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John Downes Obituary

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John Edward Downes passed away peacefully on January 1, 2024 after a wonderful, blessed life. John, or Joe to family and friends, was born in New Britain, CT and had recently celebrated his 87th birthday. He is the brother to Eleanor Downes Bouchard and the son of the late Frank Downes and Eleanor Mabee Downes. John will be greatly missed by his loving wife of 63 years, Mary Ann Lynch Downes, and his adoring children and spouses Patrick and Allison Hudson Downes, Maribeth and Greg Macko, John and Kim Downes, Susan and Mark Bavaro, Eleanor Kelly, and Carrie and Peter Cerrato. Cherished as "King," he was loved and respected by all of his sixteen surviving grandchildren Christian, Ryan and Amelia Downes, Lexie and Gregory Macko, John, Erin and Matthew Downes, Grace, Dominic, and Lucas Bavaro, Elizabeth and Frances Cerrato, Dillon, Tatum, and Shane Kelly and his recently deceased grandson Finnegan Kelly, as well as his great grandchild Cecilia Bavaro Loveday, and his many nieces and nephews.

John, or Joe to family and friends, grew up in New Britain, CT, and went to high school at the Taft School and graduated from the University of Notre Dame. He was proud of his education and loved following the Fighting Irish wherever they went, in winning and losing seasons both, and where he made lifelong friends with whom he shared his passion for fun, family, and never saying "no" to whatever came his way- unless asked "if he had enough." After graduating from college, John went to work from the ground up at Frank Downes Construction Co. in New Britain, where he grew the company as president to prominence and proudly retired after 50 years when he happily stepped aside to transition to traveling with friends and family to his favorite places in Florida, Rhode Island, Nantucket, New York City, Phoenix, Chicago, and various capitals of Europe. John and Mary Ann raised their family in West Hartford, making enduring friendships. Their children flourished with their neighbors in an idyllic setting. Never one to leave a party first, John enjoyed numerous activities like playing cribbage, bridge, and golfing as a member and instrumental board member of Shuttle Meadow Country Club in Kensington, Ct and at Indian Creek Country Club in Bal Harbour, FL, where he was also a member of the Board of Directors for over five years. He also loved to ski at Okemo Mountain, where he served on the Board of Directors, and where the family spent abundant holidays and vacations skiing, playing charades, playing bumper pool, and listening and dancing to the music of Neil Diamond, Roger Whitaker, and Don McLean. Although his work in this life is done, those who knew King were fortunate to have learned numerous valuable lessons from him on love, and laughter, and how to live to the fullest, without any regrets. Those who've taken his lessons to heart will continue to hold John in their spirit forever and remember him as a man of adventure, loyalty, kindness, and love. Visiting hours will be on Friday, January 5th from 4:00-7:00 pm at the Farrell Funeral Home 110 Franklin Square, New Britain, CT. Friends and family are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Paul's Church, 485 Alling Street, Kensington at 10:00AM on Saturday, January 6th. Burial will follow in Maple Cemetery, 1165 Worthington Ridge, Berlin. Memorial donations may be made to The Hospital for Special Care- HFSC.org;2150 Corbin Avenue, New Britain CT, 06053, and the Cerebral Palsy Foundation, 3 Columbus Circle, 15th Floor, NY, NY 10019 in honor of John and his angelic grandchild Finn, who he joins now in heaven. To send a condolence or share a memory, please visit, www.FarrellFuneralHome.com

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Published by The New Britain Herald on Jan. 4, 2024.

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Marjorie Macko

February 24, 2024

By knowing your family I know you were a good family man because they are all great people!

Lee Smith

January 15, 2024

A Taft classmate who enjoyed and envied his quick and finr Irish wit. Lee Smith

Maureen Owen

January 11, 2024

Dear Mary Ann and the entire Downes extended family,
I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. I always enjoyed seeing you both during your meetings at my former employer, talking to John on the phone and working on your files. (I have to admit it was clients like you that made my decision to leave my former employer extremely difficult.) John always imparted me with some important words of wisdom about life, money, etc. at the end of our phone conversations. He was truly one special man! May your memories of your best times with John help you through the difficult days ahead.
With deepest sympathies,
Maureen Owen

Ray Cusick

January 9, 2024

Mary Ann, we are sorry to hear of John´s passing. We enjoy the time we spent together with you both when you lived up here at the Reservoir. John was a wonderful man.

Eileen & Ray Cusick

Jeffrey A. Gebrian

January 8, 2024

Dear Downes Family; We are very sorry to learn of John's passing. May all of the many loving memories you have of him be a blessing forever. Jeffrey and Robin Gebrian

Pierre Guertin

January 7, 2024

John, Kim, Mrs Downes and the entire Downes family. So many memories to remind you of a life well lived. I had the opportunity to lead audit services to Downes Construction many years ago. While John had questions about the process, he was always respectful of our role, demonstrating an integrity not consistently seen in business circles. With heartfelt sympathies,
Pierre & MaryEllen Guertin

Michelle Macko

January 6, 2024

Loved life

Raj

January 6, 2024

Mrs. Downes, Patrick and to the entire Downs family. I speak for your friends at the Sea View. We are saddened by your loss. John ( licence plate D ) will be missed.... In his cabana, in the snackbar, around the pool and on the Terrace. I fondly recall the few, fun rounds of golf and our handshake greeting " you got to buy a ticket."

Michelle Macko

January 6, 2024

Dear Mrs. Downes & family
Very sorry to hear of Mr. Downes sudden passing. Stay strong & positive. May he rest in peace.no

Joan Cole

January 6, 2024

Mary Anne, Our deepest sympathy to you and family. It was our great pleasure to share times with you and Joe in Old Saybrook. Sending love, Joan and Ed

Karen Vigurs-Stack

January 5, 2024

The King was a legend. My sincere condolences to the entire Downes family. Some of my fondest childhood memories include Susie and her parents Mary Ann & Joe!

The Ruocco Family

January 5, 2024

Dear Ms. Bavaro, We are all deeply saddened to learn of the loss of your beloved father. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Andrew Ruocco

January 5, 2024

Dear Ms. Bavaro, I am terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your father. He sounds like an amazing man. Please accept my deepest sympathies and prayers for your family.

David Crandall

January 4, 2024

MaryAnn
Working with your husband during our projects at Hospital for Special Care was one of the best times of my life. He taught me so much and more importantly kept me at ease during adventurous times. John demonstrated himself as a great man in every aspect of his life. What I loved the most about him was his love of family.
God bless you and your family

FIP Construction

January 4, 2024

With the deepest of sympathies for the entire Downes family at this time but also a beaming respect to a man who did so many good things for the Connecticut construction industry and affected the lives of many in this field in a such a positive way. Bill Hardy/Dan Burns and all of us at FIP.

Farrell Funeral Home

January 4, 2024

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

Bob Cowhey

January 2, 2024

Mary Ann,
I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was always at the heart of any gathering or party. Our visits with both of you in Florida or Chicago were very special. My thoughts and prayers for you and your beautiful family. Bob Cowhey

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