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Robert Burden Obituary

Robert Burns Burden
Robert "Bob" Burden passed away on July 4, 2023. He was the devoted husband of Cynthia (Carlson) Burden.Bob was born in New Milford on February 16, 1936, son of the late Clarence and C. Elvira (Beaton) Burden. A graduate of New Milford High School, Class of 1954, he went on to serve in the U.S. Army and was honorably discharged. Bob was employed for 35 years by the Connecticut Department of Transportation as a Construction Engineer, retiring in 1992. He was very involved in the community over the years as an active member of St. Peter's Masonic Lodge #21 in New Milford, was a leader of the New Milford 4-H Dairy Club, and was a member of the Litchfield County 4-H Foundation. Bob was a former president of the Bridgewater Center Cemetery, secretary of the Bridgewater Historical Society, and volunteered at the Bridgewater Fair. Bob loved singing in the choir, in both the First Congregational Church of New Milford and the Bridgewater Congregational Church. His bass voice is missed by many.
Bob's family would like to acknowledge the staff at Village Crest Nursing Home for their care and compassion given to Bob during his stay. Bob is survived by his wife, Cynthia (Carlson) Burden, his children, Deborah Buczek of Texas, Pamela Downs of Warren, Alicia Lord of Virginia, Catherine Flynn of Bridgewater, and Joan Rich of Rhode Island, his sister, Doris Curtiss of New Milford, his brother, Donald Burden of New Jersey, seven grandchildren, thirteen great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.
Calling hours were held at Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge Street, New Milford, on Sunday, July 9, from 5-7 p.m. The funeral was held at the funeral home on Monday, July 10, at 10:00 a.m. Burial followed in Bridgewater South Cemetery. Contributions in Bob's memory may be made to Bridgewater Congregational Church Book of Remembrance, or St. Peter's Lodge #21.

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Published by New Milford Spectrum on Jul. 8, 2023.

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Patty Caldwell Pitkin

April 21, 2024

Cynthia, I just found out about Bobby Burden. You had a wonderful life together and our hearts go out to you. Miss seeing you now that we are in Pennsylvania. Love, Patty Caldwell Pitkin

Hal and Jan Kamm

July 14, 2023

Bob was a kind and gentle man, who lived a life of service and caring. Our heartfelt sympathies go out to Cynthia and the entire Burden family.

Laura Marek

July 10, 2023

I remember working with Bob on the Northeast 4-H Volunteer Leader Forums. He chaired the one in CT when we were the host state. Several of us traveled to other states to learn how the event was done. I had Bob on a bicycle on the boardwalk when we were in New Jersey, and one of us had a flat tire (I think it was me) Fun times!

gail giddings

July 7, 2023

Bob was one of the nicest men I have ever known. We shared the same Birthday. We go way back. And have made a lot of memories. My heart goes out to his lovely wife, Cindy, and his family.
I will miss sending him his Birthday card every year.
Rest in Peace.
Gail, Larry and family

Tim McMullin

July 7, 2023

My sincere sympathies to you Cynthia and all of Bob's family. He was a great friend and will be missed. Also, Bob will be remembered for his service and fellowship to his brothers at St. Peter's Lodge #21 in New Milford, as well as Masons beyond. Always the gentleman, who lived in admiration and regrettably has passed on.

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Daniel Nichols

July 6, 2023

RWB Bob was a mentor to many masons at St. Peter´s Lodge No.21. His guidance and helpful hands will be greatly missed. Deepest condolences to the Burden family.

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