed.

Mike & Linda Harper

April 17, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. So very sorry for your loss..

Teresa Carey

April 17, 2014

It was such a shock to hear of your husband's passing. I am still trying to get over the tragic news. Your husband was so well thought of by everyone who knew him and he will be sorely missed. You have my very sincere and heartfelt sympathy. Stay strong!

Charles Lawson

April 17, 2014

May The love of God guide you and Peace surround you in your time of grief. To Jonda and all of Barry's family, I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my prayers.

Shawna Foster

April 17, 2014

Jonda & family, thinking of all of you and saying a prayer! May you have peace and be comforted the next few days and weeks to come! Love ya

April 17, 2014

To the Mobley Family and Extended Family. My Condolences go out to all of you. May God see you all through this.
Gloria Elks Polumbo

Jenna Mobley

April 17, 2014

My precious brother: How sad it makes me just to begin to write this. If u could only see the outpouring of people that you have left a tremendous affect on their life's! I know you would be so proud...I was always so proud to be your little sister. We always had that special bond, as if you could just look at me with that little smirk and we knew what each other were thinking! You are so sweet, humble, compassionate, Oh how I could keep this list going! I will always have fond memories of us all growing up and onto our adulthood! ? No words can fill this void, except I know you will always protect me and I will forever have you as my guardian angel! U will Always live in my heart! U have added to my life in so many ways! :) LOVE ur FAVORITE Sis!

Connieq Forth

April 17, 2014

I'll miss your great smile and laughing eyes. You and Jonda have a special place in my heart. As trainers you both helped me when I needed the help and support. You will always be a major part of my life. I am blessed to have known Barry.

jemifer vick

April 17, 2014

Losing someone so young,his purpose on earth is done GOD has him in his home now to watch over all of his loved ones i know its not easy to grasp that he's no longer here but he remains in your heart forever. May you find peace in time to come. May he fly on and rest in paradise.. Praying for each and every one of you guys. GOD BLESS...

Macil Melton

April 17, 2014

My heart goes out to the family and his loving wife, Jonda. Prayers continue for strength, peace and comfort. RIP Barry.

Suzanne koonce

April 17, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you all, he will be missed by everyone and will never be forgotten, forever in our hearts!! May God give you all strength and comfort during this difficult time and always!! Love to all..

Trivia Arthur

April 17, 2014

You are in our hearts and prayers.

Dayna Daugherty

April 17, 2014

Jonda, there are no words that I can share that could compare to the love that you and Barry shared. Use that love to help you get through this trying time. God, friends, and family are all here when you need us. Love you so much, and am so sorry that you have to go through this.

April 17, 2014

May God be with all of you during this time. What a wonderful man is was. A heart of gold. My prayers are with you. With all our love, Lance and Jamie Price Vanceboro NC

Maxine & Lou Busits

April 17, 2014

We are so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Love and prayers for you and the family.

Missy Schreck

April 17, 2014

So sorry about Barry. He was a very nice guy, always smiling. I only knew him for a short time, but he loved life and loved Jonda very much.

Linda Fornes

April 17, 2014

Flora and family.I am so so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I continue to keep all of you in my prayers.

Linda Fornes

April 17, 2014

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

April 17, 2014

Sorry sorry for your loss ,my thoughts and prayers to all his family.

Trisha Paschal

April 17, 2014

Much love and prayers to Jonda and the rest of Barry's family! He was the most caring, giving, & hard working guy I knew! He will be greatly missed!

April 17, 2014

So sorry to hear about your loss. Praying for the Lord to give you comfort and wrap his loving arms around you and the family. Janice Sutton Hinson

rick rogers

April 17, 2014

Jonda.. Dawn and I are so very sorry. You are in out thoughts and prayers. We love you. Rick &Dawn

Ashley & Carrie Dixon

April 17, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Barry was a great friend and surely loved life and fitness. He will be greatly missed.

melissa cahoon

April 17, 2014

Sorry for your loss

April 17, 2014

Condolences to the family and friends. Please take comfort in God's words at Romans 8 : 35-39.

