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Lucy Dunlap Obituary

NEW BERN - Lucy S. Dunlap, 53, died Nov. 10, 2009, at Rex Hospital.

Lucy was the daughter of the late Tyler B. and Virginia S. Dunlap of New Bern. She enjoyed her volunteer work at Trinity United Methodist Church in New Bern where she was a member, the Wake County public library, With Love From Jesus Ministries in Raleigh, and Dorcus Thrift Shop in Cary. Lucy was a friend to everyone she met and is remembered for her love of people, friendly spirit, love of laughter, and her desire to please others.

She is survived by her brother, Tyler, and his wife Charlene; niece, Krista and nephew, Michael; and many beloved aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Services will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 21, 2009, at Trinity United Methodist Church in New Bern, and 2 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 22, at Bethlehem Cemetery in Ansonville.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association by calling 800-242-8721.

Online condolences at cremnc.com.

Arrangements are by the Cremation Society of the Carolinas.

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Published by Sun Journal from Nov. 15 to Nov. 18, 2009.

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November 22, 2009

Tyler,
Beth (Ipock), my sister, and I grew up down the block on Rhem, and we were always happy to see Lucy out and about with your mother. We would often see them together and "catch up" at the grocery store or sometimes at Country Biscuit. They were both lovely people for whom the love will always remain.
Martha I. Raulerson

Janice Tucker

November 19, 2009

Tyler, It is very hard to say good-by to someone you love. My daughter, Debbie Scott, and Lucy were really good friends for a number of years. We have always loved Lucy and your mother. I just pray that God will comfort you and your family during this difficult time.

Karen Smoot

November 18, 2009

Tyler, and Family, Lucy will be greatly missed by all. I will especaily miss my call for the New Year from her. Karen Smoot

Lisa Morton-Toler

November 18, 2009

Tyler,
I have known Lucy and your mom since I was little and lived on Spencer Avenue. Your mom was my 4th grade teacher and my favorite teacher in the world. It is funny how paths cross beacuse I was at Bayview when Ms. Virginia was admitted to the rehab and when I came to Universal, Lucy was part of the family here too. The neat part is that Lucy always remembered me. She always called me Lisa Morton because she remembered my maiden name or she called me Lisa Baker because she remembered my oldest brother's name was Baker. Last year, on Christmas Day, she had gotten a cell phone and she called me to say hello and it made my day!! She was so excited to have her own cell phone. Every once in a while she would call me here at work to say hello and to see how I was doing. I will truly miss her, but I know she is as happy as can be because she is finally back with her mom! Take peace in that.
Lisa Morton Toler (New Bern)

Lisa Toler

November 18, 2009

Tyler, the staff here at Universal still misses Lucy's smile and the way she brightened up the day when she stopped by to visit with Miss Ann. We are deeply saddened by her loss. Lisa Toler, Kim Riggs, Jennifer Bryant

Elizabeth Lyttle

November 18, 2009

Tyler,
I worked with Tanya Roberts and Karen Smoot and knew Lucy well. She was a charming lovely person. I was so sorry to hear she had passed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Know that we loved Lucy and I am sure she is rejoicing in heaven with your mother.
Elizabeth Lyttle

November 17, 2009

Just looking back at my note from yesterday and realized I had not given you any information about contacting me.My email is [email protected]

Betty Jo Pierce/jps

Tara Roach

November 17, 2009

Tyler and Charlene, I had the pleasure of knowing Lucy and your mother. Lucy was always a pleasure to be around her. She always called me "Tana". She was such a blessing to me and many other people. Take comfort in knowing that she was loved by many and will be missed by many.

Tanya Roberts

November 17, 2009

Tyler and Charlene, I was very saddened to hear of Lucy's passing and deeply regret not getting over to Rex to see her. I am certain she and your Mother are together and that alone makes me happy; she did love her Mom! Thank you for sharing Lucy with me over the last several years and know that there is nothng but good memories of Ms. Lucy.

November 16, 2009

Tyler, I remember visiting with you and Lucy many years ago with my mother. We had many good times. For some reason milkshakes come to my mind when I think of you and those rocket shaped glasses we would shake the milk and Icecream in.Hope my memories are not too far off base. Didn't your dad work for Maola? It was a very long time ago. I believe that being around Lucy was one of the reasons I went into nursing. I remember when your Dad had surgery for a brain tumor.I've thought of you all often and happy memories come to mind--so-- remember all the good times. Would love to hear where you are these days. Take care. Love, Betty Jo Pierce/aka Jo Schuchardt

Teresa Talton

November 16, 2009

Tyler, I sorry to hear about Lucy pass. My mother and I was member at Trinity United Methodist church. I remember Lucy and your mother coming to church. Mable and Teresa Talton

Barbara Hair

November 15, 2009

Our Love nad Prayers go to the family. I remember Lucy and her Mother and seeing them together was so special. She was a loving person and will be missed. Barbara @ Graham Hair

Richard Blythe

November 15, 2009

Tyler I am so sorry to hear about Lucy. I know her and your mother were so close. What I remember most was if she saw me she would always want to talk and never forget my name. Our thoughs and prayers are with you and your family. Richard and Betty Blythe

November 15, 2009

Tyler I am so sorry to hear about Lucy. I always saw her with your mother. She never forgot who I was and would make a point to come see me if she saw me somewere. Our prayers are with you and your family. Richard and Betty Blythe

Elizabeth Roberts

November 15, 2009

So sorry to learn of Lucy's passing. I remember Lucy being a happy lady and very close to her mother when I was a caregiver for Ms. Virginia. Precious memories I will always and forever hold.
Elizabeth Herold Roberts

November 15, 2009

Love and prayers
Billy and Pat Vestal

Jeffrey Jernigan

November 15, 2009

Lucy was my special lady. She and I met 34 years ago and we became close friends. We dated almost every week until she had to move to Cary. She was a sweetheart and fun to be with. My heart is very sad at losing her, but I know that she is now in a better place.

Linda Hill

November 15, 2009

Lucy was such a special lady. I knew her mother and know the two of them were so close, and that she missed Virginia very much. They can be together again now.

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