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David Eckberg Obituary

NEW BERN - David Edward Eckberg, MD passed away Wednesday, May 17, 2012, at the age of 69. His struggle with Lou Gehrig's Disease lasted about three years, which, unfortunately, caused him to withdraw socially from his friends.

David was born in Florence Crittenden Home in Fargo, North Dakota, January 15, 1943, and was adopted on May 1st, 1943 by Ted and Sue Eckberg, the parents he referred to as his "real" parents. His mother, Sue, was a nurse instructor, and his father, Ted, owned the local Kenmare, North Dakota newspaper, and, also, was a county commissioner.

His biological parents were Dorothy Arlene Williams and Kenneth Midstokke. David filled many of his homebound days doing genealogy research, and discovered that he was 50% Norwegian, 25% Welsh and 25% Colonial American. His biological father, Kenneth Midstokke, was Norwegian, the son of Olas H. Midstokke (Olaus H. Midstokke) and Emma Borgen. He traced his biological mother's ancestry back to 1620, and found that her ancestors were from Isle of Anglesey, Wales and Colonial America.

David is survived by his wife, Sheryl Statham Eckberg, who, because of her love, devotion and caregiving, allowed David to reside at home, peacefully. Also, he is survived by his son, David Andrew Eckberg and wife, Andrea, and his daughters, Amanda Eckberg Rice and husband Ty, Cynthia Eckberg Weatherington and husband, Tim, and Thea Eckberg Blaufuss and husband, Jon. Also, he is survived by his grandchildren, Grady Eckberg, Anna Grace Eckberg, Cassie Eckberg, Jenna Dudley, David Blaufuss and John Kurtis Blaufuss.

David graduated from The University of North Dakota in 1967 with a Bachelor of Science in Medicine. In 1969, he graduated from Wake Forest University, Bowman Gray School of Medicine, with a degree in Doctor of Medicine. David was a founding partner in New Bern Anesthesia Associates in 1974, and retired from practice in 2005.

David was an avid outdoor enthusiast. Biking was an adventure that he loved passionately. He biked with all four of his children individually, and biked with his wife through numerous countries. He and his wife took up scuba diving and traveled to many remote islands, while David pursued yet another adventure in the underwater world. David was not only an avid outdoorsman, but also, an artist, who not only painted, but was a potter as well.

His love for outdoors took him on many adventurous camping trips throughout the United States, where, he spent much of time, enjoying God's creation, Earth.

A memorial service will be held at Christ Episcopal Church on Monday, May 21, at 2 p.m., with interment to follow in the churchyard. A reception will be held at the Christ Episcopal Church immediately following.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to Christ Episcopal Church, www.christchurchnewbern.com or The ALS Association, Jim "Catfish" Hunter Chapter, 120 Penmarc Drive, Suite 101, Raleigh, NC 27603, www.catfishchapter.org.

Friends are invited to share words of comfort and sign the online guest book by visiting www.pollockbest.com.

Pollock-Best Funerals & Cremations has the honor of serving The Eckberg Family.



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Published by Sun Journal from May 19 to May 22, 2012.

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Maryjane Midstokke

May 29, 2012

My dear cousin David, may your spirit stay forever with us. May God give your wonderful wife & family strength to carry them through until you are together again.

Rianne Bosman

May 27, 2012

Dear Sheryl,
please except my sincere condolences. May God carry and strengthen you and may you find refuge under His wings - Ps 91:4
Praying for you and your family.
All my love

Marsha Eastland

May 22, 2012

Cindy,
It was so good to see you at the service. I loved your daddy; he was always so kind and funny.We called him teddy bear when I worked in PACU with him and he was always so respectful and he always called me Ms. Eastland.Your dad gave me my spinal when I had my first baby and he thought I was crazy for the laughter we shared while I was in labor.I knew that I had missed seeing him riding his bike but had no idea that he was going through so much.Give Sheryl(whom I knew in High School),Thea and all the family my sympathy.Please call me;626-4307. Love you, Marsha

Nancy Holt

May 21, 2012

Sheryl, I am so sorry for loss. Praying for you at this time. May God comfort you always.

May 21, 2012

Sheryl,
What a tragic loss. David sounds like he was such an interesting person. I'm sure he will be missed. Vickie Wood

Faye Johnson

May 21, 2012

I attended Kenmare ND high school with David. We graduated in 1961. He was always so kind, so caring and always a joy to be around. Condolences go out to you and your family

May 20, 2012

Sheryl, I am truly moved by your personal loss of
David. I know you loved him deeply, and were an excellent caregiver in those final years. God bless you and keep you in His loving arms. Call upon me if you are of need. Joel P Lynn

Debbie Travis

May 20, 2012

Sheryl, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart truly breaks for you. Even though there are no words to make this easier, I pray that knowing you are not alone brings you some comfort. You and David were truly blessed to have found each other. My thoughts and prayers are with you friend.

Nanette Ferguson

May 20, 2012

Sheryl, My heart breaks for your loss, I am so sorry. Love you.

Zana Parks

May 20, 2012

Sheryl, you are in my thoughts. David was blessed to have you by his side. In the days to come, may God send you his peace.

May 19, 2012

Dave was such a great neighbor. Sharing his homemade beer as well as his cooking concotions! Sheryl, he loved you so much and you two were the perfect pair. My thoughts are with you.
Martha Matthews

O.P. Howell

May 19, 2012

Sheryl,
So sorry to read about the loss of your husband. May God give you what you need and see you thru this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Paul Howell (formerly from New Bern)

Linda DeGennaro

May 19, 2012

So sorry for your loss. He was always so much fun to work with in years past. Thoughts and prayers for all!!

Nan and Jim Gilbert

May 19, 2012

Sheryl, Jim and I are sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.

Linda Ipock

May 19, 2012

So sorry for you loss! My heart goes out to you and your family during this trying time. Take care.

Brenda Lewis

May 19, 2012

Such wonderful neighbors and friends...their committment to each other was truly an inspiration!

Donna Sandvig

May 19, 2012

Sheryl- our thoughts & prayers are with you & family.

Rosanne & Frank Duffy

May 19, 2012

May God give you the comfort, and strength to get through this time.

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