Allison Buck

April 17, 2014

Barry you sure will be missed. I will never forget the period of time we worked together at Golds. You are such an inspiration to those who want to live a healthy lifestyle. We sure do miss you down here but don't worry... Jonda is being taken care of; along with Rocky. We love you & everyone will see you on the other side! <3

Dot Jones

April 17, 2014

Flora and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Only God can ease your pain. He alone can give you and your family the peace and strength you need at this time. Just know He will be with you. My prayers are with you.

kelly Barber

April 17, 2014

We're so sorry for your loss. He was such a sweet little boy& he turned in a smart driven young who worked hard for what he wanted. He will be deeply missed & always rembered

Jessica Mack

April 17, 2014

I can only imagine the sense of loss. Cling to the small moments that are the best memories - the silly things you laughed about, the little things he did to aggravate you (and you him), the little things you enjoyed doing together. Look at the photos of the big memories you made together and hold those in your heart. Because it is those memories that will ultimately push the pain away. It will take time. My deepest condolences to all of Barry's family.

Miranda Hawkins

April 17, 2014

So sorry for your loss! Barry was an awesome guy to be around and so full of life! He will be missed terribly! Thoughts and prayers are with you guys!

Wade Massey

April 17, 2014

Boo and Flora, I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine the pain you must feel. My heat felt prayers are with you. Please God give this wonderful family the strength to get through this time of need. I love you all.

Steven and Tina Coombs

April 17, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. Barry was a good person and full of joy every time you would see him. He will be greatly missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are will you all

Jennifer M

April 17, 2014

Hard to grasp still that you are gone. Heaven sure has gained one loving angel. My heart thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Dawn Fonville

April 17, 2014

Peace and love to Jonda and her family. Press on.

Beverly Woolard

April 17, 2014

So sorry about Barry. My prayer are with you and your family.

Cathy Holden

April 16, 2014

Jonda, I was so sad to hear about Barry's passing. He was such a great person to know. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time of your life.

Adam Collins

April 16, 2014

Barry, it was a pleasure knowing you for the short time that I did. You were a very softspoken guy but a warrior in the boxing ring. Angels in heaven can rest easy knowing they have you on their side. Rest easy big man.

Ashley Dunn

April 16, 2014

I just can't believe you are gone. I never dreamed that your life would end so soon, but your legacy will live on through all of the people you trained and touched with your big heart. Rest easy, Gentle Giant. I Love and miss you already, Love Snore :)

April 16, 2014

Prayers for Family and friends and this difficult time. Mike attaway

Teresa Beamon

April 16, 2014

We are sorry for your loss. Know that you all are in our prayers!

Kelly Parrish

April 16, 2014

I'm still in shock as I write this. Its so hard to believe you're gone. You were a true friend to every one you met and you never had anything bad to say about anyone. I will always remember your kindness and all those laughs and smiles you gave all of us hanging around kites growing up. I pray and always will continue to pray for peace for your beautiful wife and for your sister Jenna. As well as the rest of your family and friends that will miss you dearly. Keep that beautiful, sweet, genuine smile shining down on all of us.

ashley tutor

April 16, 2014

Barry, you are never forgotten. Your light will shine on in our hearts and minds forever.

Phyllis New

April 16, 2014

My condolence and prayers are with your family. I was so sorry to hear of your Loss.

Leigh Wade-Vickers

April 16, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Leigh Wade Vickers

David Nobles

April 16, 2014

Very saddened to hear of Barrys passing. My condolences and prayers to all of his family. I've always considered you all part of my own family. To have grown up with, and along side Barry was not only a privilege, but an honor. Glad to have called him a friend. My family and church in Texas sends prayers for Gods hands to cover your family for much comfort, in this time of mourning. What a legacy Barry created. Love you all, Misty, Addi, and David Nobles

buddy woolard

April 16, 2014

Iam sorry u r gone u alway be remembered heaven gained a really awesome person we will always see u again my prayers goes to ur wife and ur family

Victoria Ratchford

April 16, 2014

Thinking of you all my prayers are with you

Carol Holmes

April 16, 2014

I will always love you all.

Carol Holmes

April 16, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Carol Holmes

Brent & Natalie Engelman

April 16, 2014

We were deeply saddened to hear the news of Barry's passing...praying for the entire family as you deal with his tragic loss.

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