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Melisa Cuthrell Obituary

Melisa Herring Cuthrell, 52, of New Bern, went home to be with the Lord on Saturday, May 19th, 2018. She enjoyed many of the simple things in life, watching a good NASCAR or dirt track race, spending time at the ball field, and giving of her time at Tri-Community Vol. Fire Dept. Although plain-spoken, Melisa had a big heart and an even bigger love for children. This could be seen in every aspect of her life from her Bachelor's Degree in Elementary Education to her time as a teacher at West Craven Middle School and of course, the guidance, care and support she provided her own children. She enjoyed attending Port City Community Church where she served on the "Welcome Team" and kept the "Droplets" on Sunday evenings. Melisa never met a stranger and was a loving wife, an awesome mother, a devoted daughter and special friend to so many ... she will be missed but her legacy lives on in the hearts of those who were blessed to know her.
She is survived by her husband of 26 years, Robbie Cuthrell; three children, Jim DeArmitt, Allison Morton (Josh), and Clay Cuthrell; parents, George and Iris Herring; brother, Vance Herring (Betty); sister, Teri Johnson (Earl); father and mother-in-law, Robert and Shirley Cuthrell; sister-in-law, Jennifer Robison; and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her birth mother, Martha Vandergrift and brother-in-law, Kevin Cuthrell.
The family will receive friends from 10 to 11 a.m. Thursday, May 24th at Port City Community Church, 2840 Neuse Boulevard, New Bern, which will be followed by a celebration of life service beginning at 11 a.m. with Pastor Danny Rogers officiating.
Arrangements are by Cotten Funeral Home & Crematory.

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Published by Sun Journal from May 22 to May 23, 2018.

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ROBIN CLARK

May 28, 2018

You was a great teacher and you was a great person to you are going to be miss and praying for your family

Tina Hennessey

May 27, 2018

I worked at the airport with melissa ....she worked at National Car Rental and i worked at Avis Car rental..... enjoyed working beside her ....so sorry for your loss... Tina Hennessey

May 25, 2018

Melisa will be missed. Robbie and family may god keep you safe in this time of need. we will keep you all in our prayers.

Class of 83 .

Buster

Teresa Caelen

May 24, 2018

sorry that I could not be with you guys today. I still cant believe that Mel is gone :( my heart breaks for you guys. you are in my thoughts and prayers and if you guys need anything just let me know.

Audrey Jones

May 24, 2018

Robbie you your kids and family are in our thoughts and prayers during this time and especially today. We are sorry we couldn't make it today .

Dianne Brideson

May 24, 2018

Got to know her a little when we helped at a home after the hurricane. Also worked with her at "the droplets" during The Drop. She was always laughing and full of life. My heart goes out to the family. Clay was a good friend to my grandson.

Tim Millet

May 23, 2018

Robbie and Clay,
So sorry to hear of Mel's (your Mom's) passing. You're both in my thoughts.
Tim Miller

Tiffany Fairburn

May 23, 2018

Mrs. Mel will be missed dearly by all who knew her! My heart goes out to the whole family!

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Margaret Cuthrell

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Connie Harrington

May 23, 2018

Robbie and all family members, I am still shocked to learn of Mel's passing. I have known her for many years and always, always whenever I saw her she was upbeat and happy no matter what was going on in her life. She was an awesome person and friend and will be missed by many. Rest in Peace Mel!

Delores Showers

May 22, 2018

I worked many years with Mrs.Cuthrell at West Craven M.School, I was sorry to hear of her passing. I will keep the family in my prayers.

Tim/Suzanne Stewart

May 22, 2018

To the Cuthrell and Herring family,
We are so sorry for your loss. I have known Mel almost all my life. She was an outstanding person who will be truly missed by all. Our heart and prayers go out to the entire family. God speed Mel, I hope you will be my guardian Angel!

May 22, 2018

Melisa, will be missed by so many such a wonderful person and woman of GOD. R.I.P Praying for the Cuthrell family during this time.

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